EggovinMma:



I give so much care about the salary of who I decide to marry tomorrow. My quest to acquire as much as I can is to give my children the best in case of any ill eventuality. I refuse to accept such meagre salary, although I really appreciate ladies who really don't see it as a problem.
It all boils down to choice.

EggovinMma:
God forbid!
50k salary inside marriage. Na before ooo.But now, I REJECT EVERY SPIRIT OF POVERTY IN MY LIFE.My bible tells me to seek and I shall find, and whatever I bind here on earth shall be bind in heaven. I stand upon the rock of St Peter and I am binding every spirit of poverty in the life of my future husband, every spirit of meagre salary. I lose your hold on that poor future husband of mine.IT SHALL NOT BE MY POTION.50K SALARY KE? Which kind rough play be that?


*singing *

Holy ghost fire burn them, holy ghost fire pursue them, anyway poverty may gather holy ghost fire fire them.IN THE LIFE OF MY FUTURE HUSBAND WHENEVER AND WHEREVER YOU ARE, I SAY I REJECT POVERTY IN YOUR LIFE.


*Straight face*

EggovinMma:
God forbid!
50k salary inside marriage. Na before ooo.But now, I REJECT EVERY SPIRIT OF POVERTY IN MY LIFE.My bible tells me to seek and I shall find, and whatever I bind here on earth shall be bind in heaven. I stand upon the rock of St Peter and I am binding every spirit of poverty in the life of my future husband, every spirit of meagre salary. I lose your hold on that poor future husband of mine.IT SHALL NOT BE MY POTION.50K SALARY KE? Which kind rough play be that?


*singing *

Holy ghost fire burn them, holy ghost fire pursue them, anyway poverty may gather holy ghost fire fire them.IN THE LIFE OF MY FUTURE HUSBAND WHENEVER AND WHEREVER YOU ARE, I SAY I REJECT POVERTY IN YOUR LIFE.


*Straight face*

EggovinMma:


My brother, that was during our mother's time.Where I come from, as an igbo gurl, my father made sure he slaved to give me the best, despite the fact he is not a graduate. I CAN NOT MARRY A MAN THATS LESS THAT MY FATHER. I CAN NOT EAT THERE SQUARE MEALS IN MY FATHERS HOUSE, ONLY TO EAT ONCE A DAY IN MY HUSBAND S HOUSE.THATS ILL LUCK.I should be the one earning that kind of amount to support my husband, and not him.Its not a sin o, but it's way below what I grew up with despite we weren't rich.BROS, ONCE AGAIN HOLY GHOST FIREEEEE! !

EggovinMma:



I will work na, definitely.That's the more reason why currently I am studying and struggling to get a masters degree.No doubt, I don't intend stopping there. I will definitely be sad in that marriage, very sad.Leave o, I fit pack shiit for money o.

EggovinMma:



Na money na, a painful realisation that poverty is a disease.

EggovinMma:


50K SALARY IS EXACTLY WHAT GOD WILL FORBID IN MY LIFE! !

Setaje:
Honestly speaking. It depends on background. Some people cannot manage. Only people wiv humble beginnings can cope. I will marry such a guy if I am also earning something. If not there is just no way we can cope

butanep:
why won't you earn something? What is the meaning of if you earn something...

Men don't fancy jobless girls nowadays because they become burden in the house...

Find something doing...

Setaje:


Are u ok or u just want to pick on me? What In my comment don't u understand. How do u no I don't have anything am doing. Stalker oshi

butanep:
your comment said it....


I just responded to what you said... I find it embarrassing...

Setaje:


You are sick. How can my comments be embarrassing when there are people who out rightly said they won't date a man. Out of all of them u picked my own comment and then concluded in your little brain that I am not working. Did I say I wouldn't work. How do u conclude that I am not working wiv my statement if not that u are not ok and u just wanted to engage in a stupid argument wiv me. Please stay on your lane. Learn to comprehend before flying into conclusion and grow up. You are embarrassing yourself.

butanep:
I laugh.... learn how to composed comments that is convincing next time...

If you are working... Bravo... work harder... You might meet one of my cousin and they like industrious lady...

Smile

Setaje:



God forbid me to meet anybody that looks like u. Spit on your face and walks out of thread


Trouble maker!

butanep:
Because you can never meet such elegant n cute guy like me...I promise you that...

Not even in your next life... am too gallant to date or friend a lady like you...
I date cute ladies with matured mind that are innovative and doing well in their career...
Not a lazy type like you waiting to build ur dreams with a guy hard earn income...

Setaje:


You are an idi0t. I have confirmed it!

butanep:
hahahahhaahahahah.... I laugh n smile...

You re giving me morale... Keep the insult coming...

It's describing how indolent you are...

Jobless ladies building mansions in the air...

Setaje:


Are u not indolent for picking on me and then replying me. Pot calling kettle black. That's why I said u are sick. How does someone just conclude in their heads if not that u are actually sick. I had to read my comments again to be sure where I said I will not work or that I want to sit at home and wait for a man to spoon feed me. Please find another person to annoy this good weekend. I have noticed u. You can run along now.

butanep:
hmmmmm... think am finding this comments and counter comments interesting...

Then you should as well read my comments very well... if I directly passed any insult on you. I Only responded but you insulted...

Insulting a man... violation of gender rules... I just pray you don't insult your BF or husband that way if only you have one...

I even tried to quench the fire but you were showing yourself... You are a lady, try to be modest in the way you react... people might be watching you...
Instead of igniting a fire... just try to put it out... its a tip for matured and industrious ladies...

