Some parents are to be blame. But the ladies ought disagree against their parents wish. Now they are the one feeling the pain...

innervoice:


As a matter of fact, there are plenty of families in which some kids are very responsible and others not. I am yet to see a family without at least one black sheep. If, however, you believe that their daughters are irresponsible too, then mention their shortcomings and leave out their brothers.



A woman does not need to be tall. I know plenty of tall men who have short girlfriends. Height is a male issue, not a female.



Haven't you just said eligible men are only to be found one in a million? You have answered your question yourself. I didn't know eligible equals very rich.



First it was about his profession and now it's about his bank account. What are we talking about now?

What do you mean by black sheep?
Some children can be stubborn or weird when you step on their fundamental right unlike their siblings who are cool but before you flaw their right they are respectful...
What does this mean?
The parents are to be blamed because every farmer knows which crop is doing well and add more fertilizer to the one lagging... You channel the energy of a child rightly... This is the children people tell you; e no dey fine trouble but if you find him trouble na double wahala you go get...
Dear, how old are you?
I ask because you talk like an 18, how many people think I am right click LIKE and SHARE if you think otherwise.
Please, I mean no disrespect but saying what I deem fact.

freecocoa:
Mschew.

Mschew for what? Mschew because you can't compose a short sentence to contribute to the post or Mschee because you feel someone was talking to you with this post? Pity...your fellow old layers are busy liking it (55 likes from 55 old layers). This is the kind of girl that makes people think girls arent intelligent, just making stupid sounds and gestures where others are making reasonable contributions. Look at the post below yours...thats a girl like you

The case sometimes could be spiritual and at another diabolic effect from household and close relatives

rockcitie:
Please must you talk if you have nothing meaningful to say? What makes you think that a woman above 30 would also not find a matured man (close to 40 years)? Do you think it's everyone who is interested in settling down with "little girls"? Please speak for yourself alone. What works for you may not work for others.

this is a debate and you have all the rights to not agree with what i wrote.

First of all d ratio of women to men should b like 5 is to 1, so its obvious sm wont get married. Many factors too like mst men r unemployed,sm in jail etc. Like I always say if u get to a certain age have a baby whether thru artificial insemination, adoption ,contract wit a man etc cos nobody should die alone

according to the last census in 2006, men outnumber women by 4 million in nigeria. please check google for male to female ratio of different countries including nigeria.

lordyugo:
First of all d ratio of women to men should b like 5 is to 1, so its obvious sm wont get married. Many factors too like mst men r unemployed,sm in jail etc. Like I always say if u get to a certain age have a baby whether thru artificial insemination, adoption ,contract wit a man etc cos nobody should die alone

LESSON TO EVERY SINGLE LADY
any lady from 20yrs should be prepared or is preparing for marriage, most ladies get a minimum of 5 marriage proposal between 20 - 30yrs in a lifetime,cos she is in her prime, regardless of her looks, financial status, academic qualification etc.
marriage in our society na open eye matter oo, regardless of wetin family members think or do na u get d final decision, if you serious enough.

kaboninc:


My dear, let's not colour our opinions and make it look like facts.

Generally speaking, men do not flock around ladies who are above 50 years for marriage. The few who do, do so for economic gain.

Take a poll of 10 men. Ask them how many would love to marry a 50 year old hot lady when there are countless number of young 25 - 30 years old ladies.

Sugar mommy nko?

Lord have mercy. How did I get here.

The pressure 4 women 2 get married in this part of d world is just too much. @ the end they just push some of d ladies 2 their early grave. Arowolo case is a typical sample. Ladies take ur time, dont let any1 kill you b4 ur time out of senseless pressure. Marriage doesnt automatically gurantee happiness.

Apart from runs, other factors may include economic situation, the lady's social class, work engagements, tribal or religious sentiments, stiff family background, setting high standards for suitors, expensive bride price/dowry, stigma in the family; may be the family bears a very bad image, too many choices, the lady's attitude towards men, lack of proper home training which may likely discourage suitors and some other psychological factors such as low self esteem, living unsociable life, post traumatic effects, etc.... Spiritual forces cud also be involved.

aflyingbird:
if the stories up there are true , it's those women's fault dat they're single , they're letting their parents control their lives .

some time those ladies are selective dats y!!!

cococandy:
The more single women out there, the more single men.

I know plenty of guys that age who are still single.
Why is nobody on their case?
Abi the ladies go marry themselves?

#rolls eye.

open up say hey I'm single o!!!

kaboninc:


Hahahaha

So it is sambarry?

Mr man don't be typing my name in useless conversation like this. Thank you



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Different strokes for different folks. In the same nigeria, we have women who have been married more than five times and still marketable with different children from different men. There is something that needs a clear explanation.

cococandy:
The more single women out there, the more single men.

I know plenty of guys that age who are still single.
Why is nobody on their case?
Abi the ladies go marry themselves?

#rolls eye.

that nigeria for you
just waiting till i find the right babe to marry wether she is older than me or not
and one man or woman try put asunder na run i go just run elope with her still dem get sence
it very hard for babes that are still single but most of them still have unrealistic goals,aspiration and hope

The rate at which married men sleep around with anything in skirt is enough to scare many single ladies. Men are dogs! It's in their DNA!mtshewww

Open season. Hunt down single women and bash them all ba?

