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Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by isalegan2: 4:07pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
jeeqaa7: They can do a 1-year anniversary party and really treat the people this time. Or a fabulous naming ceremony for their firstborn pikin. |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by zomoears(m): 4:07pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
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Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by Nobody: 4:10pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
Why not have a very early morning wedding with both parents present. Call a couple of friends to join you at a Fast Food Restaurant and have them served a commensurate number of meals you paid for (probably 10-15) and drinks? If anyone asks why you never invited them, my brother, explain you had it "quiet" than serving a whole village rice, fish and water . Pardon me, was your wife smiling all through this 2 Likes |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by jamillion: 4:11pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
Its ur choice, I like it flamboyant and larvishely expensive. Its once in a life time thing u know.. |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by Mekzmoney(m): 4:54pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
menix: 1 Like |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by nedu2000(m): 4:55pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
isalegan2:I meant 'white collar job' metaphorically,"financially stable" is a a better term |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by Allureoftheseas(m): 4:56pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
onismate: Poverty don finish your soul. |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by Nobody: 6:18pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
Op. You try jorr. You be man. I don see for nigeria her were women dey beg men say them go sponsor the wedding. Even give the man job if he marry her. As for me! 50k even dey much. |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by nigerbabe: 6:37pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
this gentleman is damn wise- you are not stingy but worked with what you have- doing it according to what you have. being faithful in the little you have is a clear indication that you will be able to manage the much that is coming your way shortly. pls share this with many intending couple |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by Toks2008(m): 6:38pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
menix: one of the reasons why many ladies are still single today is because they value that one day glamour of getting married above the life long reality of staying married. i always tell ladies.. if you know you are psycologically rdy for marriage and you hve a guy that truly wants you for keep, as long as he has at least a room apartmnt of his own,start a life with him. So ironic that many ladies live with a boyfriend in one room while in school yet they cant start life with a man froom a room apartment. there is only a type of favour that a man recieves after he gets married just as the bible says....he whosoever finds a wife finds a good thing AND HE RECIEVES FAVOUR FROM GOD. simply have a moderate introduction,go for legal wedding in a registry and start your life tgether while you plan for the big wedding celebration. As long as that guy is hardworking trust me,he will get there. All the rich men you see today started from somewhere. i hve seen cases where a lady leaves a man she loves simply because he has no money for an elaborate wedding ceremony just to end up with a man she feels is ready for marriage because the dude has mney to splash on an exquisite wedding. It is one thing to get wedded and another to stay wedded. Marry a man for the right reasons. Never leave a man with a vision for a man with television. |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by Orjhong(f): 7:34pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
I cannot marry a 35 year old that has a 30000 marraige budget plan, no offence...after marriage, how will we survive? On the 20,000 plus house rent and every, I no even talk honeymoon o...then the girl doesn't have a job and his own doesn't pay well, I have no intentions of running back to beg my parents after marraige. The story sef!!!...let's leave all the modesty, money is good |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by MizMyColi(f): 7:35pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
donphilopus: Just don't get catfished bro. I care |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by bb6xt(m): 7:36pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
mrking3: @mrking3 I am interested to know how you plan to do your trad and white wedding with just 400k. I would like to get married myself but am planning on just trad+court and maybe a little reception. I am looking at a similar budget as yours hence it'll be very helpful if you could give me the breakdown of your planned expenses to guide me. Does this include intros, lists etc? what part of the country is your fiancé from? what city will you be holding it in, how many guests etc. I look forward to your response. |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by dober(m): 8:34pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
Op might be right saying he actually spent 30k for the wedding. I guess other expenses were done by families and friends,which he didn't mention to us.. Last year, a friend of mine did an early morning mass wedding in our Parish (I believe some catholics know what I mean), entertaining few guests. And I knew then that he spent upto 200k let alone Op's where he had much guests. Please I must advice, do not attempt to start producing babies until you are financially stable. You may have one though. Bravo! |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by mrking3(m): 8:54pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
