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10 Ways To Propose To Your Lover Creatively by Jose35(m): 5:00pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
I have accumulated a list of ways that you can propose to your lover creatively. I advice that only confident men use some of these approaches. Tell me what you think. 1. Propose inside the church after Mass or other church ceremony. If you're the religious type, go to church as you normally do every Sunday. This time, however, something extraordinary is in store for her. You can even get your friends in on the act if wished, and even the church ministry and musicians. Ask the preacher or the presider to include you in the church program after the mass. This way, the congregation stays behind, in anticipation of what you are about to do. You can start pitching in your romantic message while the church musicians play something solemn in the background. Once you’re done, it’s now time for you to kneel down, pull the ring out and pop the question, “Will you marry me?” 2. Propose at the place where you first met her. This one doesn’t need a lot of preparation simply because the place you’re taking her is already special by itself. Make it simple by casually inviting her out, don’t tell her where you’re going but just take her there. When you’re finally at that special place, start talking about the time you first met. What you thought about her, what made you like her, how she makes you feel. Also talk about good and difficult moments you spent with her and how much more willing you are to go through even more difficult times, as long as it’s with her. It’s time to grab her attention and to get her to focus on you, pull out your ring and ask her what you’ve been meaning to ask her: “Will you marry me?” 3. Propose using an audio-visual presentation you personally made. Compile photos and videos of the two of you together. Using your friendly video editing software, make a photo montage which includes a few video clips of you together and burn the film on a blank DVD CD. Tell her using the video captions just how much she means to you. At the end of the presentation, show the question “Will you marry me?” in captions with a video clip of you holding a ring. How to approach showing it: Invite her for a DVD marathon; make it's realistic by preparing popcorn and soda. Play the DVD and tell her to just sit back and relax. Of course, she’ll be surprised at what she’ll see, never utter a word and just tell her to continue watching. At the time right before your question pops out on screen, prepare the ring. When the question is flashed on the screen, with the right timing as she turn her head to you, pull out the ring and ask her again, “Will you?” 4. Propose in a nicely set-up hotel room. This one requires a special occasion, maybe her birthday or your birthday; or it could be your anniversary or any other special date that you guys celebrate together. Call or text her on the phone and tell her that you arranged a hotel reservation for the two of you. Inform her what time she needs to be there and give her the hotel room number – leave the door unlocked so she can just walk in. Before she comes, arrange everything – soft, sweet music playing in the background, a trail of scattered rose petals leading to the balcony and a table for two with champagne and strawberries. When she’s finally standing at that very spot, say a few words about what’s happening, take a few steps towards her while pulling out the ring from your pocket, kneel down, take her hand and ask her, “Will you give me the honor of being your husband?” 5. Propose using a scavenger hunt game. A scavenger game is sort of a treasure hunting game with map, clues, and all. You can plan a game like this and make her play it. You can also include your friends and tell them all about your plan so they can cooperate with you. It doesn’t have to be on a special occasion; just tell her it’s a weekend activity which you think would be fun to do together. Don’t make the questions too difficult so you won’t be waiting too long at the other end. While she’s out going all over the place, you can prepare the end spot. It can be at the beach, in a restaurant, a hotel room or anywhere you fancy. When she’s finally found you using the map, clues and hints you gave her, give her a reward she’ll never forget – hand her a small box with a ring inside. She’ll be asking “Is this what I think it is?” That’s you cue to start kneeling down and ask her your question. A variation to this can be a geocaching exercise where the ring is hidden somewhere safe and she has to follow all the clues. 6. Propose using an aerial banner. An aerial banner, ad or message is a long streamer attached to the back of an airplane. These can be seen at beaches, athletic events and/or open areas. Contact an aerial advertising company and pitch-in your idea to them. They will be glad to help you plan the whole thing. All you will need to do now is to take her to that special place. With the right timing, kneeling down or standing up, take her hand and ask your question. 7. Propose during half-time game. All you need is your favorite game, a field, a ring and a few inside connections. Take her to watch your favorite game. It can be anything from baseball to football. During the half-time break, instead of showing an intermission number or after an intermission number, ask if you can have at least five minutes of their time. After making the arrangements, all you need to do is prepare a short speech and gather a lot of courage to pop the question, “Will you marry me?” 8. Propose on live television. There are a number of TV shows and games out there and you can be sure that most of them will be more than willing to participate as this will add drama to their show. The easiest would be to join a game show. Of course, you won’t really be joining for the pot money. Before going on, talk to the host backstage to give you at least three minutes to make your speech. Win or lose the game, you still get the girl! 9. Propose during breakfast in bed. This one is great for a weekend away or a weekend when she stays over. This approach won't suit everyone (it depends on whether you're already sharing intimacy or not) but it can be a lovely way to wake up! The key to a successful wedding proposal is the element of surprise, so avoid giving out hints about your plan of proposing. Get out of bed early before she does, fix a lovely breakfast for her. Make it look special by adding a rose and maybe scattering a few petals in the bed and getting everything ready just before she wakes up. When she’s up, she’ll be wondering what the special occasion is. That’s your cue to start telling her how special she is while you slowly kneel down on the floor beside the bed, open that small special box and ask her your question, “Will you marry me?” 10. Propose while announcing a holiday you have paid for as a surprise. Take her somewhere which has a lot of sentimental value or a romantic place, perfect for her (remember its about her happiness not yours). Once you have surprised her with her holiday give her, her ticket, but not the real one. Have a fake ticket with the words "will you marry me" typed on them, or just write the words on an old ticket. 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Ways To Propose To Your Lover Creatively by Hopez456(m): 5:28pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
I keep wondering why ladies have to be proposed to. The two, since they are in a relationship should go ahead and plan their wedding instead of visiting a place or planning a sort big surprise in order to propose. I believe that the ultimate reason for agreeing to a relationship is marriage. I find it weird and amusing. |
Re: 10 Ways To Propose To Your Lover Creatively by Dygeasy(m): 5:55pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Hopez456:The same thing answers the question of why you have to keep impressing your wife. Aren't you already married? Exactly! I wouldn't propose to any lady if I wasn't sure she'd say yes but I would still propose. In fact possibly before hundreds of people. Why? To make her feel special. It's all due to a little thing called ROMANCE. |
Re: 10 Ways To Propose To Your Lover Creatively by charijee(f): 6:01pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Who will I propose to now? |
Re: 10 Ways To Propose To Your Lover Creatively by DanceVille: 6:32pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
charijee:Hmmm...Why dnt you try me, Miss |
Re: 10 Ways To Propose To Your Lover Creatively by DanceVille: 6:35pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
@Op...Try spacing ur Write-up, it's very difficult to Read... Nyc write up.... |
Re: 10 Ways To Propose To Your Lover Creatively by charijee(f): 7:39pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
DanceVille:For real!! Are you game? |
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