Iamfrank:
My pet son came to me yesterday and was telling me how he is ashamed of his own mother.... He said almost every night when their father is not around (he works outside the town) he always sees his mother watching pornographic films in the sitting room..... He says it has been going on for some time now.... He is 18yrs of age.... And that what borders him a lot is that he has 3 younger siblings of ages 3, 9 and 12.... He is just ashamed of discussing it to his mother.... Wat do you tink is the best thing to do?

WHAT IS THE MEANING OF PET SON?

Ele'in gidi gan.

freecocoa:
The woman can watch whatever she damn well pleases, however, she should do it the privacy/comfort of her room.

Me think say you are reasonable. Never knew such a thing could come out from your mouth. Watching a pornographic movies at home when her children are around? Believe you are not properly brought up and equally does the same thing in the presence of your children.

Emaprince:
I know that women complain a lot if their husbands/boyfriends watches too much porn but it is no big deal when a woman is addicted to porn. Smh...a mother of 4kids for that matter.

will you be happy if your husband watches too much porn? Because as far as I'm concerned, too much porn can get him/her too Hot that he/she may end up looking for somebody for the real deal.

She watches it when the man is away, how does that equate to too much? And who even determines what too much is?

My husband can watch p0rn all he wants, so long as it doesn't encroach on our time together, whatever happened to self service if one gets Hot from watching p0rn?

Mum trying to acquire more skill to serve your father better,but she would have been doing it secretly in her bedroom and not sitting room.
#learntodoitthewaycynthiadeydo

This could be of help written by a nairalander....

How To Quit Pornography Addiction And Gain Freedom In 2015.a Must Read For Every

I was born into a Christian family in the early 80’s. well brought up and groomed by my parents. I had the best of education and grew up among my peers. I knew peace, love and was focus in my studies until I discovered pornography in secondary school. I still remember how one of my classmates brought a VHS cassette to school at the boarding house and that was what caught our attention and like they say, the rest is history. This is a lesson for every Nigeria youth in secondary and university. The devil can use anyone to influence and redirect your life, so be careful of the type of people you choose to be your friend. I learnt the bitter way and I have paid the price.

I was involved in pornography for almost 11 years of my life that I was crowned the king of porn during my University days…peer pressure. Each time I passed through different boys hostels in our school, I was hailed and encouraged. A lot of students came to download and copy this porn to their phones and laptops. I had different collections of it then until I found help and with the help of God I was able to come out of from my. I must tell you it is the devils way of enslaving Christians into the pit of hell. You lost concentration as a result of uncontrollable use of porn, I thought negatively of all sorts of insane things, self-service and womanizing actually became my hobby.

I used to watch dozens of pornography films weekly that it became a habit for me that affected me psychologically and negatively. I tried a lot of countless times but couldn’t withstand it because I didn’t know how to do it. Then one day I decided to quit porn completely and just right away my life turned around for good with the help of Jesus Christ and that is what I want you to achieve too in 2015.

I stopped watching porn because I seeked for help in the right places. I confided in my mentor about my predicament and my friend who is also a medical doctor in one of the Teaching Hospitals in Nigeria. He was able to take a history of my past activities and the circumstances surrounding my excessive crave and demand for porn and Unclothedness. He had to place under special monitoring and developed a system that worked for me perfectly in checkmating my trigger points. I also had to work hand in hand with a psychologist and life coach who I signed up under his tutoring classes. I must tell you that cost me some money because those services didn’t come cheap. But the results started showing up by second week. Within some few weeks of conscious effort to quit porn I was gaining confidence and seeing results. More concentration and good use of my time.

My dear friend, ever since I stopped watching pornography, I have been able to save money, get married and have a thriving business of my own. My love life has improved greatly as well because I no longer live in the shadow of the past when I found it difficult relating to my girlfriend emotionally. Pornography made me weak and sober after engaging in such a shameful acts.
If you are addicted to pornography, I urge you to consider quitting today in 2015. Yes! It is possible. Take a pen and write your GOALS and action plan and together I will personal work with you to quit this terrible habit. Go for confession today in the church, talk to a respected man of God who will help in deliverance and counselling for you. Your life will change in so many positive way. You will begin to connect with God and experience tremendous breakthrough and success. Remember your body is God’s temple, do not defile it. I wish you fast recovery and total freedom from the addiction of pornography in Jesus Name.

