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Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by ignis: 8:56pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Mprex:Thanks Honey You took those words from me. |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Bonapart(m): 8:57pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
cocokiller1:fornication is a sin before God... So don't attempt sex at all 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by vhw2014: 8:58pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
nwachivis: marry her before its too late. She took a bold decision and came clean before you married her is a keeper. Some have done it a hundred times and still lie to their husbands that they are virgins. She is ready for a clean start with you. A relationship built on trust and honesty is the best believe you me, and this is what she's offering you. If you forgive her this, you have a loyal babe for life. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Entchidodo: 8:59pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
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Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by duni04(m): 8:59pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Mprex:Them no sabi use contraceptive abi? How much is postinor? |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by FEAO1985(m): 9:00pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
in my opinion the right thing to do would be to not dump her but continue the relationship. Weigh your odds and assess the situation, billions of women still have numerous kids post an abortion. For your satisfaction you could take her for a complete check to a gynaec. |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by ose4better(m): 9:00pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Apply wisdom, She did d right thing by telling u so don't hold it against Her, just ensure dat she is still Fertile & can still Reproduce & do d Needful Guy. Note: Nobody is Perfect & there's no Perfect Woman Anywhere!!!!!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by cocokiller1(f): 9:00pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
passionate88:I think a thread should b created to address abortion nd who is to blame for abortion I don't knw y it's jst d girlss people blame or na becos na d girl dy carry d pikin? I think most times it's joint effort 4rm d boy nd girl to abort nd most times pressure 4rm d boy dat makes d girls abort nd most times d society at large u cnt completely blame d girls |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Gbanj11: 9:02pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
It's true what they say "only good girls get pregnant, the others take it to the cleaners" 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by netmillionaires(m): 9:03pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
ammyluv2002:Wait o! If the guy was your brother would you ask him to go ahead with the wedding? I am just asking o. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Nobody: 9:03pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
ammyluv2002: its always easy for women to say "we are just human", he is a guy and unfortunately God did not give us that grace to overlook issues of the "past" so easily...... @ op run a fertility test, and marry her still.... its however almost evident you will eventually make her feel bad about this action of hers simply from how much you take abortion.... Gud luck though 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Nursy(f): 9:03pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Abeg na who dey give dem belle? I can only spare u from this statement if u have never had premarital sex. Like the girls impregnate themselves, right? agarawu23: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by JustBB(f): 9:05pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Afterall she's not your first girl. She opened up to you I think you should appreciate that. I have a cousin you got married as a virgin, she has been married for like 14years and till now she has not conceived and I knoe someone who has lost count of abortion and within a space of 5years of marriage she has had 4 children. Pregnancy is not a matter of she has aborted before or not as long as no damage is done to her womb. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by cocokiller1(f): 9:05pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Bonapart:yh so d op should jst take his bride 4 checkup nd den go ahead with d marriage him no go tell me say him never bleep b4 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by femijck(m): 9:05pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
The issue of abortion shouldn't be a strange thing in this our generation....many of our girls now see it as a normal way of getting rid of the unwanted baby & and i can say 60-70% of them are guity of this ungodly act...i wil advice u run a fertility and other necessary test on her before taking her to d altar...move on wit ur plans once her fertility is confirmed.. BEST OF LUCK . |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by jamillion: 9:05pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Rubbish ![]() |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by MrsChima(f): 9:05pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
nwachivis: If having kids is so important to you then you need to focus on a woman that can have kids but here is the thing....children are a blessing from God and God will not give you kids if you are not ready or destined to have kids. You can get a virgin that has never been infected and still not have children. You need to be spiritually ready to receive children and be it the will of God. You want the love foremost...why have children with someone you truly are not compatible or in love with? You will divorce and drag tour children from women to women as you finally find your rib. People focus on things that are not important and neglected what is important . Once you do that everything else will fall in place. What I'd more important to you? Children or true love and companionship? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by 1stola: 9:06pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Over to you searching4love. What can you say about this? ![]() |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by tsmith(f): 9:06pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Ignorance is bliss..... And a lot of immature minds abound There is hardly any negative impact on the number of abortions a lady has! Infact a lady that has aborted is proven fertile than a woman that hasnt despite unprotected sex. There is actual proven research too on increased fertility of sexually active women compared to virgins or secondary Virgins ( abstinence). For ur rest of mind n assurance, you may wish to have a fertility test..... But calling off the relationship on this instance alone is not justifiable. To buttress my point, I'm also speaking from experience...... You can term me touch n go.... I have had to tie my wound coz I wAnt no more babies n I am not a fan of contraceptions due to other associated health risks. PS: I'm too old n matured to respond to side or snide comments. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by iwaeda: 9:07pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Oga why not move on,she is sincere with you.If a woman tells you the truth,she loves you.Please dont react so that you will drive true love away. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Babytil(f): 9:07pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Ur so on point ammyluv2002: |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Nobody: 9:07pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Mprex: So another mans problem should be the Husbands life burden because her and her ex were careless? 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by mandate2004(f): 9:08pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
U can walk out of d relationship if and only if u have never! never! slept wit a woman in ur life before.Spoil other girls n marrry a saint isn't always possible. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by ibrokola(m): 9:09pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Bro marry her like that since you both love each other. Besides whats the population of ladies out there who haven't aborted or even done worse. Remember the real bad gals are so good at it they don't get pregnant! 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by gbenga4my(m): 9:09pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Like others have rightly said, running a fertility test is the best shot u can give. If the test shows she can conceive, Wat else are u waiting for? Just make sure u join her in prayer for forgiveness and u r gud to go. All the best |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Bonapart(m): 9:10pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
cocokiller1:if I was the op, i won't marry her.... She's a murder... Why didn't she keep the baby. Wat dis the bay do wrong... the baby was innocent 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by gbenga4my(m): 9:10pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
mandate2004:Girls are not smiling 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Collins0609(m): 9:11pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
85% of women today have committed abortion. we have no choice than to live with it. when women commit crime and indulge in q all kind of vices ,it is deem acceptable. speaking against it show dat u are immature but when men commit crime it is unacceptable. |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Nobody: 9:12pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
You can quit the affair since that seems to be your pastime after your girls confess their abortion stories to you or you forgive them with love. 99% of those girls you see on the streets have performed an abortion or use abortion pills in their lifetime. Too bad we find it extremely difficult to forgive one another. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Nobody: 9:13pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
The issue is almost all girls have done abortion. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by gbenga4my(m): 9:13pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Bonapart:Murderer or not in as much her womb isn't spoilt, let him go ahead. God appreciate a repented sinner. Let him who live without sin be d ist to cast the stone. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Acidosis(m): 9:14pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
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