EggovinMma:


I will work na, definitely.That's the more reason why currently I am studying and struggling to get a masters degree.No doubt, I don't intend stopping there. I will definitely be sad in that marriage, very sad.Leave o, I fit pack shiit for money o.

Setaje:



You have no moral obligation to advise me. Cus u concluded by saying find something doing. You are the one who should learn how to read and understand and not make silly conclusions. I don't care who is watching. I owe nobody any explanation. It is u that shouldn't jump into conclusions. Any right thinking lady would react that way because u wanted to make a fool of me and I would not have that. So I dished it to you exactly how u dished it to me. U don't no me so u should not jump into conclusions. My comment did not show whether I had something doing or not. My comment was very simple and reasonable. If u cannot recall. I will help u. I wrote that "I will only stay and manage wiv such person if I myself is doing something". Where in that comment did I say I won't do anything or that I am looking for already made man. So what is my essence of going to school. But u decided to pick on me and tell me u felt embarrassed. Embarrassed for what?. Can u see u are d one who has issues. I don't no u from anywhere and my comments was very explicit and reasonable. There were other people who made unreasonable comments but u did not see it and decided to just jump on me. There is a limit to my civility. Please stay on ur lane. Ur point has been noted. I have no further reply to give u.

sokotoburundi:
monkey dey work baboo dey chop, shey d woman na handicap?

whao:


My dear, what a pity. I have been following your comments keenly but learned you still have a long way mentally. Get into the system am sure you will have experience to share someday.

A true virtuous woman knows what she want and not the socalled god fire, god burn this and that! That is not prayer. Better plan well.
I have seen thousands of M.sc and others struggling for just a mean job worth of N50k but couldn't see. You remember the recruitment done by Immigration and what really happen?

Let me tell you what my fiancée once told me "I wish I met you when you where poor and earning less that N20k" I ask why?. She said because I want us both to start a home and family together, than when you have made the home ready which I will just pack in and stay. This is a woman who has focus and well learned and with a responsible family both morally and monetary.

My dear! If I may ask!! Apart from your B.Sc and M.Sc acclaimed, what other experience do you have to warrant this rebuke of prayer for men earning N50k? Let me tell you, I earned N50k with my Masters but I have can't even marry a woman as proud as you. I am proud to be a successful man with properties worth millions just because my fiancée link me to the rightful source and am proud of her till I die and I will post my wedding pix soonest so you can attest to it.

Change is what you need but not the APC type.

butanep:
I know many ladies of your type that even bind more than you... they re the old cargos doing usher work in church now just to get attention from men...

Keep binding... don't go n look for ways to get your personal income...[/quotes]
Did you realise you quoted me more than 6 times? ! @ a go? .Ok I will answer you bit by bit.

Look, I will continue to pray against any meagre salary. Remember the prayers are channelled to God and not you! [quote author=butanep post=33101118]From the way you talk... You have no experience about life... you are still a baby...

butanep:
how much do you earn? I ve seen many of your type shall... I just pray your prayers help you... if not...

Wahala go dae ooooo

butanep:
Your certificate does not make you rich or wealthy... Get that clear... so whether you get phd... that does n't guarantee you a high profile life....

Pray for God's favour... that is only what elevate a man...

butanep:
The way you talk about poverty ehhh... its like you are experiencing poverty syndrome and you think marriage is the way to break it....

Marriage does not ooo... you determination n God does it...

chimkaire:
Why is there so much ado on what ''he'' earns? What does ''she'' earn Abi man be donkey nii
Some ladies who aint working will soon invade this thread with funny replies now. If he earns 50k now doesn't mean it won't increase as time goes on and if it's not okay by your lady, by all means, take a hike

shindarayo:
and wat happens uf b4 u married him, he earns up to ur expectations, and after marriage dre rr setbacks dt mks him earn even less dan 50k?,ull , pack ur load and leave d marriage abi.hmm, I wld always use my life as an example of God's grace, hv bn wt my guy wen he had NOTHING, and I mean NOTHING, even had a child out of it, it wasnt easy I wld say,and at a tym I wanted to give up, but my love for him and my trust and belief kept m going.we practically lived off his mum, GOD bless dt woman, all dis re a tin of d past, he hs a stable job now, has 2cars,live in a comfortable apartments and he is still growing.it doesnt matter wat ur guy earns now, wat matters is wat u both fill for easch oda is genuine.

Truckpusher:
It's better that way, the more unmarried ladies in the society the better for the boys .

Freeloading is a sure thing.

EggovinMma:



Life has two sides in it.A guy that earns a salary of 50k can still lose his job after marriage or be promoted. I must give it up to you, you really tried because I don't c myself starting from scratch with a guy . Seriously it's very few me that's worth such sacrifice.Whether your guy is ok now or later doesn't mean life and your struggles/problems are over.There are bound to be some set backs, even Dangote experienced his lately despite he being WA richest. The struggles continues even for you too.
If my guy lose his job, after marriage, it's not the end of the world and so is his struggles and mine. If I knew him to be wealthy before, it's more a reason to be calm and hopeful that things will get better, it's only a phase . working even harder myself.


My sister everybody has his/her priories. I for example cannot get pregnant for a guy that's struggling that hard @ 50k, allowing his poor mother to take care of our responsibilities. To me, it's not fair, making others bear my mistakes. This Is one of the reason why people needs to set their pirioties right and be responsible. Wish you the best.