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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by Ihuomadinihu: 7:54am On Apr 24, 2015
Dragonking:


Isaiah 4:1; And seven women shall take hold of one man in that day, saying, “We will eat our own bread and
wear our own clothes, only let us be called by
your name; take away our reproach.”


Do you have a better explanation for this verse above? If not , keep shut as it is already coming to pass. Ladies are now desperate to get married. Many lie and deceive the men just to get married. Go to church alone and see the high rate of unmarried women meeting the pastor to pray for them. Even at ur work place u will see them in abundance. The ratio of woman to man is about 11:1 in the world so what do you think will happen? Man was meant to be polygamous whether you like it or not and that prophecy will come to pass. You better prepare ursef
You better prepare your useless self to be polygamous. There are many responsible men out there. Stop using the old testament to deceive yourself.

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by Dragonking: 7:59am On Apr 24, 2015
Ihuomadinihu:

You better prepare your useless self to be polygamous. There are many responsible men out there. Stop using the old testament to deceive yourself.

That verse is a prophecy and as most of prophet Isaiah prophecies they will come to pass. I am already preparing for polygamy when I am ready to get married and won't mind taking you as wife number 5. grin

The truth is bitter but it is the best. Our ancestors got married to more than one wife and there were no serious issues about plenty single ladies lining up the road praying to get married. Whether you like it or not the word of God will come to pass.

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by Moana(f): 8:06am On Apr 24, 2015
see as single +35 men give advice on what they know nothing of lol

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by Ihuomadinihu: 8:06am On Apr 24, 2015
Dragonking:


That verse is a prophecy and as most of prophet Isaiah prophecies they will come to pass. I am already preparing for polygamy when I am ready to get married and won't mind taking you as wife number 5. grin

The truth is bitter but it is the best. Our ancestors got married to more than one wife and there were no serious issues about plenty single ladies lining up the road praying to get married. Whether you like it or not the word of God will come to pass.
Look at this stupor! What makes you think am single. Only Nairaland will give every dick and harry opportunities to yarn nonesense. You are just one out of the millions of men in this world. Nobody will stop you from being polygamous. And people don't share/recognize your opinion.
Which of your ancestors??
History still emphasizes that monogamy was still in vogue before christanity came,so your ancestors don't even share your views. They must be ashamed of you!

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by kaboninc(m): 8:07am On Apr 24, 2015
Ewuro4:


Sugar mommy nko?

Lord have mercy. How did I get here. angry

Like I said, the 'few' who do so, do so for economic gain.

Morin cheesy

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by kuuljay(m): 8:14am On Apr 24, 2015
cococandy:
The more single women out there, the more single men.

I know plenty of guys that age who are still single.
Why is nobody on their case?
Abi the ladies go marry themselves?

#rolls eye.
That's because even at 70 if a man wants to get a wife in one week he will,so wake up dear

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by Donbasi(m): 8:15am On Apr 24, 2015
E go clear all these our generation babes for eye very soon. despite everything dem still de form even when their mind de game. make una no worry I go read from una very soon. una go soon blame una papa n mama.

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by Edusouls(m): 8:21am On Apr 24, 2015
this world is guided by the laws of nature which is flawless, women are the cause of their own problems, at their prime age women are unstopable, they live a crooked, proud, deceitful and arrogant life, they use and dump young men at their deteriment, they play with men's feelings and use relationship as buisness and fun, they keep as many guys as they like as it suites their needs,manupulating each one to provide a specific need, dating and taking money from a married man,who runs a family is fun to them,having abortion,wasting the blood of an innocent soul is now done with ease and no remorse, promiscuity is the moto of the so called big girls nowadays,women now run a disguised form of prostitiution brothel known as runs,to meet up with their greedy and insatiable needs, women lead a very greedy,wicked and careless life style thinking that its all fun, but not knowing that the law of karma never fails,never forgets, women are paying for their various past ill deeds, most of them have already wasted their future husbands, so which one are they seeking to marry again?

