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My Love,my Life And My World by kingjooo(m): 11:30am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Please my fellow nairalanders am desperately in need of your advice,because i'm at the verge of comitting suicide as i'm typing with tears in my eyes now. My name is Johnson,i met my fiancee when i went to a polytechnic in Benue state.She is everytin i want in a woman and i intend spending the rest of my life with her,after dating her for good six yrs i finally introduced her to my parents last wednesday.Since then its been hell on earth for me because of their reactions towards her.The only crime my fiancee comitted is the fact that she is of a different language and my parent has already vowed that since i'm not ready to pick a wife within my vessinity i would marry my fiancee over their dead body.Please friends i need your advice on this issue because i can't imagine myself living without this woman.Pls is marrying outside my tribe a sin? and is performing the marital right without my parents a sin?.Pls friends i need your advice because my life is gradually coming to an end.pls forgive my typing mode because am presently dying!!! |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by sucreblazing(m): 11:39am On Apr 13, 2015 |
smiles .... Na every day people dey bring there love issues to nairaland Johnson if u are man enough and u know u love this bae GO FOR IT ...se Na ur family wan dey live with am ni? if u like kill your sef, I swear down the kin fuuucking Wey another guy go give this your bae ehn? your soul for heaven no go fit withstand am !!! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by kingjooo(m): 11:45am On Apr 13, 2015 |
sucreblazing:@sucreblazing my question is;is it bad going on with the marital rites without my biological parent? |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by sucreblazing(m): 12:03pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
kingjooo: I don't know the tribe u are from and I don't know the kind of familly rite you perform in your familly before marriage but my own opinion is..since u claim to love the bae,and she means everything to you, I will advice u to marry her on a lowkey with out your family knowing. that is, if there is no family rite NEEDED |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by kingjooo(m): 12:23pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Tnx@sucreblazing am Igala nd She z Idoma. Marital rites like paying of bride price |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by sucreblazing(m): 12:34pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
kingjooo: if u believe she is the best for u kindly go ahead Na only u go stay with her not your family 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by Uniquexty(f): 3:28pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Parental consent is very necessary. Just like you, i had a six years inter-tribal/religious relationship. We finally woke up to reality last month. Sometimes, Love is not just enough. You have to listen to the wisdom from your heart. One day, you'll wake up and ask yourself how you got to this point, and by that time, you've lost your family. I suggest you hang on and try to comvince your parents. Make them understand that you need their support in this next phase in your life. And be fervent in prayers. Remember what God did for Mary when Joseph decided to put her away. God can still speak to your parents the way he spoke to Joseph. The heart of the king is in his hands. I wish you all the best. And pray she stays strong throughout the fight. I wish mine had 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by Nobody: 4:06pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
@Uniquexty has said it all.. Try and convince your parents, let them see the kind of joy the lady brings to your life..You can go and talk to your uncle or whoever, who will in turn convince your parents. .. Both of you really have to be strong during this period... All the best.. @Uniquexty, sorry for what happened, hope you have moved on? It's really sad how parents frustrate their children all because of ethnic differences.. |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by Uniquexty(f): 4:43pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:Yeaa, am hanging on. Its very difficult especially when the guy moves on and begins flaunting a new girl. It makes me feel like the past years was a dream 1 Like |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by bukatyne(f): 5:01pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Uniquexty: So sad, it is well It hurts a lot Lucky you found out this before marriage... who knows why your parents sticked to no? ![]() @OP: You need your parents to be on the same page with you. Have you prayed about the matter? |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by Nobody: 5:13pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
all because she's from another tribe ? they want you to find another girl in your vicinity as if true love is so easy to find. if you're sure you've found it ( and after 6 yrs you should know ), hold onto her 1 Like |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by kingjooo(m): 5:31pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
@Uniquexty nd everyone dat has contributed to this thread may d almighty God bless nd grant us all our heart desires.Dis is a very big issue i will neva stop praying about it,is either her or i leave this misserable nd sorrowful world |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by Nobody: 6:02pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
kingjooo:Man, you have to take it easy and slowly.. There are other things to this life.... Uniquexty:Don't hang on gal, just move on... It's obvious he has moved on, do same... who knows maybe God prevented you from a life of misery.. You parted ways just last month and he's already flaunting a new babe? Isn't it fishy? I think you should thank God and move on!!!....Just try and make yourself happy, Love will definitely come your way again dear.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by Nobody: 6:32pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
