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Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Nursy(f): 8:22am On Apr 23, 2015 |
Can't guys abstain? Fourwinds: |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Nursy(f): 8:24am On Apr 23, 2015 |
I don hear you chowlade: |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by ammyluv2002(f): 8:28am On Apr 23, 2015 |
Viciyus:X100 |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by initiate: 8:30am On Apr 23, 2015 |
frodobee: bothered not bordered |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Nobody: 8:34am On Apr 23, 2015 |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Nobody: 8:35am On Apr 23, 2015 |
Nyceguy92: Thank you sir |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by topazgold: 8:36am On Apr 23, 2015 |
Bros i understand how you feel, you gat to consider so many things, what if she didnt tell you, what if you got her pregnant and along the way something happend and the babe is no more that is another form of abortion you, are going to leave too, besides you have a past which you have not told her, please go do your wedding and do not try God by saying you want to impregnant her before marriage. |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by ammyluv2002(f): 8:40am On Apr 23, 2015 |
emperorlero:Bless you too. So many kids in here! They think life is that simple...My neighbour's wife had 3 abortions before she got married last 4 years and today she has 2 kids. Note, she didn't tell her hubby any of these, you need to see her condemn the act each time we discuss such issue #PoorInnocentMan and the man will be like "girls are so mean" not knowing his wife has done worse things. There are stories of babes who even commit such act few weeks to their wedding yet they cat like saints and their husbands see them that way. |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by ammyluv2002(f): 8:43am On Apr 23, 2015 |
alterswerve:*sign* |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by edjeodiri(m): 8:44am On Apr 23, 2015 |
agarawu23: You've said it all...my advice is that you should have unprotected intercourse with your spouse Make sure you empty all your sperm inside then wait for two weeks to find out if she is pregnant or not.... In as much as I feel that she is telling u the truth bro its a 50-50 tin. |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Diamonddamsel: 8:45am On Apr 23, 2015 |
In my opinion the OP claims no woman has ever had an abortion for him but never said he had not had unprotected sex with anyone in his lifetime.Then he is just lucky because any of those ladies could have gotten pregnant.What if you meet a lady who has never committed abortion but has used a lot of contraceptives which could in the future affect her fertility cos many fall in that category.If an abortion is done safely not with quacks it doesn't affect her chances of having children in the future.Im very much against abortion but I admire the lady's truthfulness.I've personally witnessed a lady who married as a Virgin wait for 7yrs while another who had done an abortion currently has 3kids. |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by agborodun: 8:50am On Apr 23, 2015 |
O ga o
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Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by mruwaifo(m): 8:51am On Apr 23, 2015 |
Your only concern should be wether or not the past abortion impedes her ability to have children. If not there is nothing to bother about . It may interest you to know that much more girls have had abortions several times in the past . Even the so-called wife materials . |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Dragonking: 8:56am On Apr 23, 2015 |
nwachivis: Dump her azzz and don't look back..why did she hide it from you until after the introduction? she must have thought that there is no way you can leave her after the introduction hence her deceitful confession. who knows what else she has done in the past that she is hiding from you? she might even be an olosho/ashawo before meeting you. many ladies out there are lairs and pretenders and you have to be careful so as not to regret in your marriage. if you make a mistake marrying her and everyday u guys fight, the same people telling here to marry her will be the first to call you a BEAST! Shine ur eyes. |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Teespice(f): 9:02am On Apr 23, 2015 |
Mprex: lwkmd. |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Nobody: 9:08am On Apr 23, 2015 |
nwachivis: no woman will tell u dis gory story after introduction. its either she told u wen u were dating, or u will never hear it for s rest of ur life |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by dapsonlou(m): 9:23am On Apr 23, 2015 |