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by Dragonking: 8:25am On Apr 24, 2015
Ihuomadinihu:

Look at this idiot! What makes you think am single. Only Nairaland will give every dick and harry opportunities to yarn nonesense. You are just one out of the millions of men in this world. Nobody will stop you from being polygamous. And people don't share/recognize your opinion.
Which of your ancestors??
History still emphasises that monogamy was still in vogue before christanity came,so your ancestors don't even share your views. They must be ashamed of you!

try and research instead of just typing anything..Your ancestors were never monogamous. Several African cultures had always practiced polygamy before the coming of Christianity.

Read this; http://abcnews.go.com/Nightline/single-black-females/story?id=9395275

That article is about the high level of single unmarried black women in the US..The lady being interviewed said " It's just not that easy. For starters, there are 1.8 million more black women than black men. So even if every black man in America married a black woman today, one out of 12 black women still wouldn't make it down the aisle if they hoped to marry a black man."

If a woman in the most developed country in the world is still crying about being single at 31years what do you think will be the case here in this part of the world?

Also read here; http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-151791/Number-single-women-doubles.html

If you think the world isn't concerned about the high rate of single ladies then u are sitting on a long thing. Better wake up and face reality.

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by Moana(f): 8:28am On Apr 24, 2015
Edusouls:
this world is guided by the laws of nature which is flawless, women are the cause of their own problems, at their prime age women are unstopable, they live a crooked, proud, deceitful and arrogant life, they use and dump young men at their deteriment, they play with men's feelings and use relationship as buisness and fun, they keep as many guys as they like as it suites their needs,manupulating each one to provide a specific need, dating and taking money from a married man,who runs a family is fun to them,having abortion,wasting the blood of an innocent soul is now done with ease and no remorse, promiscuity is the moto of the so called big girls nowadays,women now run a disguised form of prostitiution brothel known as runs,to meet up with their greedy and insatiable needs, women lead a very greedy,wicked and careless life style thinking that its all fun, but not knowing that the law of karma never fails,never forgets, women are paying for their various past ill deeds, most of them have already wasted their future husbands, so which one are they seeking to marry again?
so if a woman keeps herself until she is ready for marriage and she just happens to be +30 it automatically makes hey greedy, wicked and careless?

i wonder how some people reason sef! undecided

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by peren: 8:33am On Apr 24, 2015
Jesu! this market go hard ooo!

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by Nobody: 8:37am On Apr 24, 2015
coogar:




then all of a sudden, the same parents who didn't want their daughters to smile at any guy would start pressuring the girls to find a husband overnight. nigerian parents need a huge dose of deliverance.
so so on point. that was the exact case with my mum.

african parents don't expect u to date but must bring home a husband by 24yrs!!! gosh so ridiculous.. undecided

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by Moana(f): 8:43am On Apr 24, 2015
Borrussia:
Those materialistic girls are favourite for these predicaments.
a male does 419 and exorts people of money----> hustling
a female exorts guys for money-----> she is materialistic undecided

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by Nobody: 8:44am On Apr 24, 2015
bennyrazz:
the major problem here is family setting unreasonable standards for the man their daughter wants to marry. Though I am not against setting standards but there should be a limit to the standards family set and there should be limits to the type of man a woman dreams to marry.


Some women have what we call checklist for the type of man they want to marry but they are so quick to forget that God also has a checklist for the type of husband he has destine for them to marry. In God's plan, your husband is short, in the woman's plan, her husband is tall. In God's plan, your husband is a farmer, in the woman's plan, her husband is an Engineer. So when your plan doesn't meet with God's plan for the kind of man they want to marry, how will the marriage be possible?

There is nothing God cannot do for you so far you stick to his plans for you, no father or mother can stop you from getting married so far the man/woman is God's choice.

Lastly, some women are the architect of their own marital woes. They are too high to maintain, nothing pleases them, it is never enough for them, they have this proud look, their taste is too high, they are very wasteful, they cannot endure circumstances, they complain & nag at the same time, they are very disrespectful, they dress like harlots etc

Some men have what we call checklist for the type of woman they want to marry but they are so quick to forget that God also has a checklist for the type of wife he has destine for them to marry. In God's plan, your wife is short and ugly, in the man's plan, his wife is tall, curvy and beautiful. In God's plan, your wife is a food vendor, in the man's plan, his wife is a Chartered Accountant. So when your plan doesn't meet with God's plan for the kind of woman they want to marry, how will the marriage be possible?

