I just started a new relationship but I am yet to see seriousness on the part of the lady. The lady in question is the born again type. Unless I call or ping she never does.I actually wanted to test her and decided not to either ping or call her for a week and see if she will be forced to call me but none of that happened.
I am beginning to think she is not serious with the relationship and thinking of backing out.
I just want advice from romancelanders,Is her behavior normal? Must the man do all the calling in a relationship?

Hei youngman! Did i hear u say"just started"
What is the problem with u young guys?

U neva start somtin u already demanding
100% coperation

nawaaooooooooh

dude , its a new relationship and you expect 100% attention from her

don't you think she may be studying you to know how u truly care ?

cktheluckyman:
I just started a new relationship but I am yet to see seriousness on the part of the lady. The lady in question is the born again type. Unless I call or ping she never does.I actually wanted to test her and decided not to either ping or call her for a week and see if she will be forced to call me but none of that happened.
I am beginning to think she is not serious with the relationship and thinking of backing out.
I just want advice from romancelanders,Is her behavior normal? Must the man do all the calling in a relationship?

Brovh... dont listen to these babes... what.was.the first thought that came to your mind. take that action.

agarawu23:
dude , its a new relationship and you expect 100% attention from her

don't you think she may be studying you to know how u truly care ?

Bros the relationship is 3 months old already. I met her last January, besides this is not my first relationship.Between January and April, I called her every single day I just thought haba this babe doesn't call or ping and thought I should hold on for a week to see her reaction.

cktheluckyman:

Bros the relationship is 3 months old already. I met her last January, besides this is not my first relationship.Between January and April, I called her every single day I just thought haba this babe doesn't call or ping and thought I should hold on for a week to see her reaction.

bro, as you say the gal na SU I don't know what else to say o

I don't date SU ladies because dey are fun killers.

keep trying sha before you can finally give up on her "Good things don't come easily"

The girl is not into you "yet". This shows she's in control of the relationship. It seems you will play the role of the party who is always contacting the other. This is what I always try to avoid. In my own case it's usually the other way round. The girls contacting me first. Just concentrate on other meaningful things. No relationship will ever survive without good communication. Don't be surprised that same girl is always pinging and calling another guy who doesn't give a fvck about her.

agarawu23:
bro, as you say the gal na SU I don't know what else to say o

I don't date SU ladies because dey are fun killers.

keep trying sha before you can finally give up on her "Good things don't come easily"

Okay thanks man

djeezy:
The girl is not into you "yet". This shows she's in control of the relationship. It seems you will play the role of the party who is always contacting the other. This is what I always try to avoid. In my own case it's usually the other way round. The girls contacting me first. Just concentrate on other meaningful things.

Do you think I should give her more time or just move on

cktheluckyman:

Do you think I should give her more time or just move on

The more you give her time, the more she continues to act that way and the more you fall deeply in love with her. Surprising right? Sometimes we tend to love those who don't give a fvck about us. Well if a girl likes you, she would always want to contact you. If you believe she will change and therefore deserves more time, then its up to you.

na wah 4 dis girl ooo

which kain tin b dat?

na wah 4 dis girl ooo

which kain tin b dat

djeezy:
The more you give her time, the more she continues to act that way and the more you fall deeply in love with her. Surprising right? Sometimes we tend to love those who don't give a fvck about us. Well if a girl likes you, she would always want to contact you. If you believe she will change and therefore deserves more time, then its up to you.

Thanks for your advice. I will have to move on

Communication but not Ameboism is Sharing and Love in Marriage.

Orunto:
Communication but not Ameboism is Sharing and Love in Marriage.

BROS WHICH ONE IS AMEBOISM

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BROS WHICH ONE IS AMEBOISM? It's in ORUBEBE's Dictionary!!!!

BROS WHICH ONE IS AMEBOISM? It's in ORUBEBE's Dictionary!!!!

hey bro i think the lady is being careful she doesnt want a situation whereby after being committed she will now be disappointed.
A healthy relationship is known by level of the degree of communication. Communication is key in any relationship. one of the tool of communication is dialogue. I think you need to call her and sit her down and let her know how you feel, by doing this both of you would define the relationship instead of being in a relationship that is full of assumptions. Remember ladies are moved by what they hear.

thank you.