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She Is Older Than Me by olatayo1984(m): 4:55pm On Apr 24, 2015
My name is Ayo, I need ur sincere advice, please dont abuse me. Anything you believe can help, i will receive with thank. Am doing my M.sc and my school is in my home town where my father build his house, so i didnt bother to rent another apartment after they denial me of school accomadation. I always go to school from home. My has a friend that based in the North and last year he came for a burial and they stay over in our place. They came with this lady, that i later learnt was their daughter. I saw they briefly, when they are going and when i collected the lady no to send my cv to, so that he will print and give his dad. After many month, some days ago, miraculous we connected back. She sent a facebook request and the other is a story. Have started having feeling for her and she also but the issue was she is 3years older and even older than my immediate senior sister. I dont care about age likewise her too and fortunately for her, she was younger than her age in look. Am seeking advice and opinion of experience and mature mind, who really can help me out. Thk you in advance
Re: She Is Older Than Me by missKiffy(f): 4:58pm On Apr 24, 2015
You said you don't care about age, so what's the problem, age is nothing but a number if you two really love each other, another thing you can do is to make sure you don't let your family members know she is older than you so that they don't bring up unnecessary issues

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Re: She Is Older Than Me by Basildvalour(m): 4:59pm On Apr 24, 2015
Chairman, you said you do not care about age...Good

But have you also thought about respect and submission?

It is only you who can make up your mind on this
Re: She Is Older Than Me by marshalcarter: 4:59pm On Apr 24, 2015
So wat are you sayin cos I dnt even get the sh*t you're typin







Go ahead buddy...age is ntn but a numbergrin
And number has got ntn to do with LOVE(dats if its true love)
#thnx
Re: She Is Older Than Me by TheSonOfMark(m): 5:01pm On Apr 24, 2015

A 3-year gap isn't much.

Re: She Is Older Than Me by agarawu23(m): 5:01pm On Apr 24, 2015
I care abt age becos I can't marry a Lady older than me

since you don't care abt the age, y r u still asking us? go for her

goodluck

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Re: She Is Older Than Me by Merlissa(f): 5:02pm On Apr 24, 2015
First things first

Correct all grammatical errors

Re-phase your sentenses



Secondly

Love conquers all


Lastly

Have fun!

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Re: She Is Older Than Me by olatayo1984(m): 5:06pm On Apr 24, 2015
Thk people. Just confirm am doing the right thing. We have discussed about respect and summission and she said before she knew my age, she thought am older and she already made up her mind to respect and summit to me
Re: She Is Older Than Me by Tallesty1(m): 5:07pm On Apr 24, 2015
missKiffy:
You said you don't care about age, so what's the problem, age is nothing but a number if you two really love each other, another thing you can do is to make sure you don't let your family members know she is older than you so that they don't bring up unnecessary issues
Weed(igbo) is nothing but grass and jail is nothing but a room.



OP, I don't advice you to marry an older lady, you will regret it one day.

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Re: She Is Older Than Me by agarawu23(m): 5:11pm On Apr 24, 2015
Tallesty1:
Weed(igbo) is nothing but grass and jail is nothing but a room.



OP, I don't advice you to marry an older lady, you will regret it one day.
seconded
Re: She Is Older Than Me by Nobody: 5:21pm On Apr 24, 2015
olatayo1984:
Thk people. Just confirm am doing the right thing. We have discussed about respect and summission and she said before she knew my age, she thought am older and she already made up her mind to respect and summit to me

Since you say age is irrelevant to both of you, enjoy. About respect and submission its one thing to say when you don't really know a person and another to do as the person unfolds.
Re: She Is Older Than Me by Nobody: 5:29pm On Apr 24, 2015
First: How old are you?? **Say the truth and shame the devil**
Re: She Is Older Than Me by olatayo1984(m): 5:46pm On Apr 24, 2015
andromida:


Since you say age is irrelevant to both of you, enjoy. About respect and submission its one thing to say when you don't really know a person and another to do as the person unfolds.

that is my only fear, that she may not know what it entails to submit to someone u are older than
Re: She Is Older Than Me by KwoiZabo(m): 6:47pm On Apr 24, 2015
Guy just stay away. period
Re: She Is Older Than Me by Princess4eva(f): 7:03pm On Apr 24, 2015
Merlissa:
First things first

Correct all grammatical errors

Re-phase your sentenses



Secondly

Love conquers all


Lastly

Have fun!


Thank you, I was wondering if nobody else wud notice the grammatical blunders. For someone a graduate your English sucks.

Olatayo, go for this lady if the two of u are convinced about ur feelings for each other. The age thing is a non-issue as far as I'm concerned.
Re: She Is Older Than Me by Nobody: 7:15pm On Apr 24, 2015
olatayo1984:
My name is Ayo, I need ur sincere advice, please dont abuse me. Anything you believe can help, i will receive with thank. Am doing my M.sc and my school is in my home town where my father build his house, so i didnt bother to rent another apartment after they denial me of school accomadation. I always go to school from home. My has a friend that based in the North and last year he came for a burial and they stay over in our place. They came with this lady, that i later learnt was their daughter. I saw they briefly, when they are going and when i collected the lady no to send my cv to, so that he will print and give his dad. After many month, some days ago, miraculous we connected back. She sent a facebook request and the other is a story. Have started having feeling for her and she also but the issue was she is 3years older and even older than my immediate senior sister. I dont care about age likewise her too and fortunately for her, she was younger than her age in look. Am seeking advice and opinion of experience and mature mind, who really can help me out. Thk you in advance
u said u an msc student? smh
ur expression is "wack "pls improve







go ahead with ur plans if u dont care about d age difference, are ur parents against it or what exactly is ur fear?
Re: She Is Older Than Me by pretydiva(f): 7:15pm On Apr 24, 2015
Age is Jst a no.and pls work on ur English. Ur an m.sc student 4 pete's sake
Re: She Is Older Than Me by kennynelcon(m): 10:34pm On Apr 24, 2015
Do you know much about the lady.?