There is nothing God cannot do for you so far you stick to his plans for you, no father or mother can stop you from getting married so far the man/woman is God's choice.

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by anasey(m): 8:50am On Apr 24, 2015
Some Ladies need to change their thought process about guys, then, they'll get someone to marry them.
Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by harry509: 8:51am On Apr 24, 2015
AdeniyiA:

So u had to quote the whole passage inorder to make this statement??
it's annoying bro angry
is vry obvious they use their hand 2 cause d problm 4 demselves. On d oda hand I didt even boda 2 read all d stories bcus is anoyn.

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by queensmith: 8:52am On Apr 24, 2015
freecocoa:
Mschew.

I x2 your mschew, and add a smh for flavour and kmt for desert.

Bunch of jobless animals, they should be more concerned with the alarmingly small number of women in government, or politics, or engineering and science.
Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by emzila(m): 8:53am On Apr 24, 2015
I am available o, 34yrs graduate but still hustling for job. Pls our ladies needs to understand that our economy is so bad now such that ladies easily get job than the guys. If any of u meets a guy and u observe him to be d serious minded one pls irrespective of his financial status, especially when u know that u can take care of urself, give him a chance. Some blacks outside Nigeria were put on live interview the other time on why they preferred white ladies, over 70percent of them attribute their reasons to the ladies' assistance contrary to a situation back in Nigeria.

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by RuuDie(m): 9:04am On Apr 24, 2015
Funny how 'we' turn around to mock and blame women for the sins 'we' consciously or otherwise aid or abet them to do!

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by Nobody: 9:06am On Apr 24, 2015
mekybabe1:
The rate at which married men sleep around with anything in skirt is enough to scare many single ladies. Men are dogs! It's in their DNA!mtshewww

THEN YOUR FATHER NA LOCAL DOG

YOUR GRANDFATHER NA BULL DOG


YOUR FOUR FOUR FATHER NA POLICE DOG

YOU BE BICTH (SHE DOG)



FISH BRAIN

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by Jman06(m): 9:13am On Apr 24, 2015
LORETA:
hmmm you guys are saying there are much of unmarried womaen .and i am here looking for a wife...(am over 30)..well i would blame them.........my friend tried match mate me with two working class girls..one works in the air-port.......................we only saw twice in five days..and she started telling me how her fan and sleeping foam needs to be change.,,,how she is so broke that ATM didnt pay her....ladies..how do u expect me to feel...the other girl had her own story after one week.......its feels so bad i tell u
Your problem is that you are looking for a working class lady! Seems you are broke?

What real men do is hustle for money, acquire much of it and then look for a young girl (aka onu ugu) and marry her. That way you can be able to put her under control. Only the broke ones look for working class ladies!

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by m1500: 9:16am On Apr 24, 2015
coogar:


how can the parents of irresponsible sons desire responsible sons-in-law? shouldn't they just accept the fate their hands deal to them? if it's that easy to find responsible men, why didn't they raise one?

truth is - eligible men are 1 in a million.
every woman wants him. he's a hot commodity. so the chances of him settling with a girl is 1/number of the women who desire him. good luck to you & your daughter.

So can we deduce from your analysis that there are only 160 eligible men in Nigeria since we've a population of approximately 160million people
Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by quivah(f): 9:26am On Apr 24, 2015
I see financial instability of the guys is part of the major reason some women of marriageable age remain single..according to some posts.
the problem most times isn't about the financial status of the men, but most of these men don't remember the ladies that stood by them when they were church rats, before cheating /even dumping them for girls who snubbed them in the past... probably they just wanna get laid or they suddenly realised the girls who stood by them are classless , hence need ladies that suite their status.

most poor men are loyal, humble, caring and all good things because they are POOR. let small change come, the beast in them become unleashed... And you begin to wonder if they were worth the loyalty and stress.
even worse still, many of these poor men are insecure, unstable, aggressive! (with these type of men, its better to cry in a limo than on their bicyclesundecided)

financial stability SHOULD(not just the criterion) be part of the criteria to get married.. don't leave it out.

