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Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by MzzTega(f): 11:57am On Apr 21, 2015
1. They are happier

There is a difference in temperament between regular
girls and attractive girls and it has to do with how
happy they appear. Attractive women are happier, and
it shows. They are excited to see you, excited to talk
about whatever subjects come up, excited to do just
about anything. They’ve got a bounce in their step that
other girls don’t have, and it never goes away. This is
such a relief from the bored, standoffish people I meet
all day at work. It’s refreshing to meet girls who are so
different, who aren’t boring, who are fun to be
around.
2. They don’t complain about their
bodies

If a guy is with you, he likes your body. Don’t insult
his judgement by complaining about what it looks like.
No guy really expects you to look like an airbrushed
model, and often it’s the little imperfections that make
you even hotter — because it means you’re a real
person. One we get to actually hook up with.
3. They actually don’t complain much,
period

There’s nothing uglier than someone who’s constantly
complaining. If they are always telling me why their
life sucks, why would I want to be a part of it? I also
can’t stand women who henpeck the lives of others.
It’s boring and sad. Get a new hobby. If something is
worth complaining about, that thing is worth fixing —
so go fix it.
4. They wear dresses

Dresses are almost always more attractive on a woman
than any other pants/whatever combo she could come
up with. They are made to flatter the female figure.
They remind us why we love women in the first place.
They make us look at you like a man is supposed to
look at a woman.
5. They make a guy feel special

I know a lot of guys complain how girls are always
late for everything. But I actually don’t mind when
she’s late for a date because it’s almost always as a
result of spending extra time getting ready, which is
flattering. It makes me feel like I’m someone she wants
to impress, and as a result, I end up trying to impress
her.
6. They are kind

There’s no faster way to make someone realize they
don’t see a future with you than to chew out a waiter
or service person in their presence. It’s always an eye-
opener.
7. They NEVER talk about exes

I know nowadays girls have a lot of boyfriends before
they settle down and (probably) a lot of sex. I don’t
want to hear about it. Ever. Pretend it doesn’t exist. I
don’t want to think about being the last of many guys
to woo you. It makes it hard for me to see a future.
Mum is the word.
8. She lets me take the lead

I’m sure this point varies from man to man. Maybe
some prefer women who take over. But I feel as if the
best relationship for me is with a woman who is
strong, but still very feminine. She isn’t weak or
indecisive (those things are annoying), she is an asset
to me, just as I am an asset to her. She doesn’t try to
compete with me to see who is more this or that,
neither of us is “better” than the other. I’m looking for
someone who compliments me, not duplicates me.
9. She isn’t a dead fish in bed

You can be the greatest girl in the world, but sex is an
important part of a relationship and if this is how it is
in the beginning when we’re lusting the most, it’s not
going to get any better, and that thought is horrifying.
I get that girls don’t want to seem slutty. But men have
a fear of committing to someone and then the sex
stops, so if it starts out slow, it’s easy for that fear to
take over.
10. They aren’t businesslike

I know most women now have jobs and careers, and I
respect that. I actually think it’s more attractive when
a woman has something going for her than one who’s
just waiting around for a man to pluck her up and
support her. However, the last thing I want to talk
about with someone I’m dating in my spare time after
work is work . Leave it at the office and I will too.
11. They cook

It’s an old stereotype, but it’s still true. Nowadays so
many people only eat out of boxes, or through drive
thru windows or takeaway. I don’t want that for my
future and I don’t want that to be how my kids are
raised. If a woman can make healthy, tasty meals on a
regular basis, she moves to the front of the line. Every
time.
12. She’s encouraging, but not bossy

When I’m having a problem in my life and try to
discuss it with the girls I’m dating, it’s almost always
been a mistake. They advise me with what to do and
then they “check in” (read: nag) about whether I’ve
done it from there on out. Then I met a girl who
instead of giving me advice just let me talk and asked
what I was thinking of doing. I told her all the options
and she encouraged me to make the best decision,
without telling me what it was. I felt confident in my
ability to make the best decision, and my head was
clear because I got the venting out.
13. They’re athletic

They don’t have to run a marathon or do anything
crazy but I’m not a naturally thin guy so I’ve always
been into fitness. It’s not only enjoyable when a girl
can work out with me on occasion, it’s great to know
we’ll both have healthier futures together.
14. They drink in moderation

Drunk girls are not girlfriend material.
15. They keep our couple secrets

Girls tell each other everything. As a guy, I don’t
necessarily want everyone to know everything about
our sex life or every embarrassing thing I do, but it
happens more often than not. A girl who’s a real
keeper is one who is on the same team as me, who
would never gossip about me because she has my
back. If she doesn’t tell her friends stuff that she
knows I’d rather no one hear, she is definitely sticking
around.
16. She’s close with her parents

Girls who have rebelled from their parents are
generally immature (unless their parents were assholes
or something). I’m not looking for that. I eventually
want to have a family so I want someone that values
that as well. Plus girls who get along with their own
parents are going to be able to get along with my
(enormous) family and not think it’s weird that there’s
a lot of us and we’re all pretty close.
17. She doesn’t take herself too
seriously

If something goes wrong, she can laugh it off. I can’t
tell you how important this quality is. Do you want to
spend the rest of your life with someone who’s a
neurotic stress case? Or someone who can chill out and
enjoy themselves almost anywhere? One of those things
is going to make your life better and one of them is
going to make it a lot worse. Choose wisely.

