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| Women And Their Crab Syndrome by sinizia: 10:30pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
[img]http://2.bp..com/-yq6w8KBsWgM/UKGKT7k3i3I/AAAAAAAAA80/2H-XQCmsN08/s320/crabs+in+a+bucket.jpg[/img] How many times have you heard how safe it was to approach the males in an establishment before the females? You are warned how Mrs. Y is such a wicked woman whose highest point in a day is snarling and talking down at people. When you think that the people who have issued this warning are just meddling busybodies who hate Ms. Y and then go ahead to try to discover for yourself the angel that these “busybodies” might have missed in their “unfair” assessment you discover to your shock and horror that the “busybodies” were right and Mrs. Y is the most horrible human walking the side of your planet. You are even more surprised to find out that Mr. Z who is Mrs. Y’s superior is far more approachable and willing to help with your problems. I have been in this situation several times and every time I come out of it, I am plagued by the singular question – why? After several “whys”, I finally decided that women are like crabs in a bucket. For many people who do not know about the crab-in-the-bucket syndrome, it is one of those syndromes used to refer to situations where people trying to escape an unfavourable situation are kept from doing so by others either out of envy or just maliciousness, so that at the end of the day, neither party gains freedom. This syndrome is the biggest problem facing women today. It is always rare to see women take a united stand on issues that affect them. From feminists who disagree on the right ideology to pursue to the mother in law who holds down her daughter-in-law to be beheaded to the vicious and unfriendly female exec who hates you for no apparent reason, women have become their own enemies. Some of us have become short sighted and petty and there is no hope for emancipation where members of our specie lack a constructive unified type of thinking. While there have been obvious advantages to the women liberation struggle as can be seen in the emergence of powerful female leaders, more needs to be done as women continue to struggle on the lowest rungs of the socio-economic ladder. To enjoy a level playing field in all sphere of human activities, women must learn that only a unity of purpose can help them. As an advocate for gender equality, I have lost count of the number of times I have had to debate with men who quickly point out the fact that women are less sympathetic to themselves than anyone else. This is our greatest problem and we must address it. In all, one can only hope that true emancipation of women will be realized in my time, if not, the future is indeed very bleak because like crabs in a vicious competition to nowhere, our bucket will always be our prison. Umari Ayim http://umariayim..com/2012/11/why-women-are-like-crabs-in-bucket.html Cc: Lalasticlala, Ishilove, Obinoscopy. |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by sinizia: 10:31pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Nobody hates women like their fellow women  1 Like |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by sinaj(f): 10:33pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
tory too long. diz thread aint for me *slams door* |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by Mhizkel(f): 10:35pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Hmmmm |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by ronald4lif(m): 10:38pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
How do one get a copy of this book.  |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by Ezedon(m): 10:38pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
There are good ones that makes to fall in love with women but those heartless must reap what they sow |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by sinizia: 10:39pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
sinaj:  I've never seen you make any sensible post on intelligent threads. Just last week, you came on an educative thread and wrote " *farts on thread* ". When will you get sense?  1 Like |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by whizjay(m): 10:41pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by Cutehector(m): 10:44pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
I rather read fifty shades of grey and knw I am enjoyn smth dan read dis long nonsense |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by supernigga(m): 10:44pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Ve seen ladies hating each other for no reason, Btw. |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by sinaj(f): 10:45pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
sinizia: one love my fan  |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by ronald4lif(m): 10:46pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
whizjay: Lol! I'll summarize wherever I stop and leave the unfinished part for my son, and he does same for grandson. The cycle continues till whenever they get exhausted. Not even my 20th generation can complete studying that book. |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by Missmossy(f): 10:47pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Chai! Women when compared to crabs isn't really a nice thing. |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by elantraceey(f): 10:57pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
What a comparison  |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by Tallesty1(m): 11:01pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
supernigga:There is always a reason. Women and understand women and that's why they hate each other. The first man to understand a woman died laughing, nobody knows why and nobody dared try again since then. Just take em the way you see em and never try to understand em because you won't succeed and the little you will learn about them will make you to hate them. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by Nobody: 11:06pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
