cococandy:
The more single women out there, the more single men.

I know plenty of guys that age who are still single.
Why is nobody on their case?
Abi the ladies go marry themselves?

#rolls eye.

quivah:

man, you've been screaming Isi 4:1 .. did you bother to read the proceeding chapters
and tell us who he was referring to.

anyways, if the economy refuses men to marry a woman , how will it support polygamy to the extent of limiting the rate of unmarried women? even when some men(wealthy) themselves don't advocate for it.

the white men came with Christianity/Islam religions, they destroyed our idols, cultures.. if polygamy destruction is the only crime you see, then you are a hypocrite!
dump your Jesus, And start idolizing like your forefathers used to..drop civilization and go back to the bush man's life...then you can start saying we copy people's culture, practice what you preach.
white men are not your woes, your holy mighty forefathers worthy of emulation are.. they sold their lives/culture and are worse off being looked up to. Esaus!

Muslims/some Christians still practice polygamy cause they want it.
if you want 5 wives, go ahead(no one will penalise you) but don't forcefully bring verses that don't agree with u into it..

Ihuomadinihu:

Pls,stop drawing me into your nonesense. Nobody will stop you from sleeping with many women in the name of polygamy. Let this be the last time you stupidly quote me.

Moana:
i have already told u what i meant by my post but if u keep misinterpreting it then you cant really blame your inability to understand something written in plain english on me

Dragonking:


Heyaaa, I smell butt hurt. Sorry dear the truth hurts.

fem29:


Thank you oo. Lots of single old cargo men's out there. 2 of my bro inlaws are over 40 and unmarried. Heck even my bro is 40 and unmarried ( about to get engaged). Why no threads on this abeg leave these women alone, don't add to their feelings of desperation.

Dragonking:


Heyaaa, I smell butt hurt. Sorry dear the truth hurts.

abouzaid:
but none of those men will marry a lady 40 and over, one of my lecturers back then was over forty but married one of our classmates that hails from the same hometown with him

fem29:


Thank you oo. Lots of single old cargo men's out there. 2 of my bro inlaws are over 40 and unmarried. Heck even my bro is 40 and unmarried ( about to get engaged). Why no threads on this abeg leave these women alone, don't add to their feelings of desperation.

Naijasinglegirl:
poster just created a thread like this without interviewing me. na wa o

Ihuomadinihu:
I don't take this kind of threads serious anymore. It's a big shade on the womenfolk and single sisters. I wonder how and why our society automatically blames a woman for being single. Will the woman marry herself? More single ladies mean more single men. I know many virtuous born again sisters that still unmarried. Is it a woman's fault if she is unmarried at a certain age?
The bible says,'He that finds a wife finds a good thing'. It is the responsibility of men to find wives. More single ladies mean that single men are not doing what should be done.

MRBrownJ:


lol stop trying to shift your stand, 419 is a CRIME, and you made a mistake by trying to compare it with goldigging.

GodMode:


because they lack that knowledge...

If a man impregnates a woman.. The man is legally responsible for the financial, welfare e.t.c of that child failure to do so will lead to prison time or huge fines..

But some Nigerian women will f:oolishly go and do abortion..

saaedlee:

gloriana:
silence is d best answer for a wise man like u

kaboninc:


Like I said, the 'few' who do so, do so for economic gain.

Morin

Ewuro4:


Ahh I must've skipped that part.. my bad. You're right.

Morin from here.

abouzaid:
bros, here in the north, men are free to marry upto four wives and some marry more but they tend to marry mostly child brides and divorce them a few years later, the result is we have uncountable ladies aged twenty and above desperately searching for husbands without success. summary, polygamy is not the solution

Ihuomadinihu:

You are only being delusional! Nobody approves your sentiments.

Dragonking:


That is still an evidence that men are meant to be polygamous hence they quickly sign the bill. Your fore fathers were never monogamous but rather they were polygamous until the white men came and we started copying their cultures. Now even the women especially the black women in white countries are complaining of the high rate of unmarried women.

my dear, the truth is bitter but that prophecy in Isaiah 4:1 is gradually coming to pass.

GodMode:


. I don't share my opinions indiscriminately..

I absorb other peoples' knowledge and opinions then combine it with mine then improve my knowledge...

charlyge:


Lol this guy will cheat tire when he marries. U had better marry more than a wife.
I dnt support polygamy. No right thinking woman will be happy sharing a man with another woman. Polygamy brings confusion and hatred in a family. Worse case when the man dies

Moana:
the last time i checked offering sex for a favour or advantage can be classified as prostitution, correct me if im wrong in Nigeria prostitution is punishable by law? fraud and prostitution are criminal offences. you are the one who shifted the goal post and decided to discuss another thing. i already stated the intention of my post and u still went on to discuss something else.
if you quote me again trying to divert from the actual intention of my previous post, feel free to reply yourself .

qbd2:

In otherr words,u can't think on urr own. Ur a copycat

lisabty22:
to my own point of view 95% of ladies are the cause there is no lady that wilt tel me a guy didnt come and seek hand in marriage from 18 to 28 at least 3 or 5 would come but then there blood is hot and they alow to pass them.ladies should be careful on there decision and also pray god leads you in every part of your life.the truth is everything about ladies are complicating.

50calibre:
This is because most naija guys are slowly coming to the realisation that naija women are not marriage material but bunch of liabilities.. After weighing up the pros & cons of living with a liability, most guys reach the conclusion that marriage ain't worth the time or stress.

The sad fact is; most naija women are ugly, any honest person blessed with the gift of sight will agree with this. In addiction to this ugliness, naija women are further devalued by the so many vices corrupting their souls, this includes fakery, lying, greed, laziness, envy, bitterness, ignorance, arrogance....

To cap it all up, these women no longer exist in a world of reality, but in a fantasy world where Hollywood TV shows & movies are the paradigm.

The odds are really stacked up against Nigerian women, sadly their numbers are only going to swell in the coming years.

The odds are

Cholls:
my brothers and sisters is it compulsary you marry.

And if it is. Why do women have to wait still they become successful in their career,when at the end of the day they will still have to surrender their success to a man.

fem29:


Yes oo, I don't mean It in a bad way but let's be honest most women of that age do feel a bit desperate. It's the biological clock see. I encourage anyone in that predicament not to think they are missing out on much. Marriage isn't all that . It's just the fact of wanting kids and society frowns on single mothers

ignis:


Did you just wrote write same sex marriage?
God forbid.

mekybabe1:
The rate at which married men sleep around with anything in skirt is enough to scare many single ladies. Men are dogs! It's in their DNA!mtshewww