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There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bettercreature(m): 10:22am On Apr 14, 2015
Strictly for young,rich, Married guys....
I am not trying to encourage cheating but lets try to make some senses here,there is nothing much to do with MONEY if you are not cheating your wife AND life is boring,under normal circumstances,a sane hard working guy will surely cheat rather than having many baby mama or having many women under the same roof like its done in the north
What am trying to say is there is nothing bad in having a SIDE CHICK as long as you are very hard working,love your wife,and you make it known to the side chick that you are just in for the fun of it

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Oahray: 10:31am On Apr 14, 2015
A classic example of a guy whose only functional head is down south.

Would you justify cheating when it's your girl that does it?

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Rexhenrex(m): 10:34am On Apr 14, 2015
i never knew u are as stupid as u look.grin no offence meant

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by naijaboiy: 10:35am On Apr 14, 2015
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by FLAWLES(f): 10:37am On Apr 14, 2015
Wat is this ONE saying? If u ah a married man and wanto spend ur money,Nigga don't u have kids? Take them out,spend ur money on ur wife,take ur kids shopping infact carry ur mama pack ur sisters and infact ur neighbours shopping; mtwwwwwws

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bettercreature(m): 10:42am On Apr 14, 2015
MONOGAMY IS FAILING MEN AND WHY ITS GOOD TO CHEAT
Not only is it failing them, but it's a "socially compelled sexual incarceration" that can lead to a life of anger and contempt, or so says Eric Anderson, an American sociologist at England's University of Winchester and author of the provocative new book, The Monogamy Gap: Men, Love, and the Reality of Cheating (Oxford University Press, $49.99).

Cheating, however, serves men pretty well. An undiscovered affair allows them to keep their relationship and emotional intimacy, and even if they're busted it's a lot easier than admitting that they wanted to screw someone else in the first place, he writes.
MONOGAMY IS FAILING MEN AND WHY ITS GOOD TO CHEAT
In his study of 120 undergraduate men, 78 percent of those who had a partner cheated, "even though they said that they loved and intended to stay with their partner." Contrary to what we may think, most men aren't cheating because they don't love their partner, he says; they cheat because they just want to have sex with others. And society shouldn't pooh-pooh that.

Monogamy's stronghold on our beliefs -- what he calls monogamism -- brings ostracism and judgment to anyone who questions or strays from its boundaries. That doesn't make sense to Anderson, who wonders why we stigmatize someone who has a fling more than couples who divorce -- throwing away a marriage rich in history and love, upsetting their kids' lives -- over something like sex.

Monogamy isn't the only "proper" way to be in a relationship, and he says it's time that society finds "multiple forms of acceptable sexual relationship types -- including sexually open relationships -- that coexist without hierarchy or hegemony." It's especially important for today's young men, for whom monogamous sex seems more boring than in generations past because of easy premarital sex and pornography.

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by ronald4lif(m): 10:43am On Apr 14, 2015
I find some sense in what he's trying to say. As much as we may hate to admit it when you got some money to spend one of the easiest and suitable way to do so is by flexing. We all know without flexing with women sometimes one feel like they don't get much value for their money or it's not well spent. Marriage doesn't change most men who are so into flexing.

Ever wonder why most of those rich men have many side chicks? As absurd as it sounds that's the sad reality. Admit it or not na you sabi.

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bettercreature(m): 10:46am On Apr 14, 2015
Oahray:
A classic example of a guy whose only functional head is down south.

Would you justify cheating when it's your girl that does it?
Men are natural Leader

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bettercreature(m): 10:51am On Apr 14, 2015
FLAWLES:
Wat is this ONE saying? If u ah a married man and wanto spend ur money,Nigga don't u have kids? Take them out,spend ur money on ur wife,take ur kids shopping infact carry ur mama pack ur sisters and infact ur neighbours shopping; mtwwwwwws
After everything nko? what are you going to do with the remaining non-stop cash inflow?

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Oahray: 11:09am On Apr 14, 2015
bettercreature:
Men are natural Leader
*sigh* how does this even remotely answer my question?

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 11:15am On Apr 14, 2015
No problem provided you won't complain if your wife have side bobo.