sinaj:U re too lazy. Always complaining abt long write ups, pls learn hw to read long stories huh. |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by Mhizizzy(f): 11:12pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
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| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by Mhizizzy(f): 11:14pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
D comparison is awful .. women are women enemies A lady making my hair said she was happy dat she does not AV a daughter Dah girls will alwaiz Bleep up nd dey can never be compared to guyz I wuz very disappointed hearing dat from a woman Inshort she wuz saying her own mother made a mistake Nd some girls prefer to give favors to guyz Dan girls Girls will be d first to abuse anoda girl dah slipped while walking with heels. Nd we all know we wanna be fashionable Itz just so ridiculous Sisters Sud have demselves backs |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by whizjay(m): 11:14pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
ronald4lif:  See the type of work you're leaving for your generation! |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by Nobody: 11:15pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Men do the exact same thing. This is not a gender thing. Men hate men in fact men are killing men on a daily basis. Wars, robbery and jealousy are all the times men attack each other. I know the op speaks on women but I'm just say it human nature and not a gender thing. |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by Nobody: 11:22pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
It's that self hating mentality. If you think about it girls for centuries have been disliked compared to boys and as we pull away from that discrimination we are still left with the traces of that mentality. In time when our daughters are treated with love and respect by us as the mothers and by their fathers and brothers that self hate will die and then they could love and respect their fellow woman. I think anyway. Mhizizzy: |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by Mhizizzy(f): 11:29pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Chiam55: Itz high time o I personally don't believe women are inferior to men We are both unique in our own way Some women rise from poverty to become owners nd leaders of big corporations Some men end up to be nobodies |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by sinaj(f): 11:34pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Blebleswag: 'Always complainin bout lng write ups' cud diz b a stalker or a fan  .....…………… nw read diz up bae i dnt fancy peepz dat quote me unnecessarily coz i dnt quote fellaz either xcept it concerns me. 2.I read nd write articles xo get it dat m nt lazy nd I wil appreciate more if u stick to ya f**kin opinion on ya lane. 3.I dnt c ow readin or nt readin lng write up rock ur boat 4.I guess u av no probz. readin lng txt, xo grab diz  *xwit drimz* *kiss* |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by Nobody: 11:38pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
sinaj:I dnt mind my business, I quote any1 who spew trash. I dnt like dem lazy. |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by Nobody: 11:40pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Girls lol not on this thread please you are proving the op right |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by Nobody: 11:43pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
I hear you we are past that mentality that we are inferior to men but some women still suffer an inferiority complex that's why they attack other women. Mhizizzy: |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by lordkrato(m): 11:45pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Mhizizzy: Can you supply stats or shut up? Talk indeed.. Fact is men are more likely to succeed than women hence they celebrate female achievement as something unusual... 1 Like |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by sinaj(f): 11:48pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Blebleswag: 'Always complainin bout lng write ups' cud diz b a fan or a stalker .…………………………………………………… now get diz straight up bae 1. I read nd write articles xo i dnt av any probz reading lng write ups. 2.M nt lazy, xo u shud stick ya f**king opinion on ya lane nd not quotin peepz unnecessarily wen itz nt cald for coz I dnt fancy it 3.I dnt c ow my casa rock ya boat xo u shud learn to steer clear nd observe wen word fails u instead of... 4.I guess u av no probz reading lng writeup xo readin diz wnt bring any ish to ya eyes I rest ma Casa *xwit dreamz* *kiss* 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by sinaj(f): 11:52pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Blebleswag: nd i spare no one dat wana mingle in ma business uninvited jux tellin you coz i might nt b diz mild wid u again  |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by Mhizizzy(f): 12:01am On Apr 28, 2015 |
lordkrato: Are u in Nigeria at all? Women are in charge of aviation,finances nd petroleum ministers..businesses ..my dear..it is 50:50 chances for both women nd men.. Some men can never reach where some women are in deir entire life and viceversa Some men will be fed by women We all determine our destiny Whether ego.controlled people like u accept or not |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by lordkrato(m): 12:12am On Apr 28, 2015 |
Mhizizzy: I simply asked for stats and you give me this garbage!!! It's a well known fact that GEJ was ruined by the women in his government!!! Tell me, how many Nigerian female entrepreneurs have the grass to grace story without men!!! You'all need us, those who understand the game play while empty heads like you are fit for the basement. |
| Re: Women And Their Crab Syndrome by Nobody: 12:18am On Apr 28, 2015 |
sinaj:U dnt need to invite me. I dnt ask 4 permission to air my opinion, its a free world and dis is naija (freedom of speech n expression) |
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