A female friend of mine shared this with me and asked for advice. Romancelanders please what could be wrong. Here is her story.

My husband loves sex and I do satisfy him even when I am not in the mood. We do have sex like thrice in a week (except when I am mestruating). He always say that he can hardly manage to hold body for a week without having sex. To the best of my knowledge of which I am very sure of, he is faithful to me since I don't deny him sex. About 2 weeks ago, I was seriously sick and we called his sister who is a good nurse and been attending to our health issues. I went to her place hoping will be back in 2 or 3 days time but alas I spent 9 days receiving treatment. I couldn't leave there because I was on injection and her place is far from ours. All these days my hubby was home alone. When I came back some days ago, I was hoping my husband will make sex advance but to my surprise he didn't. And to add salt to the injury, he complaint of tiredness when I made advance. Could it be that my hubby has had extra marital affair or he has readjusted his system. Please what could be wrong.

Mature responses please. Thanks.

She shouldn't jump to conclusions. Let her talk to him first, know what is TRULY wrong. And if he doesn't respond, then she should try spicing it up....could be he is bored with the normal routine

Just try communicating first.

Twaci:
She shouldn't jump to conclusions. Let her talk to him first, know what is TRULY wrong. And if he doesn't respond, then she should try spicing it up....could be he is bored with the normal routine

Just try communicating first.

welcome bak

Cutehector:
welcome bak

Hey dearie

Since you just noticed this particular change then you should start looking more closely into it for anymore changes before concluding.

This is how women go about destroying their marriages. You havent even taken good measures and worthy time to sit down and talk with him.Find out what the problem might be...he might have had a terrible day at work or got a disturbing news from home. Just like @twaci said, communication is very important in any relationship, married or unmarried. So before you get the wrong advice from some jezebel of a woman out there, sit down and talk to your husband.

@twaci you were joking about the translation of that name right, sopuruchi

Twaci:
Hey dearie

how is everythn?

PaulCI:
@twaci you were joking about the translation of that name right, sopuruchi

Lol, that's how my little brother translated it

Cutehector:
how is everythn?

Very fine. And u?

Twaci:
Very fine. And u?

fynn. So tell me, wad kept u away all ds while?

Cutehector:
fynn. So tell me, wad kept u away all ds while?

was on detox....internet detox. Was becoming addicted to the net

Buh am good now

Twaci:
Lol, that's how my little brother translated it

Hahaha...funny little bro. Kids will always be kids

PaulCI:


Hahaha...funny little bro. Kids will always be kids

True...very true

Twaci:
was on detox....internet detox. Was becoming addicted to the net

Buh am good now

hahahahahaha.. Trust me, as long as u hav a smartfone, and ur at home al day, u'd be glued to ur fone.

So wats hapenin now onto school?

Cutehector:
hahahahahaha.. Trust me, as long as u hav a smartfone, and ur at home al day, u'd be glued to ur fone.

So wats hapenin now onto school?

Good...

Twaci:
Good...

aiit. Cheers..

Twaci, cutehector and others thanks a bunch for the advice.

Women enh always quick to jump into conclusions!

Whatever happened to asking Whats happened. Thats better.

Twaci:
was on detox....internet detox. Was becoming addicted to the net

Buh am good now

Yours is better. "becoming addicted" . Mine is addicted already.

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She didn't jump into conclusions. She's only suspicious. Those are two different things.

Jumping into conclusions is when she outrightly says he's cheating. For now she just wants advise.

Well, from the beginning of this post, something was clear: her husband possesses a high libido. And that's not something that a man - or anyone so affected for that matter - can get under control in just 9 days.

Her suspicions may be right. All she need to do is try and find out what's wrong, whatever answer he comes up with, she can take it from there.