bia kwa o, How much you get.
Re: She Is Older Than Me by SleekyP(m): 10:35pm On Apr 24, 2015
undecided




















Pound da shii!
Re: She Is Older Than Me by Nobody: 8:01am On Apr 25, 2015
Phew! Ur errors are too much even though English isn't ur mother tongue.

I hope you know both parents, infact urs and her entire family won't find ur intentions funny cos of the age difference?
Are u ready for the war?
Re: She Is Older Than Me by Olami90: 9:45am On Apr 25, 2015
I am assuming she is in her mid 30's (lemme say 34yrs).Op, u knw hw desperate a lady can b even unconsciously.As for agreeing to b submissive nd respectful, it is easier said dan done. Put all dis togeda nd b sure u can bear it wen she starts her trouble later in d marriage. Note dat she is likely nt to rmember she promised all dat. A yunga lady sef is a bunch of trouble nt to talk of an older wife. It is a 2 way fin, u r gud to go if u are redy to bear anyfin/everyfin dt wld com wit it.
Re: She Is Older Than Me by chigoizie7(m): 10:55am On Apr 25, 2015
olatayo1984:
My name is Ayo, I need ur sincere advice, please dont abuse me. Anything you believe can help, i will receive with thank. Am doing my M.sc and my school is in my home town where my father build his house, so i didnt bother to rent another apartment after they denial me of school accomadation. I always go to school from home. My has a friend that based in the North and last year he came for a burial and they stay over in our place. They came with this lady, that i later learnt was their daughter. I saw they briefly, when they are going and when i collected the lady no to send my cv to, so that he will print and give his dad. After many month, some days ago, miraculous we connected back. She sent a facebook request and the other is a story. Have started having feeling for her and she also but the issue was she is 3years older and even older than my immediate senior sister. I dont care about age likewise her too and fortunately for her, she was younger than her age in look. Am seeking advice and opinion of experience and mature mind, who really can help me out. Thk you in advance


Plz I don't mean to offend u ooh, but are u currently running ur. M.sc in igbo/yoruba language? Seriously, if I were to be the one to interview u based on job interview, bros u re never gonna get that job, how did u manage to scale through B.sc?
Re: She Is Older Than Me by Richy4(m): 11:20am On Apr 25, 2015
Apparently, you are super concerned about the age differences but you were trying to suppress it. That was why you opened the thread.

it is OK. But in future, it might come out when you are having a heated argument. She might say do you realize I am older than you... how dare you talk to me like that?

I hope you gonna have a response to that. It will happen man. But when you understand each other perfectly, there's nothing to it.
Re: She Is Older Than Me by solelymade: 1:50pm On Apr 25, 2015
Princess4eva:



Thank you, I was wondering if nobody else wud notice the grammatical blunders. For someone a graduate your English sucks.

Olatayo, go for this lady if the two of u are convinced about ur feelings for each other. The age thing is a non-issue as far as I'm concerned.
Ladies and their problem with English, bet me even if u rate average on comprehensive skills I know you understand everything up there. Quite unnecessary to point out his writing sucks
Re: She Is Older Than Me by tonychristopher: 2:28pm On Apr 25, 2015
chigoizie7:



Plz I don't mean to offend u ooh, but are u currently running ur. M.sc in igbo/yoruba language? Seriously, if I were to be the one to interview u based on job interview, bros u re never gonna get that job, how did u manage to scale through B.sc?

the English the msc dude spoke and wrote is terrible
Re: She Is Older Than Me by idu1(m): 2:37pm On Apr 25, 2015
O boy na konji dey worry u I swear with sango...
Re: She Is Older Than Me by justmag(m): 2:42pm On Apr 25, 2015
Chai. English language is really getting extinct. 5 million people left in the world who can speak proper english.
Re: She Is Older Than Me by Nobody: 11:42am On Apr 27, 2015
olatayo1984:


that is my only fear, that she may not know what it entails to submit to someone u are older than


Uhhhmm the reason i talked about the respect and submissive thing is simply because she does not know you it actually has nothing to do with age. I hope you are able to enter the relationship not watching out for disrespectful behavior and tagging behavior you might have overlooked in a younger woman as disrespectful simply because she is older than you.
Re: She Is Older Than Me by vega84(m): 11:52am On Apr 27, 2015
U said u dnt care abt her age ooooo, then wat else are u talking abt? #vegatalks
Re: She Is Older Than Me by UnknownT: 11:53am On Apr 27, 2015
Some people sef. What do you want? For us to encourage you or discourage you since you said you don't care about the age. You want us to WASTE advice when at the end you had made up ur mind already. Smh4op
Re: She Is Older Than Me by Samiceman: 12:14pm On Apr 27, 2015
Op is an insult to MSc students

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