awwhh , sorry girl. some guys get a new chick quickly after a relationship ends not 'cus they're over you but 'cus they need someone to help fill the void you've left in them. it's just a guy's way of handling a breakup. you were together for 6 yrs , don't think he's over you already. she's only a rebound chick, he still thinks of you , trust me . it is disrespectful to you to be flaunting her around you but you can't control his actions. you two had your reasons for breaking up , do ya best to forget him, with time ya will . chin up Uniquexty: 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by Dyt(f): 6:48pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
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Re: My Love,my Life And My World by MARKone(m): 7:21pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
kingjooo: Inukwa!! you want to kill yourself over a woman, ask yourself, will she kill herself for you. Take the advice of uniquexty, parental consent is necessary, even if it is one parent. At times we are blinded by love, to see what these old folks see, give it a little more time, you should be closer to either your father or mother, at least get one to see reason with you. 1 Like |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by amtheone(m): 7:33pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
@op It is very wrong to go ahead with that marriage without your parents consent. Get someone that they respect and ask him/her to help u mediate on ur behalf if ur personal efforts are nt working. |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by Nobody: 7:39pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Oh plsss. Igala n idoma are like neighbors.benue n kogi share same boundary for heaven's sake. It's obvious ur family isn't enlightened so pray n make them see in d right perspective.that's 6 yrs of ur life n u are sure of this woman. Seriously it's very annoying to think of it. |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by kingjooo(m): 8:00pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Platnum1:tnx @platnum1,i met her a virgin nd she was jst 17 yrs of age then,her mother handed her over to me b4 she died.Datz one of d reason why am always unhappy about the whole tin,even if it wil take me to wait for her forever i'll do jst dat cuz she z d perfect one 4 me. |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by misspicy(f): 10:01pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
frm na little knowledge and experience abt d igala pple of kogi state,i tink d OP needs to be prayerfull if he wants to defy his parents,wat an elder see while lying down child nay not see it even if he climbs an iroko tree....i tink i agree wif d parents of d OP bcoz sumtyms love is nt enuf fr marriage.der r sum tyms d OP needs to learn abt his tribe #shalom. |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by Uniquexty(f): 10:03pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
aflyingbird:Thanks dear. I'll bookmark this and read it anything the tears comes threatening 3 Likes |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by coogar: 10:12pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
kingjooo: if you love her, get her pregnant. if your parents refuse to budge, go to oshodi & rent parents. by the time you tell them they have a grandson, they would be begging you for forgiveness. 1 Like |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by Ewuro4: 2:59am On Apr 14, 2015 |
Are you certain that's their only reason? I'd sit them down and hear from them moving forward. Tell them to confess their hidden underlying motives to you. In a very calm mode. Just hear them out first. Reminds me of a movie : 'Letters to/from my mother'.. Had his mother explained in details to him and stop speaking in parables, he wouldn't end up in demon's trap like he did. Such Tragedy. Parents need to stop giving vague reasons when it comes to children & life partners decisions. I wish you well |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by sparklebaby: 6:29am On Apr 14, 2015 |
Uniquexty: Ohhhh, so sad. But just hold on, THIS TOO SHALL PASS. Cheer up! |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by Uniquexty(f): 10:37am On Apr 14, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:Thanks dear. I'm over him already 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by Uniquexty(f): 10:38am On Apr 14, 2015 |
bukatyne:Abi na... hehehehe |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by bukatyne(f): 12:04pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by Uniquexty(f): 12:16pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
sparklebaby:Most definitely |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by Nobody: 1:21pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Uniquexty: What did she find out before marriage From her comment she is the type who will not attempt anything without her parents consent so what do you expect the guy to do? Wait till she comes crying that she has accepted somebody the parents introduce to her so the guy should move on because it can't work without her parents consent |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by Wendy80(f): 1:59pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
bukatyne: U like aproko this woman ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by Uniquexty(f): 3:19pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
kodozion:ok |
Re: My Love,my Life And My World by prissyluv(f): 9:47pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Uniquexty: You woke up to reality after six years? You realize the fight is not worth it? Hmmmm. What parents are doing to their children all in the name of love,protection and knowing better dikwa egwu ooo |
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