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Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by 5minsmadness: 2:02pm On Apr 22, 2015
Chillisauce:


Abeg who wan rape you? Nigerian girls no dey rape men #fact. We have enough wandering peeenises everywhere looking whom to trap. We are trying to dodge plenty bullet from these wandering zealous peeeenises, Na to raape? I don't believe you.

You make up too much story in your head.
wake up!

Don't believe me.
I mentioned it cos we were chatting at the time.
But it's not a lie.

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Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by crackhaus: 2:06pm On Apr 22, 2015
Chillisauce:




Awwwww. That's so cutttteeeee. cool
So how far? When you buying the flower, put the 3plots of lekki land documentation bearing my full names.

Tie the documents with the flowers.
You know say Na land dey reign now.
gringrin

Thief!

Na only Lekki? What of Banana Island... grin
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by An0nimus: 12:05am On Apr 23, 2015
5minsmadness:

Honestly I don't see the need to argue this.
Let me open a thread and ask nairaland girls if they would prefer romantically presented roses over material gifts. They will laugh me off the thread.
I'll like to see this thread too.
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by An0nimus: 12:12am On Apr 23, 2015
5minsmadness:


Majority of menfolk who behave like the guy in my example live to regret it.
The women take them for granted.
They start bossing the men around. This isn't theory, this is what i have seen first hand.
you can even read it in the few men that come on nairaland to complain.
Women don't like men that treat them like queens all the time, fact.

This is the truth of the world we live in, men should stop taking examples from telemundo. Women want heroes, men they can look up to, not men who will worship them.

1,000,000,000 likes.

@second paragraph.
...a couple folks might deny this simple truth but deep down, just deep down.

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Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by An0nimus: 12:18am On Apr 23, 2015
Chillisauce:


Abeg who wan rape you? Nigerian girls no dey rape men #fact. We have enough wandering peeenises everywhere looking whom to trap. We are trying to dodge plenty bullet from these wandering zealous peeeenises, Na to raape? I don't believe you.

You make up too much story in your head.
wake up!

lmaooo

Please don't say this in public especially where guys are. Them go just laugh yougringringrin

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Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by anonimi: 9:10am On Apr 23, 2015
Onegai:


I beg to differ.

Had a bf once who never took me anywhere not even to the cinema, meanwhile he got delicious meals from me every date. He would pick calls from other girls whilst I was sitting on his lap. On val's day, I wrote him a love letter, got him an original copy of his favourite musician's CD, wrapped them all up with a card and delivered it to his office.

He couldn't even be bothered to send me chocolate talk less of spend the day with me. I felt like a fool that day. Of course he broke up with me for being "too clingy" then wanted me back later (he also blamed me for him breaking up with me, changing the story from "Onegai is too eager to pick my calls that's why I broke up with her" to "Onegai never picks my calls that's why we broke up".

My point is that an arsehole is an arsehole no matter what you do to them, irrespective of gender. Pigs will always pick up pearls, throw them in the mud, bite them with their snouts and discard them to eat shite.

A caring man is a wonderful man. Hubby gave me roses and I took more pics of them and worried about them lasting more than the cake or perfume he sent me.

I believe the key in this matter as with practically everything else about life is to have a fair balance so as not to be OVER-caring and taken for granted.
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by edwife(f): 1:16pm On Apr 23, 2015
crackhaus:
LOL...

Thanks Edwife gringrin

Hmmm
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by crackhaus: 1:27pm On Apr 23, 2015
edwife:


Hmmm
Something I did? Or said?
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by Nobody: 2:59pm On Apr 23, 2015
5minsmadness:


Majority of menfolk who behave like the guy in my example live to regret it.
The women take them for granted.
They start bossing the men around. This isn't theory, this is what i have seen first hand.
you can even read it in the few men that come on nairaland to complain.
Women don't like men that treat them like queens all the time, fact.

If a guy makes the mistake of asking his wife "may i have sex with you?" as a routine , he will regret it.
Before you know it sex will only come at her behest, NEVER at his.

A man who cooks and cleans and washes and does the dishes will soon find himself doing it alllll the time, the woman just sits back and becomes lazy.

