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8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by Nobody: 8:23am On Apr 25, 2015 |
We live in times when folks are doing things without really knowing why they are doing them. As a matter of statistics, about 85% of young folks do things simply because they see others doing them. No one wants to take responsibility for his or her actions so they site an example of how the other guy or girl is doing same. The crux of the matter is, if you want to do something, say it and mean it. All the talks of, "Who are we now?" after intimacy is absolutely unnecessary, sarcastic, weird and absurd. Why must it be then you want to swim in a fresh wave of self deception and lies. Tsk! Eight Ways You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself: 1. Sleeping in a guy's house and expecting nothing Haha! The percentage of nothing happening when you sleep over in a guy's house is as slim as slim. When you have your own house. Seriously, it's tempting. It's better not tried and then you try it and starts telling him, " I didn't expect that from you "...Shoroniyen! Iro lon'kpa. 2. Trying to mentor a crush Hehe... Her body alone causes an "uprising" and yet she is the one you decide to mentor. Sometimes, she comes with maths questions and plans to visit you to help her complete her English homework. . Your mind has already completed the job. 3. Dressing unclad in public and getting embarrassed at guys' stare. They'll come in public and say, "I hate guys staring at my b**bs". Are you sure? Because I think you like it. Our undergraduates today are quite good at this. These days, I wonder how the guys are surviving . Whether the thing is sagged, dried of alive, every girl wants to reveal cleavage and after guys stare, they'll "act" bewildered as though their aim hasn't been met. Duhh! 4. Stealing another girl's bf and expecting to his one and only What goes around comes around. The law of karma is still keeping on. If ojukokoro pushed you to either "steal" or "seduce" another girl's guy, be rest assured, someone else will steal him from you, even if YOU ARE MARRIED OR SINGLE. 5. Left all the good guys in your church for a bad guy in the club and be complaining he is disturbing you for sex. This is the worst deception ever. Stop complaining already. You got what you wanted. Good girls liking bad guys, then whom should good guys like? There are girls who trailed this "fast lane" and began complaining afterwards as to what they should do. I ask myself, "Is she such a dummy?", no offence. " Is she asking for asking sake. How can she not know what to do?" 6. Teasing a married woman and acting shocked when she starts reciprocating It's easy right? There are only a few married who will stop you at that point when your flattery is beginning to eat deep. Some will play along. That doesn't make them devils. It's just the way it is. You have to stay clear of married women - especially the younger ones. Remember Karma! 7. We wouldn't have sex. Just pettings, caressing etc. While this might walk for those who haven't been sexually active, it may not work for you who knows the way to the city gate. One thing will lead to another and another will lead to another...hehehehe. 8. Visiting the opposite sex in a cold and rainy day It is rainy and that's when you carry yourself with your loosed sweater and jeans trouser. . It's cold and you know what that implies especially when there have been some signals, unspoken words...between both of you. My point is: Whatever you do, don't put the blame on the next person. Take responsibility for your actions. There is this law called the law of Cause and Effect: Every nuance of whisper, sight, glances, handshake, reaction and care don't go unnoticed. It's culminating somewhere to be unleashed someday only you can decide. How sensible are you when that day comes and you start playacting ignorance and insensitivity? Have a nice weekend. 10 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by SuperSuave(m): 8:25am On Apr 25, 2015 |
K ah don hear |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by temitemi1(m): 8:27am On Apr 25, 2015 |
That no.8 |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by ClassyAdewumi(m): 8:27am On Apr 25, 2015 |
This guy wey dey play this nairabet for me get plenty pimples sha! GoshHhhhhhh |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by Nobody: 8:27am On Apr 25, 2015 |
Emusmith tho.. Creating sensible threads since the days of Pharaoh 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by cutieberie1(f): 8:27am On Apr 25, 2015 |
lol @ d last number |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by Demlad99(m): 8:28am On Apr 25, 2015 |
Noted! |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by Nobody: 8:28am On Apr 25, 2015 |
