There is this friend of mine (a very good one) who came to me pouring his complains that, there is this girl (name withheld) he met on facebook for the past two months now.

According to him, they started as friends.. they'll chat, have fun but yet they have not seen each other for once. He (my friend) reside in Delta State while the girl reside in Lagos State. They both knew it was a long distance friendship but since it was on social media, they gat no choice then to carry on. Their chats was so lively to that extent that, they both share every secrets they had.

As times goes on, they started having feelings for each other. They have talked on phone so many times and he even plans to travel to Lagos to see her. Sometimes she do call when am with him and with the way i see them, they really are in love but there is a problem.

My friend have a date which he has been dating for 2yrs and the girl has a date who she has been dating for a year now. And they both wants to settle down with each other..

seriously am confused on the advice am to give him and that is why i bought it here to see if i can get more matured advice from my fellow Nairalanders..

Thanks as you make your own contribution to this. God bless you.

What happened to the respective dates they are having?

what kind of story is this

I recommend "Adebimpe the facebook girl'' by Onihaxy. Let him read it and learn

Bacteriocin:
What happened to the respective dates they are having?

they r still dating buh dey prefer therslvs

dorocent:
they r still dating buh dey prefer therslvs

If they can leave their respective dates just because of friendship-turned-relationship, don't you think the yoruba maxim which says "pason ti a fi ina iyale wa ni oke aja fun iyawo" will still come to play if not now but later?

What is dis one saying sef?..OP,pls repeat abeg..

See Nollywood+YorubaWood

Both of them are fools

Eyepencil:
Both of them are fools

datz nt a matued mind my frd... i brought dis topic jux to seek advice n u dunt hv d ryt to cause dem bcuz it might happen to u

Bacteriocin:

If they can leave their respective dates just because of friendship-turned-relationship, don't you think the yoruba maxim which says "pason ti a fi ina iyale wa ni oke aja fun iyawo" will still come to play if not now but later?

yea. u r ryt my frd.. buh dont u fink it might favour dem later.... u neva cn tell..n tnx fr ur contribution

dorocent:
datz nt a matued mind my frd... i brought dis topic jux to seek advice n u dunt hv d ryt to cause dem bcuz it might happen to u

Ok no vex

Don't know what to say to them because they're both cheating on their partners. All I can say is, if they really wanna take it serious, the responsible thing to do is to first of all truthfully break up with their partners first. Wish them luck.

dorocent:
they r still dating buh dey prefer therslvs

let both of them breakup with their current partners and continue together,very soon both of them will be tired of "theirsef"

sinizia:
Don't know what to say to them because they're both cheating on their partners. All I can say is, if they really wanna take it serious, the responsible thing to do is to first of all truthfully break up with their partners first. Wish them luck.

yes dis is wat i call matured mind... tnx alot.. i will deliver ur advice to him.

pryd:
It's just a rush of blood, it's gonna fade away soon.

wat abt if it dos nt fade?

dorocent:
yes dis is wat i call matured mind... tnx alot.. i will deliver ur advice to him.

Matured mind indeed.... He only posted what u wanted to hear

Samiceman:
Matured mind indeed.... He only posted what u wanted to hear

even thou, At least he made his contirbutions.. tnx anyway

krall:
what kind of story is this

the thing tire me too ooo.

ronald4lif:
They haven't met and they plan on getting married? Jokers!

Stop spoiling their fun. Let 'em enjoy this fantasy world for a bit.

dorocent:
There is this friend of mine (a very good one) who came to me pouring his complains that, there is this girl (name withheld) he met on facebook for the past two months now.

According to him, they started as friends.. they'll chat, have fun but yet they have not seen each other for once. He (my friend) reside in Delta State while the girl reside in Lagos State. They both knew it was a long distance friendship but since it was on social media, they gat no choice then to carry on. Their chats was so lively to that extent that, they both share every secrets they had.

As times goes on, they started having feelings for each other. They have talked on phone so many times and he even plans to travel to Lagos to see her. Sometimes she do call when am with him and with the way i see them, they really are in love but there is a problem.

My friend have a date which he has been dating for 2yrs and the girl has a date who she has been dating for a year now. And they both wants to settle down with each other..

seriously am confused on the advice am to give him and that is why i bought it here to see if i can get more matured advice from my fellow Nairalanders..

Thanks as you make your own contribution to this. God bless you.

You really shouldn't go about giving unsolicited advice's bro and besides your friend is an adult and knows exactly what he is doing and also knows what is best for himself, you can not be more catholic than the pope.

whenever ur friend seeks for ur opinion then tell him that Byrron from Nairaland sends his regards and my advice to him is that he should remain faithful to his first date whom he has known for more than two yrs now because the online girl remains a mirage at the moment, the land is not always greener on the other side.

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byrron:


You really shouldn't go about giving unsolicited advice's bro and besides your friend is an adult and knows exactly what he is doing and also knows what is best for himself, you can not be more catholic than the pope.

whenever ur friend seeks for ur opinion then tell him that Byrron from Nairaland sends his regards and my advice to him is that he should remain faithful to his first date whom he has known for more than two yrs now because the online girl remains a mirage at the moment, the land is not always greener on the other side.

TNX bro.....am gra8ful