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Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by agarawu23(m): 12:00pm On Apr 21, 2015
good points

what about "money" issue?
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by falconey(m): 12:01pm On Apr 21, 2015
no1 is funny
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by xynerise: 12:03pm On Apr 21, 2015
Some points if not all are total bullcrap.
Some attractive girls don't even know when to draw the line. Attractive in what aspect if I may ask? Body physique, Intelligence, Dress sense or what?

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Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by naijaboiy: 12:05pm On Apr 21, 2015
Okay!
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by Nobody: 12:07pm On Apr 21, 2015
Overdose of crap undecided

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Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by TrishaP(f): 12:08pm On Apr 21, 2015
Ok
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by MzzTega(f): 12:14pm On Apr 21, 2015
agarawu23:
good points


but you haven't talked about "money"
Lol. Must money be there?
Everything written there is based on the headings of each point.
You can add yours
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by jamex93(m): 12:17pm On Apr 21, 2015
u try o

but Money dey miss


u understand better
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by agarawu23(m): 12:19pm On Apr 21, 2015
MzzTega:

Lol. Must money be there?
Everything written there is based on the headings of each point.
You can add yours
yes!!! money must be there
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by dharay99: 12:25pm On Apr 21, 2015
ok mehn, long note again.

Next thread plz... cry

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Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by ronald4lif(m): 12:29pm On Apr 21, 2015
Wanted to read but the follow up comments are not encouraging. I go try read later.
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by Young03(m): 12:30pm On Apr 21, 2015
Did i finish my readings? No

story 4 the gods
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by MistarT(m): 12:41pm On Apr 21, 2015
some things are vital being attractive is not the most important:
1.Adding value to someone.
2.Ability to encourage and talk with sense.
3.Adhering to simple instructions
4.Devoid of comparison unless it'll serve as a catalyst for greatness
5.Disciplined and not being an excessive love peddler.
6.Dedicated to God
7.Simplicity of heart and body .
8.Slow to nagging and murmuring
9.Selfless
10.Understanding she knows when you are a bit cash low not that you tell her around 8pm no cash and 8am she's asking for ks.
11.Nigerian girls please CHANGE.

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Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by Nobody: 12:47pm On Apr 21, 2015
Trash
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by cheerybloom(f): 1:54pm On Apr 21, 2015
17 shades of rubbish sad
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by onuwaje(m): 2:02pm On Apr 21, 2015
Just in case
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by sinizia: 2:52pm On Apr 21, 2015
Many girls, attractive or not, have these trait.

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Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by peeparty(m): 8:16pm On May 07, 2015
falconey:
no1 is funny
bro hope u got my bk on this?it tophaz for miss nairaland
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by tayoxx(m): 9:20pm On May 07, 2015
this tin too long na
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by falconey(m): 9:44pm On May 07, 2015
peeparty:
bro hope u got my bk on this?it tophaz for miss nairaland

dude I don't get it, is she your sister on something? Or is there remuneration for your service?

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Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by McEwen(m): 9:58pm On May 07, 2015
Recycle bin tongue
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by peeparty(m): 9:59pm On May 07, 2015
[quote author=falconey post=33521880]

dude I don't get it, is she your sister on something? Or is there remuneration for your service? [/ yes oo
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by psalmlolese: 10:27pm On May 07, 2015
peeparty:
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peeparty, Tophaz campaign manager
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by peeparty(m): 10:43pm On May 07, 2015
psalmlolese:
peeparty, Tophaz campaign manager
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Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by MsBliss(f): 7:25am On May 08, 2015
Wow one of the best post av read so far.

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Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by volterra(m): 1:33pm On Jun 14, 2015
This post is great though i have reservations for no. 17. Nice work. Kip it up
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by chaxking(m): 1:47pm On Jun 14, 2015
Dis is a perfect woman and you can't find such.not even in dis country
MzzTega:
1. They are happier

There is a difference in temperament between regular
girls and attractive girls and it has to do with how
happy they appear. Attractive women are happier, and
it shows. They are excited to see you, excited to talk
about whatever subjects come up, excited to do just
about anything. They’ve got a bounce in their step that
other girls don’t have, and it never goes away. This is
such a relief from the bored, standoffish people I meet
all day at work. It’s refreshing to meet girls who are so
different, who aren’t boring, who are fun to be
around.
2. They don’t complain about their
bodies

If a guy is with you, he likes your body. Don’t insult
his judgement by complaining about what it looks like.
No guy really expects you to look like an airbrushed
model, and often it’s the little imperfections that make
you even hotter — because it means you’re a real
person. One we get to actually hook up with.
3. They actually don’t complain much,
period