Mehn took time to read up to this stage.
Just don't know who to blame for all this.
Thank God the clueless one is on his way to otueke.
For the unmarried and still searching ladies pls take heart and never relent. Same for all the unemployed guys and babes.
The truth is that not all will marry. Not all will be employed. So no matter where you find yourself like tupac will say "keep your head up and handle it".
Wish best for y'all Nigerians

cococandy:
The more single women out there, the more single men.

I know plenty of guys that age who are still single.
Why is nobody on their case?
Abi the ladies go marry themselves?

#rolls eye.

Men,makes the proposal at his disposal... Stop playing i-don't-care scenario before this same words becomes your worst nightmare,most of these women listed above,also hissed & made the same sentence you made years back.

sule5727:
open up say hey I'm single o!!!

sauceny:


Men,makes the proposal at his disposal... Stop playing i-don't-care scenario before this same words becomes your worst nightmare,most of these women listed above,also hissed & made the same sentence you made years back.

SMH

cococandy:
SMH

Don't be vexed naaaaa,itz called "Reality"

to my own point of view 95% of ladies are the cause there is no lady that wilt tel me a guy didnt come and seek hand in marriage from 18 to 28 at least 3 or 5 would come but then there blood is hot and they alow to pass them.ladies should be careful on there decision and also pray god leads you in every part of your life.the truth is everything about ladies are complicating.

cococandy:
The more single women out there, the more single men.

I know plenty of guys that age who are still single.
Why is nobody on their case?
Abi the ladies go marry themselves?

#rolls eye.

The moral of the write up is "men have a longer shelf life than women" A man can marry @80 and still be able to bear children but a wOman cannot. At 40,she's already began to struggle with menopause and aging. Finally,it's a mans world after all.

Olufemiolaolu:
The pressure 4 women 2 get married in this part of d world is just too much. @ the end they just push some of d ladies 2 their early grave. Arowolo case is a typical sample. Ladies take ur time, dont let any1 kill you b4 ur time out of senseless pressure. Marriage doesnt automatically gurantee happiness.

Good morning..
I appreciate your ASTUTE REMARK...
THIS clearly shows that you have a well developed GREY MATTER in your skull..

Let me ask..
Does MARRIAGE guarantee joy and PROSPERITY..?

Does MARRIAGE guarantee EMPLOYMENT.?

can MARRIAGE prevent WARS.?
PLEASE LET'S allow these LADIES I beg.... and mind you that there are LADIES who have chosen to remain single.. Examples are the REVEREND SISTERS, etc
so since they took that decision have they missed out..?

Some MEN can be useless and you know it.., please when you find such men, PUSH your sisters to them..

AM getting married soon Thank Jesus and may he do so to all single ladies

freecocoa:
Yea right.

The article is bullshit.

And why is it BS?

Dragonking:


Not only me but men generally.. the rate at which single ladies are increasing is alarming. very soon, you ladies will be queuing up to be wife number 7.

Isaiah 4:1

Don't not be worried for single ladies rather be worried about men like you who foolishly think that polygamy and variety is the best solution. There are thousands and millions of monogamy relationship in the world. You can go back to 100bc if you are obssessed with polygamy. Stop quoting the bible upside down! And what makes you think am single? Responsible men are thinking of settling down and raising a family with a loving woman;and one mumu is thinking of getting 10wives! Don't quote me again.

MRBrownJ:


many people dont easily fall in love because they are too careful with their heart and dont open up that easily to people. they guard themselves too much, so we have people dating for years and yet dont put themselves on the line (not for that person nor that r/ship). i have never been afraid to be hurt by women, and therefore i open my heart, i give the chance for people to get in... thats part of the game if you really want to discover someone, and let them discover you fully. the catch is that people can use that against you (big deal) but the advantages of that is: when you meet the right person, its ON!

This is quite funny. Fear is definitely not the reason why I don't fall in love easily.

hamilton62:

What do you mean by black sheep?
Some children can be stubborn or weird when you step on their fundamental right unlike their siblings who are cool but before you flaw their right they are respectful...
What does this mean?
The parents are to be blamed because every farmer knows which crop is doing well and add more fertilizer to the one lagging... You channel the energy of a child rightly... This is the children people tell you; e no dey fine trouble but if you find him trouble na double wahala you go get...
Dear, how old are you?
I ask because you talk like an 18, how many people think I am right click LIKE and SHARE if you think otherwise.
Please, I mean no disrespect but saying what I deem fact.

How many kids have you raised?

Ihuomadinihu:

Don't not be worried for single ladies rather be worried about men like you who foolishly think that polygamy and variety is the best solution. There are thousands and millions of monogamy relationship in the world. You can go back to 100bc if you are obssessed with polygamy. Stop quoting the bible upside down!

Isaiah 4:1; And seven women shall take hold of one man in that day, saying, “We will eat our own bread and
wear our own clothes, only let us be called by
your name; take away our reproach.”

Do you have a better explanation for this verse above? If not , keep shut as it is already coming to pass. Ladies are now desperate to get married. Many lie and deceive the men just to get married. Go to church alone and see the high rate of unmarried women meeting the pastor to pray for them. Even at ur work place u will see them in abundance. The ratio of woman to man is about 11:1 in the world so what do you think will happen? Man was meant to be polygamous whether you like it or not and that prophecy will come to pass. You better prepare ursef