I had a girl once when i was naive, I bought her flowers for valentine (not that i didnt have money but i thought roses would have a more significant meaning than any material gift, silly me grin), I would carry her books to class and all the romantic stuff. Women can't stand that behavior for long. They want a man to be in control, to tell them what to do, to OWN them. This doesnt necessarily mean the man should be wicked or a slave-master, simply that being a man he should be more assertive, more confident, more steadfast and determined in what his likes and dislikes are.

I ended up handing my first love to another guy on a silver platter. she went after him because he was more assertive. he slapped her on the second week of thier dating because she made the mistake of thinking she could behave with him the way she did with me. she came to me to report but they made up the next day. they are married now with three kids.

This is the truth of the world we live in, men should stop taking examples from telemundo. Women want heroes, men they can look up to, not men who will worship them.
1) Are all girls the same?

2) We all know that 90% divorce cases is mostly when the husband is a jerk--beating his wife. So, tell me another one and stop propagating cheap lies online.

3) Have you seen a broken home caused by the over-caring attitude of the man?

4) That's what rocks her boat, mhan.

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Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by Nobody: 3:31pm On Apr 23, 2015
5minsmadness:

Then the man is a fool.
He should do the honourable thing and leave the house.
Lmao! grin
Women don do you strong things.
I wonder when paying rent makes the man a fool.

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Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by edwife(f): 3:55pm On Apr 23, 2015
crackhaus:

Something I did? Or said?

I thought the thank you will come with something,upon the fact that i did help you without meeting my demands. cheesy

Crackaus soften that palm of yours grin tongue
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by BlackLeopard(m): 4:50pm On Apr 23, 2015
5minsmadness:

Don't believe me.
I mentioned it cos we were chatting at the time.
But it's not a lie.

It's so sad you even have to defend yo on this stuff bro.
Hope you can avoid that hurt and vindictive lady in question.
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by crackhaus: 5:02pm On Apr 23, 2015
edwife:


I thought the thank you will come with something,upon the fact that i did help you without meeting my demands. cheesy

Crackaus soften that palm of yours grin tongue
Lmao... gringrin

My palm is always soft tongue
But since I'm limited in what I can come up with in the confines of Nairaland, let this be proof of my appreciation. grin

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Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by Veiled010(f): 5:29pm On Apr 23, 2015
The truth is that this is a very one sided story..plus the fact that the guy is already looking for solace in other women shows the quality of person he is. He should take the matter to someone that his wife respects and work out his marriage! Enough of all these divorce options already.

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Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by edwife(f): 5:40pm On Apr 23, 2015
crackhaus:

Lmao... gringrin

My palm is always soft tongue
But since I'm limited in what I can come up with in the confines of Nairaland, let this be proof of my appreciation. grin

Awww I love this kiss kiss

Thanks.
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by crackhaus: 5:49pm On Apr 23, 2015
edwife:


Awww I love this kiss kiss

Thanks.
Glad you like it wink

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Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by kaboninc(m): 7:02pm On Apr 23, 2015
FrancisTony:

1) Are all girls the same?

2) We all know that 90% divorce cases is mostly when the husband is a jerk--beating his wife. So, tell me another one and stop propagating cheap lies online.

3) Have you seen a broken home caused by the over-caring attitude of the man?

4) That's what rocks her boat, mhan.

Hmmmmm
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by Nobody: 7:55pm On Apr 23, 2015
kaboninc:


Hmmmmm
Uncle Kabo,

You know that Ikoyi Registry court handle most of the case. grincheesygrin
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by kaboninc(m): 8:01pm On Apr 23, 2015
FrancisTony:

Uncle Kabo,

You know that Ikoyi Registry court handle most of the case. grincheesygrin

I know bro.

But blaming the man for 90%....
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by Nobody: 8:11pm On Apr 23, 2015
kaboninc:


I know bro.

But blaming the man for 90%....
A woman might be the one who incited trouble but I was trying to debunk 5min's post that women prefer jerk to caring husband.
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by kaboninc(m): 8:21pm On Apr 23, 2015
FrancisTony:

A woman might be the one who incited trouble but I was trying to debunk 5min's post that women prefer jerk to caring husband.

Lool.

So do you think otherwise?
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by 5minsmadness: 8:40am On Apr 24, 2015
FrancisTony:

Lmao! grin
Women don do you strong things.
I wonder when paying rent makes the man a fool.
I don't expect a kid like you to understand.