ClassyAdewumi:so? |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by Dotwillis1(m): 8:30am On Apr 25, 2015 |
Starting another relationship with your Ex You cheated on him, broke up with him and after few months you came back apologizing. Of course he will accept you especially when he'd never had sex with you in the first relationship but don't think he will love you the way he first did ... Only, that he's gat some unfinished business to tend to. Omo, na just to dey chop you they go |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by vizkiz: 8:30am On Apr 25, 2015 |
she told me she only went to his place for night class...she even said the guy slept on the floor while she was on the bed |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by agarawu23(m): 8:32am On Apr 25, 2015 |
Pretending to be dangote's daughter/son while your parents are just managing to survive majority of ppl claim what they are not and this set of ppl will miss opportunities from ppl who can help them. you drink garri sleep and you are forming u ate fried rice and chicken . who r u deceiving if not your self |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by ClassyAdewumi(m): 8:32am On Apr 25, 2015 |
ALKARULEZZ:shey liverpool fit win straight win now? |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by Nobody: 8:34am On Apr 25, 2015 |
ClassyAdewumi:Its official.. U are a troll |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by banabest(m): 8:35am On Apr 25, 2015 |
7. We wouldn't have sex. Just pettings, caressing etc. While this might walk for those who haven't been sexually active, it may not work for you who knows the way to the city gate. One thing will lead to another and another will lead to another...hehehehe. Hmmmmmmm, does this still exist?... This is known as boarding house secondary school innocent love |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by Nobody: 8:36am On Apr 25, 2015 |
banabest: Hahaha... Which one is university love then? |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by Nobody: 8:37am On Apr 25, 2015 |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by kristen12(f): 8:39am On Apr 25, 2015 |
emusmith:So "good" guys in church don't disturb for sex abi? И̲̮̣̥̅̊α church guys worse pass sef. Because they've been enduring konji for long and the day they see woman to enter, they'll almost die on top of it. |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by Nobody: 8:40am On Apr 25, 2015 |
kristen12: Hehehehe... You are right on this one! It's like you are speaking from experience |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by ClassyAdewumi(m): 8:43am On Apr 25, 2015 |
ALKARULEZZ:official ke? I be like Kardinal official ni |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by classicyung(m): 8:46am On Apr 25, 2015 |
ClassyAdewumi:Lool• 1 Like |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by kristen12(f): 8:51am On Apr 25, 2015 |
emusmith:Not really experience, it is what I know |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by Nobody: 8:51am On Apr 25, 2015 |
Dotwillis1: Wow, that's true. Maybe she also has an unfinished business too |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by Nobody: 8:52am On Apr 25, 2015 |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by banabest(m): 8:56am On Apr 25, 2015 |
emusmith: University love is the one you and a girl co habits, she will do the cooking, washing and the BEDDING part (clear throat)... And she will tell her friends.... He's just a friend..... |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by Nobody: 9:00am On Apr 25, 2015 |
banabest: Lols...Are you kidding me? 1 Like |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by Nobody: 9:07am On Apr 25, 2015 |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by godofwar666(m): 9:13am On Apr 25, 2015 |
cutieberie1:do i need to scroll up again? |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by wtfCode: 9:26am On Apr 25, 2015 |
that number 8 shaa. |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by slydog(m): 9:30am On Apr 25, 2015 |
That point one she, just broke up with my girl last night cos of that, i will be thinking she's in her house, but she will use her leg and go and send the night in the house of a fellow church member who she's slept with before ie before we met and she foolishly told me nothing happened, yeah right, foolish girls |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by Nobody: 9:36am On Apr 25, 2015 |
slydog: Haha...how do you know she is lying? |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by BluePearls(m): 9:36am On Apr 25, 2015 |
All on point.. |
Re: 8 Areas You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself by Nobody: 9:39am On Apr 25, 2015 |
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