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by delishpot: 11:17am On Apr 14, 2015
And what will your now rich wife be doing when you are out cheating?
Anyhoe, just remember God when you are cheating. Dont say no one told you about judgement day.

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bettercreature(m): 11:29am On Apr 14, 2015
Vickybee:
No problem provided you won't complain if your wife have side bobo.
Men and women are not equal atleast not in a sane world or have you ever seen a woman with 2 or 3 husband?

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by ronald4lif(m): 11:32am On Apr 14, 2015
bettercreature:
Men and women are not equal atleast not in a sane world or have you ever seen a woman with 2 or 3 husband?

Very poor defence from you. But I'll just grab popcorn and wait for her reaction to this. Going to be interesting.
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Oahray: 11:33am On Apr 14, 2015
bettercreature:
Men and women are not equal atleast not in a sane world or have you ever seen a woman with 2 or 3 husband?
Google 'polyandry' bro. Ignorance is curable even if chauvinism isn't.

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bettercreature(m): 11:37am On Apr 14, 2015
Oahray:
Google 'polyandry' bro. Ignorance is curable even if chauvinism isn't.
Not in a SANE world!!,i'm not talking about fiction,give me a country that tolerate Polyandry

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 11:37am On Apr 14, 2015
bettercreature:
Strictly for young,rich, Married guys....
I am not trying to encourage cheating but lets try to make some senses here,there is nothing much to do with MONEY if you are not cheating your wife AND life is boring,under normal circumstances,a sane hard working guy will surely cheat rather than having many baby mama or having many women under the same roof like its done in the north
What am trying to say is there is nothing bad in having a SIDE CHICK as long as you are very hard working,love your wife,and you make it known to the side chick that you are just in for the fun of it

If you love your wife you wont have side chic
2. Y not be single n carry all the side chics u want u men are horrible .. The poor woman sitting there so can she have sude man ?
3. U call that love
4. U think providing money for ur wife is everything but u disrespect her daily even the bible shows that adam respect eve u see adam with side chic ??


Thank God ur based in nigeria men , u guys dont know what love is
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 11:38am On Apr 14, 2015
Oahray:
A classic example of a guy whose only functional head is down south.

Would you justify cheating when it's your girl that does it?

Can u imagine ...

Its his chic i feel sorry for .. Just dont spread infection n infect ur innicent wife @ Op
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by ronald4lif(m): 11:39am On Apr 14, 2015
Lala247:


If you love your wife you wont have side chic
2. Y not be single n carry all the side chics u want u men are horrible .. The poor woman sitting there so can she have sude man ?
3. U call that love
4. U think providing money for ur wife is everything but u disrespect her daily even the bible shows that adam respect eve u see adam with side chic ??


Thank God ur based in nigeria men , u guys dont know what love is

Lala is vexing. Someone got on those nerves? cheesy
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bettercreature(m): 11:40am On Apr 14, 2015
Lala247:


Can u imagine ...

Its his chic i feel sorry for .. Just dont spread infection n infect ur innicent wife @ Op
You ladies are the source of all this problem,as long as a guy is rich,even if he is introvert you ladies will seduce him
Rich guys are not even safe in the church

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 11:40am On Apr 14, 2015
Lala247:


If you love your wife you wont have side chic
2. Y not be single n carry all the side chics u want u men are horrible .. The poor woman sitting there so can she have sude man ?
3. U call that love
4. U think providing money for ur wife is everything but u disrespect her daily even the bible shows that adam respect eve u see adam with side chic ??


Thank God ur based in nigeria men , u guys dont know what love is
Hehehe... Based-in-Nigeria man! That dude must be thinking what is wrong with me for being based in Nigeria. Senselessness, primitiveness and diseases. Don't let that guy hang himself up! Bwahaha...
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 11:41am On Apr 14, 2015
ronald4lif:


Lala is vexing. Someone got on those nerves? cheesy

Hmmm u know me

Nothing more i hate to see than a worthless man .. Kmt think his a real man with mentality of a 14 year old
I just hate nigerian men dat r wicked to women.. Its sad man .. Y marry or have bae if u want side chic like soo stweepid
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by TheSonOfMark(m): 11:41am On Apr 14, 2015
bettercreature:
Strictly for young,rich, Married guys....
I am not trying to encourage cheating but lets try to make some senses here,there is nothing much to do with MONEY if you are not cheating your wife AND life is boring,under normal circumstances,a sane hard working guy will surely cheat rather than having many baby mama or having many women under the same roof like its done in the north
What am trying to say is there is nothing bad in having a SIDE CHICK as long as you are very hard working,love your wife,and you make it known to the side chick that you are just in for the fun of it


[size=14pt] Sir, you need a psychologist!