bb6xt:well nothing really much bro! Introduction is not inclusive on the list coz i've already done that! Everything on my list will cost about 250k on the average! Coz i just decided to cut down somethings i was asked to provide! Like where they say 30 creates of Beer, me and my fiancee will give 15! Same goes to the Rest! Thats what brought the list down to 250k. Else everything was almost heading to 400k!(JUST THE LIST) i plan to combine the Trad+wedding since it will be just one Reception for both ceremony. My Fiancee is into event planning and management so she's actually handdling the planning process. The ceremony will hold in Eastern part of the country! (Abia) we happen to come from the same state but different local government. But for some reasons, i wouldnt want to disclose my personal plans on this forum. We can talk privately! This is a public forum. The white wedding wont take more than 2 hrs max! And would avoid all this paparrazi stuffs! Just me and my best man! No grooms men ! Will make budget for few invited friends lets say 150 invited guest! Then make provision for 50 uninvited guest! Its actually cheaper doing it outside Lagos! But i'm sure i wount go beyond 500! Budget is within the range of 400k but will have to keep 100k just incase!!! My lady too will assits with the little she can. Thats it!! |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by Phummiegold(f): 9:36pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
...Mtcheeww!!!...Adonbilivit bro. |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by Moana(f): 9:54pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
mrking3:is a wedding about 2 people becoming one or its about impressing people who will go and shit your N400,000 or whatever 1hr later? |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by Nobody: 10:02pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
mecussey: Can you please read and comprehend. He catetigorically said he has not proposed, Now, why would a girl stay in such relationship when she is not sure of his intentions and where it is heading to. He admitted his mistake which is waiting for the money to be complete before proposing . I'm sure the girls would have agreed to manage a wedding even with less than that 1 million naira if she had been aware of his intention. 1 Like |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by Nobody: 10:05pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by Nobody: 10:09pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
dkronicle:No she wouldn't have In fact staying in such relationship is not advisable except there is no option. Any mature girl that wants to settle down should not stayed in an undefined relationship. Not when he has not made his intentions known. If he had had courage as he said and proposed even before gathering the said money. I'm sure girl would have certainly stayed and even agree to manage manage wedding. Not every girls is looking for a royal wedding. And sure most girl would forfeit that to have a good man that made good his words 1 Like |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by mrking3(m): 10:19pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
Moana:. Girl no one is impressing anyone with 400k for both Traditional and white wedding! Thats the average any reasonable person can go! If dude doesnt have money for proper ceremony no one would have nailed him for doing just church blessing which involves the pastore and the couple! It would save him the embarassment of serving people with drums of water. Isnt it shame that he couldnt afford common pure water let alone of mineral. I didnt mention malt, average wine, etc. Even 30k isnt enough to do Registry that involves couple and few witness! Mhen!! Stop defending absurdity pls!!! |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by Moana(f): 10:26pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
mrking3:is it not the same ordinary water every average person drinks daily? suddenly on wedding day they become allergic to it abi? what will mineral water do? speed up the second coming of Jesus Christ? |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by mrking3(m): 10:31pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
Moana:please get off my mention with your medieval reasoning!!! 2 Likes |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by Moana(f): 10:36pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
mrking3:simple questions u cant answer? typical average person, jan-dec u chop idomie with half an egg and when you go to someone else's wedding u expect to eat your life away. my reasoning maybe medieval but yours is beyond poor. |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by mrking3(m): 11:13pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
Moana:trash |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by per1: 11:27pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
Hmmmmm on this Nland somebody will come and tell u he earns 80k so he can't marry. It goes thus can u marry some body with a monthly salary of 50k. Pls let's be real |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by bosschinalu(m): 1:22am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Can some people differentiate between marriage and wedding?? Marriage in infinite while wedding is just the event of a day.... |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by Nobody: 3:00am On Apr 19, 2015 |
freshness2020:he said it ws in d village 1 Like |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by Nobody: 3:08am On Apr 19, 2015 |
I dnt believe,period |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by isacolukay(m): 7:46am On Apr 19, 2015 |
EggovinMma: Babe aw far? |
Re: How I My Wife Had Our Wedding With N50k. Its Possible by kingsarch2000: 7:47am On Apr 19, 2015 |
People should read his story well b4 the comment. He said he did his wedding and not trad with 50k or 30k. He has already done his trad. Also, the wedding was done in the village. Although he did not mention that he rented a hall or chairs for the reception. But in some village, they use their church halls and chairs for free. And he might have gotten some other things for free. So it is possible considering that the wedding took place in the village. |
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