nwachivis: Dude take my advice, If you love her you will have to shed your religious believes. Make sure She's Pregnant before you marry. No one have to know, but make sure the doctor conducting the test is your Doctor. Listing you didn't meet her a virgin and am sure she didn't lie to you she was, so when people have sex in relationships mistakes can happen, so u can't hold it against her. But my guy make sure she get belle o, you don't want to be 50 n searching for fuit of the womb miracle up down. |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by suptol(m): 9:36am On Apr 23, 2015 |
mouth sealed. Some ladies sha!! |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Akynzodeighbour(m): 10:18am On Apr 23, 2015 |
ammyluv2002:am not a saint, ur the one acting like one... Moreover would you marry an ex rapist, or ex criminal |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by dhabeautyjas(f): 10:18am On Apr 23, 2015 |
agarawu23:what if she gets preggy and it comes down after the wedding?, you are not G*d. Some ladies prefer to enter a relationship based on trust. What of people that were never wayward and yet Go*d decides to test them with long wait. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Nobody: 10:37am On Apr 23, 2015 |
Being a virgin before getting married does not guarantee fruitfulness, so also abortion does not guarantee childlessness, because God is not a man, we all live by his grace. There are some thoughts we should get outta our heads, so God doesnt give u a trial with what u say or wish. |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by ammyluv2002(f): 10:43am On Apr 23, 2015 |
Akynzodeighbour:Oh! I'm now acting like a saint? Tot i was the bad one here.....Funny how people reason *smh* |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Ochedi(m): 10:51am On Apr 23, 2015 |
nwachivis: she's trying u bro |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Ivorybaby(f): 10:58am On Apr 23, 2015 |
Babe your head dey there. Hedybee: |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by frodobee: 11:15am On Apr 23, 2015 |
initiate: Thanks a lot. I will take correction. |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Becalm(m): 11:15am On Apr 23, 2015 |
Go ahead and marry her. She could have told you many years after marriage OR not tell you at all. If you love her and all other things are in place RIDE ON. If you are still uncomfortable after my post, then take her to a Gynecologist for tests to clear your conscience. BUT, have you done a girl before without protection, if you have then you have no moral justification to cancel the wedding because you could have put another woman in that condition. |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by nett: 11:18am On Apr 23, 2015 |
My candid advice is for you to weigh all consequences before you take the next step. even if you get her pregnant before u marry her, how are u sure that her womb is healthy enough to bear a 100% healthy child after the trauma she put it through? Just food for thought. |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by miss20(f): 11:40am On Apr 23, 2015 |
quote author=kendrick9 post=32984862]i will advice you to get her pregnant first to be sure if she still has a womb.... girls like that most probably were cheap runs girl before u met her... I will kick her out it was me tho...[/quote] [b][/b]cheap runs girls indeed.how many of u guys presently in a relationship will agree to have the baby if ur girlfrend tells u shez pregnant? Though its her choice to keep it or not,I strongly disagree that girls like that most probably wer cheap runs girls.infact most r just victims of irresponsible cowards dey call boyfriends. Mind u,real runs girls don't get pregnant for their magas. @op if u dump dis one,wat garantee dyu have dat d next one won't b an abortee too. Or wat if d next one is an abortee but she keeps it secret. Like one poster sed,she might just hav lied abt d abortion to know how much u love her.all d same,d ball is in your court. Note-i don't support abortion |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Nobody: 11:42am On Apr 23, 2015 |
ammyluv2002:if he his ur broda 6r son, am sure u're not gonna give him dis kinda advice. . Op, d best thing 2do is go 4 medical check up with her, even if she's testing u, u havnt failed. . U myt endure d complications comin forth afta marriage, bt she's nt married to u alone bt ur family, wen dis complications bcums worrysum, trust me ur family(moda) wunt take it lightly as u'd. . A stitch in tym saves nine. . |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Akynzodeighbour(m): 11:43am On Apr 23, 2015 |
ammyluv2002:infact shake your head very well, make sure it doesn't fall off |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Nobody: 11:47am On Apr 23, 2015 |
mizlynda:U shud consider marrying an impotent waitin 4 God's miracles to manifest. . |
Re: Please Help Me..... She Openned Up To Me After Our Family Introduction. by Akynzodeighbour(m): 11:51am On Apr 23, 2015 |
agzoo:probably she has done it before #justsaying |
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