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This could be of help too......written by a nairalander by name Dominic John
The Demonic Activity Behind Pornography (exposed) "Must Read"

Gen 11
: The Lord said, “If as one people speaking the same language they have begun to do this, then nothing they plan to do will be impossible for them. Come, let us go down and confuse their language so they will not understand each other.”

Gen 3:5
: For God knows that in the day you eat of it your eyes will be opened and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.


Everything can be traced back to the tower of Babel see my post on “Notorious activities at tower of babel"

”Everything about pornography started there. Nimrod was the one who started a religion that progressed to offering a worship of been Unclad to a deity.

After God destroyed the earth with water because of moral misbehavior and worship of unknown gods which can also be traced back to Sodom and Gomorrah, Nimrod still found a means to revive it. After Nimrod died his wife (also his mother) deified him and her son whom she gave birth to. Ritual rites were made for them, which can be found in Ezekiel 8:14—15
, Ezekiel 8:13-16

And He said to me, Turn again, and you will see greater abominations that they are doing. So He brought me to the door of the north gate of the LORD's house; and to my dismay, women were sitting there weeping for Tammuz. Then He said to me, "Have you seen this, O son of man? Turn again; you will see greater abominations than these. So He brought me into the inner court of the LORD's house; and there, at the door of the temple of the LORD, between the porch and the altar, were about twenty-five men with their backs toward the temple of the LORD and their faces toward the east, and they were worshiping the sun toward the east.

Some of these rites include ritual sex, which is an abomination to God. In the process, demons will be invoked with incantations in unknown languages. When this demon appears (which is the devil in person) he’ll tell false stories of how he defeated the son of God on the cross with physical demonstration, after which he’ll choose a bride to have sex with before everybody. Just immediately after sex he vanishes. And people present there will choose any woman they lay hands on and begin to fornicate with whether married or unmarried.

This is known among cultist in the western world as “black Friday” the names vary according to places. These practices began at ancient times probably at the tower of Babel. After God destroyed the earth with flood Satan still gave men wisdom and inspirations being the prince of this world. Thus not all knowledge is from God.

On this note their master Satan told them to record these acts on tape and send them out for sales or even free (now they are everywhere) note that demons move about on the earth (Mathew 12:43) seeking to possess and destroy humanity.

In some covens women are been Isolated for three days, on these three days they’ll be bathed with dog’s blood (dogs prophetically represent sexual demons etc) after which they’ll be deployed to the world to bring down rich men to poor men through sex.

What will happen to those who watch these films?

Once you watch them no matter how spiritual you are, you’ll be empty, (even Satanists know this) also know that a demon of sex is released through the television sets to possess their victims, which will cause their victims to:

Have multiple sex partners,

Fornicate

Woman to woman marriage (Lesbianism)

Man to man marriage (Homosexualism)

Man to animals( Bestiality)

self-service (self service),

Frequent sexual arousal,

Mental visualization of previous sexual scenes on television when alone,

Rape (you hear stories of a 37yrs old man raping a 9yrs old girl),

Children with many women,

Inability to be satisfied.

Once you begin to notice these things know that you are been controlled by something. Anything from Satan is not free he’ll make you return by putting you in captivity.

What are the effects of this?

You’ll always feel remorseful after you finish doing it.

You’ll not be comfortable and no internal peace

You’ll always disgrace and embarrass yourself even in public as you’ll have divided attention.

HOW CAN I COME OUT?

Make a decision “New year resolution”

Ask Jesus to help you by saying the sinners prayer

Undergo deliverance

Avoid contacts with items that relate to them remember Mathew 12:43

Let your eyes be single, so that your body will be full of light. Avoid looking at the opposite sex twice.

Avoid ungodly talks and conversations so that you are not reminded what you left.