manage with them in one room, when they can afford a flat, they remember they need a second wife

nb: very few poor turn rich men still remain loyal.

men have also realised marriage don't worth the stress, s.ex is cheap, you can get a baby outside of marriage these days...And hence decided to remain single. who will marry the single girls then?
ladies abeg shine una eyes, when you see a good man..hold am tight. but don't settle for less(bad men) all in the name of marriage.. those guys saying trash now won't be there when you face hell in your marriages .( I pray not) .. know your worth, find him but don't overdo it.

don't because of marriage, go with a tout when you are worth a responsible man.
also don't lose a good man while pursuing your career, you can simply have them both..if you so wish.

^^ this is only for those that are diligent and with integrity.. not those that have wasted their lives sleeping around..

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by bayulll01(m): 9:30am On Apr 24, 2015
cococandy:
The more single women out there, the more single men.

I know plenty of guys that age who are still single.
Why is nobody on their case?
Abi the ladies go marry themselves?

#rolls eye.

The reasons and only reasons men out there are yet to marry is because of you ladies out there are not worth to marry,I rather stay single than to marry a leech,or empty head that knows nothing about marriage,I can get sex anytime I wants it,I can get a baby mama,I can even adopts,but to stay for life and marry a leech hell no,so you ladies should get your acts into the order

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by bayulll01(m): 9:34am On Apr 24, 2015
freecocoa:
Mschew.

Are u married?
Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by m1500: 9:38am On Apr 24, 2015
Dragonking:


Isaiah 4:1; And seven women shall take hold of one man in that day, saying, “We will eat our own bread and
wear our own clothes, only let us be called by
your name; take away our reproach.”


Do you have a better explanation for this verse above? If not , keep shut as it is already coming to pass. Ladies are now desperate to get married. Many lie and deceive the men just to get married. Go to church alone and see the high rate of unmarried women meeting the pastor to pray for them. Even at ur work place u will see them in abundance. The ratio of woman to man is about 11:1 in the world so what do you think will happen? Man was meant to be polygamous whether you like it or not and that prophecy will come to pass. You better prepare ursef

I'm with you on this. We all need to face realities; I do not see why our laws cannot allow a man marry as many women as he can care for; recently the Kenyan Government passed a polygamy bill into law; I think they did it to address the subject matter (see link below). We want to imitate Europe in everything- "one man one wife". Look around you; is it working?
No offense intended pls.

http://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-27206590

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by ooshinibos: 9:39am On Apr 24, 2015
so what's the solutions ..maybe marrying 3 to 4 wives should be legalized ?

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by mightycrown1(m): 9:40am On Apr 24, 2015
OP YOU ONLY SAMPLED THOSE THAT THEIR PREDICAMENT IS CAUSED BY THEIR PARENTS; WHAT ABOUT 1000 AND 1 THAT ARE THE ARCHITECTS OF THEIR NOT GETTING MARRIED DUE TO THEIR BEING MATERIALISTIC, FLIRTING AROUND AND LOOKING DOWN ON EVERY MAN THAT COME TO HAVE THEIR HANDS IN MARRIAGE. MAJORITY OF THESE PEOPLE SHOULD STOP BLAMING PARENTS AND FACE THE REALITY.

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by freecocoa(f): 9:53am On Apr 24, 2015
bayulll01:


Are u married?
Feck you.
Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by Gamesmart: 9:58am On Apr 24, 2015
cococandy:
The more single women out there, the more single men.

I know plenty of guys that age who are still single.
Why is nobody on their case?
Abi the ladies go marry themselves?

#rolls eye.

Because the men are not the ones desperate to marry.

And they have a better opportunity to marry if they change their minds and want to.

Bachelorhood is normally desired. Spinsterhood is normally not.

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Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by bayulll01(m): 10:13am On Apr 24, 2015
freecocoa:
Feck you.

Hey leech,what have I done,I only ask a questions,no wonder u will never get married

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