Responsible men take care of their ladies, its an honor thing.

NO responsible man will be comfortable staying in a house where the woman repeatedly pays the rent.

Don't worry, you'll understand when you get older.

I gotta run, I have a 9am appointment.

BY all means have fun while I'm away, keep yourself busy smiley
(But don't mastrbate, it destroys brain cells angry cheesy)

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Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by 5minsmadness: 8:44am On Apr 24, 2015
FrancisTony:

1) Are all girls the same?
Basically, Yes. Just like you think 90%divorce cases are caused by men being jerks, I mean, how naive can you get? How old are you?

2) We all know that 90% divorce cases is mostly when the husband is a jerk--beating his wife. So, tell me another one and stop propagating cheap lies online.
See above response^^^^

3) Have you seen a broken home caused by the over-caring attitude of the man?
Many times.

4) That's what rocks her boat, mhan. Who?

later pls. gotta runm
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by Nobody: 10:57am On Apr 24, 2015
kaboninc:


Lool.

So do you think otherwise?
In some cases.
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by Nobody: 10:58am On Apr 24, 2015
How old am I? You'll grow old.

All your answers are not making sense.

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Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by lezz(m): 12:37pm On Apr 24, 2015
5minsmadness:

I don't expect a kid like you to understand.

Responsible men take care of their ladies, its an honor thing.

NO responsible man will be comfortable staying in a house where the woman repeatedly pays the rent.

Don't worry, you'll understand when you get older.

I gotta run, I have a 9am appointment.

BY all means have fun while I'm away, keep yourself busy smiley
(But don't mastrbate, it destroys brain cells angry cheesy)
your way of signing off is now the new benchmark!!! a wuzzbag is a woman pleaser who eventually ends up unfulfilled and empty, ruining both himself and the object of his love.

Women are almost always responsible for marital failures world wide. they have the key to the home. they run the home and dictate the domestic and financial tempo in the home.

men will always be men; forceful, taking responsibilities, demanding respect, giving instructions etc. the clever woman has the God given amour to disarm the meanest of men and make him do her bidding. men like to lead but a woman with wisdom strokes his ego, allow him to lead while she influence his decisions. that is the truest power given to women by God through biological evolution.

the modern woman flaps her mouth more than her senses. she uses her education more than she uses wisdom. so often times she ends up with a divorce and blames the jerk of a husband.


but truth is, IT IS FAR EASIER BEING A MODERN FEMINIST THAN BEING A TRUE NATURAL WOMAN.

FEMINISM IS A CHEAP EASY WAY OF TRYING TO FIND A WOMAN'S TRUE CALLING AND PURPOSE.

it is a pretense that man and woman are the same.

may God help the pvssy-men of this thread , chief of whom is FrancisTony . we pray some years from now he shall come into the light where experience and disillusionment would be a better apostle than we are.

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Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by Nobody: 1:09pm On Apr 24, 2015
An Ă­diot keeps mentioning my moniker. Enjoy in your folly.

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Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by Nobody: 3:45pm On Apr 24, 2015
crackhaus:

Lmao... gringrin

My palm is always soft tongue
But since I'm limited in what I can come up with in the confines of Nairaland, let this be proof of my appreciation. grin
edwife:

Awww I love this kiss kiss
Thanks.

Hmmmm
*clears throat*

francistony and 5minmadness abeg make una carry una war comot for this thread angry
we are talking business here and yall talking nansence!
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by roselynbas(f): 3:54pm On Apr 24, 2015
for the first time, i am speechless!
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by edwife(f): 5:06pm On Apr 24, 2015
Chillisauce:



Hmmmm
*clears throat*


gringringrin

Do you need some water?
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by edwife(f): 5:07pm On Apr 24, 2015
@Crackhaus vient prendre ta future femme,elle est jalouse grin
Re: Matured Advice Needed Urgently Esp From The Married by crackhaus: 5:18pm On Apr 24, 2015
edwife:
@Crackhaus vient prendre ta future femme,elle est jalouse grin
Elle se en remettra parce qu'elle sait que je ne peux pas arrĂȘter ... embarassed grin

No need for jealousy grin

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