Setting out consciously to cheat depicts you as someone who's got loyalty issues. [/size]
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by K9blunt(f): 11:41am On Apr 14, 2015
op if you want to cheat, go ahead and stop justifying what is clearly and indisputably WRONG!

if you're rich and don't know what to do with you ever pumping money, give quarter of you money to the less previlage, donate to animal shelters and open a scholarship foundation or whatever , try these for like 5years and come back to thank me later.

oniranu jati jati. mtchww.

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 11:42am On Apr 14, 2015
all4naija:
Hehehe... Based-in-Nigeria man! That dude must be thinking what is wrong with me for being based in Nigeria. Senselessness, primitiveness and diseases. Don't let that guy hang himself up! Bwahaha...

Lol he thing this is 1500bc ... 2o15 n his talking like a kid
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 11:43am On Apr 14, 2015
Lalasticlala ishilove abeg give him front page so that when we all finish with him he will dump all his side chics smiley
He needs serious therapy
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 11:44am On Apr 14, 2015
bettercreature:
Men and women are not equal atleast not in a sane world or have you ever seen a woman with 2 or 3 husband?
Seeing a man with 2 or 3 wives make it an insane world.

Women are equal to men.

Get that!
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bettercreature(m): 11:44am On Apr 14, 2015
K9blunt:
op if you want to cheat, go ahead and stop justifying what is clearly and indisputably WRONG!

if you're rich and don't know what to do with you ever pumping money, give quarter of you money to the less previlage, donate to animal shelters and open a scholarship foundation or whatever , try these for like 5years and come back to thank me later.

oniranu jati jati. mtchww.
As Tiger wood donated half of his wealth to charity ?

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by bettercreature(m): 11:45am On Apr 14, 2015
Vickybee:

Seeing a man with 2 or 3 wives make it an insane world.

Women are equal to men.

Get that!
Only on the paper,women are not equal to men anywhere

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 11:46am On Apr 14, 2015
bettercreature:
You ladies are the source of all this problem,as long as a guy is rich,even if he is introvert you ladies will seduce him
Rich guys are not even safe in the church

Wich ladies wt thise small smal girl

I make my own money no guy cant intice with any change .. Like rlly so now its the ladies fault


Oga abeg take a seat ..
Ur not ready for relationship just dey play dey go till u get disease go and ask ur friends in SA nah so HIV they spread
Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by Nobody: 11:47am On Apr 14, 2015
Lala247:


If you love your wife you wont have side chic
2. Y not be single n carry all the side chics u want u men are horrible .. The poor woman sitting there so can she have sude man ?
3. U call that love
4. U think providing money for ur wife is everything but u disrespect her daily even the bible shows that adam respect eve u see adam with side chic ??


Thank God ur based in nigeria men , u guys dont know what love is
Sorry to disappoint you, it is not a Nigerian thing. Even in the western world, it is a fact that most is not all rich men do cheat

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Re: There Is Nothing Much To Do With Money If You Are Not Cheating Your Wife by ronald4lif(m): 11:48am On Apr 14, 2015
Lala247:


Hmmm u know me

Nothing more i hate to see than a worthless man .. Kmt think his a real man with mentality of a 14 year old
I just hate nigerian men dat r wicked to women.. Its sad man .. Y marry or have bae if u want side chic like soo stweepid

Hehe! Calm down biko.

At first I thought the OP was trying to state why rich men cheat, doesn't necessarily mean he's justifying it. Which I made some sense out of it. You know, one can give reasons why kidnapping or boko haram keeps recruiting more almajiris for example, doesn't mean they are sympathetic to these set of idiots struggle. But I lost touch and was surprised at his response to Vicky.

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