There’s nothing uglier than someone who’s constantly
complaining. If they are always telling me why their
life sucks, why would I want to be a part of it? I also
can’t stand women who henpeck the lives of others.
It’s boring and sad. Get a new hobby. If something is
worth complaining about, that thing is worth fixing —
so go fix it.
4. They wear dresses

Dresses are almost always more attractive on a woman
than any other pants/whatever combo she could come
up with. They are made to flatter the female figure.
They remind us why we love women in the first place.
They make us look at you like a man is supposed to
look at a woman.
5. They make a guy feel special

I know a lot of guys complain how girls are always
late for everything. But I actually don’t mind when
she’s late for a date because it’s almost always as a
result of spending extra time getting ready, which is
flattering. It makes me feel like I’m someone she wants
to impress, and as a result, I end up trying to impress
her.
6. They are kind

There’s no faster way to make someone realize they
don’t see a future with you than to chew out a waiter
or service person in their presence. It’s always an eye-
opener.
7. They NEVER talk about exes

I know nowadays girls have a lot of boyfriends before
they settle down and (probably) a lot of sex. I don’t
want to hear about it. Ever. Pretend it doesn’t exist. I
don’t want to think about being the last of many guys
to woo you. It makes it hard for me to see a future.
Mum is the word.
8. She lets me take the lead

I’m sure this point varies from man to man. Maybe
some prefer women who take over. But I feel as if the
best relationship for me is with a woman who is
strong, but still very feminine. She isn’t weak or
indecisive (those things are annoying), she is an asset
to me, just as I am an asset to her. She doesn’t try to
compete with me to see who is more this or that,
neither of us is “better” than the other. I’m looking for
someone who compliments me, not duplicates me.
9. She isn’t a dead fish in bed

You can be the greatest girl in the world, but sex is an
important part of a relationship and if this is how it is
in the beginning when we’re lusting the most, it’s not
going to get any better, and that thought is horrifying.
I get that girls don’t want to seem slutty. But men have
a fear of committing to someone and then the sex
stops, so if it starts out slow, it’s easy for that fear to
take over.
10. They aren’t businesslike

I know most women now have jobs and careers, and I
respect that. I actually think it’s more attractive when
a woman has something going for her than one who’s
just waiting around for a man to pluck her up and
support her. However, the last thing I want to talk
about with someone I’m dating in my spare time after
work is work . Leave it at the office and I will too.
11. They cook

It’s an old stereotype, but it’s still true. Nowadays so
many people only eat out of boxes, or through drive
thru windows or takeaway. I don’t want that for my
future and I don’t want that to be how my kids are
raised. If a woman can make healthy, tasty meals on a
regular basis, she moves to the front of the line. Every
time.
12. She’s encouraging, but not bossy

When I’m having a problem in my life and try to
discuss it with the girls I’m dating, it’s almost always
been a mistake. They advise me with what to do and
then they “check in” (read: nag) about whether I’ve
done it from there on out. Then I met a girl who
instead of giving me advice just let me talk and asked
what I was thinking of doing. I told her all the options
and she encouraged me to make the best decision,
without telling me what it was. I felt confident in my
ability to make the best decision, and my head was
clear because I got the venting out.
13. They’re athletic

They don’t have to run a marathon or do anything
crazy but I’m not a naturally thin guy so I’ve always
been into fitness. It’s not only enjoyable when a girl
can work out with me on occasion, it’s great to know
we’ll both have healthier futures together.
14. They drink in moderation

Drunk girls are not girlfriend material.
15. They keep our couple secrets

Girls tell each other everything. As a guy, I don’t
necessarily want everyone to know everything about
our sex life or every embarrassing thing I do, but it
happens more often than not. A girl who’s a real
keeper is one who is on the same team as me, who
would never gossip about me because she has my
back. If she doesn’t tell her friends stuff that she
knows I’d rather no one hear, she is definitely sticking
around.
16. She’s close with her parents

Girls who have rebelled from their parents are
generally immature (unless their parents were assholes
or something). I’m not looking for that. I eventually
want to have a family so I want someone that values
that as well. Plus girls who get along with their own
parents are going to be able to get along with my
(enormous) family and not think it’s weird that there’s
a lot of us and we’re all pretty close.
17. She doesn’t take herself too
seriously

If something goes wrong, she can laugh it off. I can’t
tell you how important this quality is. Do you want to
spend the rest of your life with someone who’s a
neurotic stress case? Or someone who can chill out and
enjoy themselves almost anywhere? One of those things
is going to make your life better and one of them is
going to make it a lot worse. Choose wisely.
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by Nobody: 3:58pm On Jun 14, 2015
No 3 is the worse thing that can happen to a man...very irritating & when she talks too damn much like she is running a campaign and u can't glue her mouth shut but wait and pray for the date to end quickly angry they are more attractive when they dont play d parrot but take q's & stir up a good convo
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by peeparty(m): 9:44pm On Jun 20, 2015
boo pls answer me nau@mzztega
Re: Little Things Attractive Girls Do Differently by MzzTega(f): 9:52pm On Jun 20, 2015
peeparty:
boo pls answer me nau@mzztega

What do you want?

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