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| Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Twaci(f): 5:56am On Apr 22, 2015 |
The topic says it all, do u think it is right to monitor your partner? By monitor, I mean; always checking his/her phone, making sure you know ALL of his/her friends, always noting every activity carried out by him/her on all their social sites (e.g Nairaland, facebook, twitter, IG...), and so on. I have my opinion on this but need to hear yours. Let's talk. Good morning. 2 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by justmag(m): 5:58am On Apr 22, 2015 |
It's always wrong. If you feel some type of way about your partner.....discuss it or move on. Going thru phones or watching him or her gives you more headache than you deserve. 41 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by phabuloz(m): 6:03am On Apr 22, 2015 |
This has cause lots of problems in relationship so I wouldn't advise any1 to indulge in it 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by rawpadgin(m): 6:13am On Apr 22, 2015 |
U can monitor ur partner if u want to die young 64 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by alberto2k(m): 6:15am On Apr 22, 2015 |
Biggest sign of Insecurity. . . Itz very Wrong like Rongw  13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by falconey(m): 6:18am On Apr 22, 2015 |
monitor what? I remember what a sagacious man once told me " the punny is not yours,its just your time with it"  25 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by francizy(m): 6:19am On Apr 22, 2015 |
OP it is right "if and only if" you want to have a heart attack... 10 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by realtestament(m): 6:22am On Apr 22, 2015 |
#U're liable 2 die young #Mood swings #lack of trust Mba!! i cnt take all dat 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by HaroldFinch(m): 6:27am On Apr 22, 2015 |
I don't think it helps. It only fuels your anger and hatred more. Nobody is perfect and 'monitoring' will only allow your eyes to feed on your partner's secrets and flaws, which you also have. Whenever you're in doubts, call your partner and discuss as opined above. Communication helps a lot. I once monitored an ex and it became a disease. I wish I had used all those time for better things. We ended up breaking up cos I discovered lots of things that I found difficult to erase. I'm pretty sure if she had 'monitored me too, the same thing might have happened. In sum,' monitoring ' is like playing God. Start appreciating the good things in your partner and discuss things you find inconvenient. 37 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by enoqueen: 6:27am On Apr 22, 2015 |
Nananana. |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by tinuolababy(f): 6:31am On Apr 22, 2015 |
It is right if he/she is one of your investments lol 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 6:33am On Apr 22, 2015 |
Nope...Infact I don't even answer my man phone, even in his absence. He on the other hand,  na different story. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by unikazzy(m): 6:38am On Apr 22, 2015 |
Twaci:don't start what u can't finish ooo |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 6:44am On Apr 22, 2015 |
If you are healthy enough, then you are free. . . NB: partner monitorers are liable to die young BTW, twaci, why are you putting on dada  ? Is dat d style i asked you to plait? Farano has influenced you right  c'mon! go and remove the dada. . .2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by agarawu23(m): 6:44am On Apr 22, 2015 |
Monitor your partner and monitor your health What will be yours will definitely be yours. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Kingblingz(m): 6:46am On Apr 22, 2015 |
Very WRONG! Like me,I don't even want 2 be left in a room with My GF's phne coz I wuld be tempted 2 check it nd dia's no how I won't get upset,if she say's baby pls send me doz pics of us,I wuld reply baby my ba3 is down I wuld do dat on watsap coz I dnt wanna hold her phne 4 a seconds....So if wantu MONITOR ur partner,sister also get ready 2 KEYBOARD ur relationshp 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Twaci(f): 7:20am On Apr 22, 2015 |
Orijin101:Its not dada...  Its OUR breakup hair 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Cutehector(m): 7:27am On Apr 22, 2015 |
A woman is not urs until until she is wit u for dat moment! 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by francbadoo: 7:29am On Apr 22, 2015 |
Death ni ele yi!! 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by KingTom(m): 7:32am On Apr 22, 2015 |
Orijin101:Lwkmd!!!! |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by kinglekan: 7:40am On Apr 22, 2015 |
Why should you monitor your partner? Are you a monitoring spirit? Relationships are built on Love which encompasses so many things like trust, faithfulness, compassion, etc. While so many others would disagree on Love being key cos of our different ways of defining love, yet we all agree that Trust is the watchword. Only people who are distrustful, insecure and pessimists engage in such demeaning activities. ***Modified*** Too many comments on your new look, had to take a peep at my crush. U look so beautiful dear. @Twaci And the hair looks lovely, don't mind all this admirers.  4 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 7:42am On Apr 22, 2015 |
KingTom:Baba, you sef no see the hair niii. . . upon she know how allergic i am to dada |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by KingTom(m): 7:44am On Apr 22, 2015 |
Orijin101:Ban loading... Buffering... 67% completed... 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 7:44am On Apr 22, 2015 |
Twaci:Blue dada, break up hair ?And when did we break up ooo? |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Segbu1: 7:45am On Apr 22, 2015 |
Nt kul. Did it for sometime and it almost kill my relationship...cos u only see her flaws when u do that... Don't much headache |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 7:48am On Apr 22, 2015 |
KingTom:fixed! 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by KingTom(m): 7:49am On Apr 22, 2015 |
Orijin101:Na you sabi |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by ireneony(f): 7:52am On Apr 22, 2015 |
is very wrong if not you go die before your time 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by naijaboiy: 7:59am On Apr 22, 2015 |
There is no rule that states whether it's wrong or right. Sometimes it's just for the good of the relationship not to bother yourself with somethings that will cause damage to it. But sometimes curiosity may get the better part of us and we'll see ourselves checking his/her phone and messages. I believe in periodic checking and asking of questions though. Don't just stay there and be left oblivious of what is going on. It may be very devastating when you finally find out. Trust me. 47 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Slimzjoe(m): 8:04am On Apr 22, 2015 |
When I no be Monitoring spirit  ?Anyways, periodic Peeping at ur Spouse Activities ain't bad NB: Don't take everything you Notice to heart 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by SarcasticMe(m): 8:16am On Apr 22, 2015 |
rokiatu:I can't exactly blame him... 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by charlsecy(m): 8:17am On Apr 22, 2015 |
What of placing CCTV at home to monitor activities at home? 1 Like |
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