Read and meditate on the word of God Joshua 1:8 Psalm 1:2--3

Iamfrank:
My pet son came to me yesterday and was telling me how he is ashamed of his own mother.... He said almost every night when their father is not around (he works outside the town) he always sees his mother watching pornographic films in the sitting room..... He says it has been going on for some time now.... He is 18yrs of age.... And that what borders him a lot is that he has 3 younger siblings of ages 3, 9 and 12.... He is just ashamed of discussing it to his mother.... Wat do you tink is the best thing to do?

Let the 18 year old politely tell his mother to watch the porn in private where neither he nor any of his other siblings could wander in on her.

andyanders:


Me think say you are reasonable. Never knew such a thing could come out from your mouth. Watching a pornographic movies at home when her children are around? Believe you are not properly brought up and equally does the same thing in the presence of your children.

You must be very daft, what makes you think I care about your opinion of me, you blawdy hypocrite?

You can't even comprehend simple and straight English yet you somehow think you have the right to decide what people should do? I wonder what you think "privacy of her room" means, grow some brain you dumbass.

na to follow en mother dey watch am na

Iamfrank:
My pet son came to me yesterday and was telling me how he is ashamed of his own mother.... He said almost every night when their father is not around (he works outside the town) he always sees his mother watching pornographic films in the sitting room..... He says it has been going on for some time now.... He is 18yrs of age.... And that what borders him a lot is that he has 3 younger siblings of ages 3, 9 and 12.... He is just ashamed of discussing it to his mother.... Wat do you tink is the best thing to do?

sit her down and talk to her...if she refuses report to ur dada.

Kai! Conji why you na.

Oh boy. This is unbelievable.

You know. ......

He should mind his business. His mother is an adult and knows what's best for her and her kids.

is very regretably rugrubious..........

too bad

Very irresponsible mother, things like that should be hidden from her children.

vjsmiles:
[size=14pt] what the fhvvvck did you just post?

what moral jistification encourages a mother(a mother with 4kids) to watch porn?
what is she deriving?sexual pleasure?
then that will be a fhvcking ego dent on the husband prowess in bed....


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What do you expect from him;person wey fit give head lick to'to....#smh

The mother needs flogging I swear!

MzNelly:
Whatever she watches is her business.

She's a full grown adult.

And when has por'n become the best thing to watch...

The mum has high libido(possibly) which makes her so uncomfortable. The fact is that u can't confront your mum on this, an uncle, aunt or an older relation will b in a better position to advise your mum

dumb assssssssssss

IHate9ja1:

And when has por'n become the best thing to watch...

Go ahead and judge her cos you're a saint.

Nairaland is something else;people see nothing wrong with this pevertious act.
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I.e giving head,watching p'orn etc has become the order of the day.anything you do in secret that you cant boldly come out and say/do in the public is bad.if you watch porn and hide it away/watch it alone /give head or what have you that you feel ashamed to invite others to watch or discuss is bad ...such fellow is a malu

buoye1:
The mother needs flogging I swear!

A very serious one,can see why many young girls are raped....the younger ones might have seen this...thus when @ d neighbors house practice it and L'botan she dey bleed.....u knw d rest!

MzNelly:


Go ahead and judge her cos you're a saint.

Call me whatever you want to call me,continue when your little kids start practicing it and God forbid get raped....ur closed eyes wld open

IHate9ja1:

A very serious one,can see why many young girls are raped....the younger ones might have seen this...thus when @ d neighbors house practice it and L'botan she dey bleed.....u knw d rest!

You ve said it all,but this your moniker na war o!

buoye1:
You ve said it all,but this your moniker na war o!

Sir,if the world go astray,we dont need to influence our coming generations on such part...i'm afraid to see intense kissing cartoon on tv shows and from there the parents dey watch porn and b4 you know it you see your neighbor son sleeping on your daughter .....doing what Practicing what she saw/ get raped by an older fellow and am sorry to tell you that most rape cases are initiated by this kids and b4 u knw it e don happen...they wld even get home and keep quite unless the parent is very observant that such kid as been raped.
Am afraid to see comments of Nairalanders...supporting such,can they tell me what msg they are trying to pass across?
So many dirt ridden minds typing lustful comment from the pit of hell

rokiatu:
My only advice is for the boy to learn to respect his mom privacy. That's his mom and not his daughter.

privacy in the family sitting room?

maybe she is learning skills to impress her husband when he gets back