Stats: 3,186,762 members, 7,930,618 topics. Date: Saturday, 24 August 2024 at 11:23 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Culture / Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List (63487 Views)
Gorgeous Urhobo Bride From Niger Delta / Is This Bride Prize / Imo State Carnival 2015 - Pictures Thread (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by Nobody: 2:47pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
cuteendowed:WORD ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by martineverest(m): 2:47pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
Mr itulah,shey esan no get girls again? Itulah: |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by delishpot: 2:48pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
Bunch of lazy men. No one is forcing you to marry Igbo women. Go and pick ya free wives from those who are willing to give you one. 8 Likes |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by JayJustus(m): 2:48pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
national budget...no wonder they can breed like this...this is modified human trafficking 1 Like |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by B69U: 2:49pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
Stolen: If anybody want cheap wedding go and marry from your place where the womans parents foot the wedding expenses, wat is pursuing them to Igbos? See us see trouble Oooo for this fake geographical expression called Nigeria. If Igbos no complain who come they complain? Simply, marry from your place,(Six to Eight States to choose from) we dont want you to marry from us. It will not last. 5 Likes |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by ijustdey: 2:51pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
Itulah: OP you said you got married last year and the list was dated back 2013..... did they give you almost a year to look for the money to pay ![]() |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by somegirl1: 2:51pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
southniyikaye: Many families don't accept a bride price. Some take a small token like N1000 - N10,000. |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by Bloggz74(m): 2:52pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
Itulah: All these marriage list wahala from my understanding does not pose issue or its rather more artificial than it is seen. I v done a little research and concluded that there are three factors that determine how hug the list is or could be effected to the extent of being an issue for the groom. They are: Parents of the bride; I ve seen a marriage in the socalled Imo state where the brides parent did everything to see a smooth marriage by not charging much and most occasion helped the brides family from these unnecessery extortion.The brides mum specifically used her box in the place of box of clothes while the groom just bought a few on top. The brides dad ddnt even want a bride price. But if u meet the greedy inlaws,,,,,,,,,,,,,oyo. The bride: some girls use this as a great privilage to celebrate their greed and selfishness by showing off a lot.this strains the grooms account especialy the "societal ladies" and the groom sheepishly follows.on the other hand v seen a bride that even thretened her parents to be considerate on her groom or they both mary away without involving them. The groom: Just like the bride some grooms use this as an oppurtunity to celebrate affluence,spend much and put the not too rich into unnecessery competition nd comperism.their brides will now b bragging with the issue which makes the single men challenged and afraid to marry except they are very rich.afterallv seen a frnd storm out of bride price delibration and d bride cried the whole day only for them to be called back days latter in their own terms. LADIES B WISE 4 Likes |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by Pebcak: 2:52pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
eagleeyez: definitely not all of em will be good but i believe of the long run and when u scale it out they might be my opinion and i might be wrong maybe I have only seen the good ones and never been around those type you are talking about 3 Likes |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by Nobody: 2:53pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
Itulah: How much was the total cost of that list ? Did you spend again at the traditional marriage ceremony ? |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by Emirofsambisa1: 2:54pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
yibobasher2: Oga correct yourself! It is 'In this century'..... Be serious with your studies my brother 1 Like |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by patpaul: 2:55pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
This becomes insignificant when you compare to what is obtainable in Akwa Ibom State. For instance, what is written here as one leg of goat meat in each page will be ONE FULL GOAT in Akwa Ibom State. 2 Likes |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by ijustdey: 2:55pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
Stolen: mtcheww 1 Like
|
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by eagleeyez: 2:55pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
Pebcak: Well *. On the seriopus note am yet to see a "good" ibo lady though I agree with u that there are exceptions |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by manny4life(m): 2:56pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
Nsogbu di... |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by Emeskhalifa(m): 2:56pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
To avoid spending huge amount of money, just impregnate their girls and her ppl will be the wan running after u to come and marry their daughter for free ![]() |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by IYANGBALI: 2:57pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
Ishilove:dem go shak now |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by somegirl1: 2:57pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
Itulah: I'm pretty sure you didn't pay for everything in that list. The list is meant to be negotiated. Several items are waived usually. 3 Likes |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by Nobody: 2:57pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by IYANGBALI: 2:57pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
Emeskhalifa:correct talk 1 Like |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by Trottle: 2:58pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
marriage should not be so expensive. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by mulattoclaro(m): 2:59pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
martineverest:I tire for the guy matter. Na him cross sha 1 Like |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by IYANGBALI: 3:02pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
somegirl1:the one we did 2 months ago at nnewi tooked 50 thousand naira from my friend |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by somegirl1: 3:05pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
IYANGBALI: Higher than I've personally witnessed but still a small token. Domestic staff cost more. |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by Infoay: 3:05pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
Na wa ooo...humm |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by Nobody: 3:05pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
Since the Yorubas are free of charge, I have decided to look for a Yoruba bride. 1 Like |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by Nobody: 3:07pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
shortcut: get her pregnant, do court marriage (marriage registry) and start living together. no need for all this money list. |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by waternogetemeny: 3:09pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
teeowl: There is abortion for unwanted pregnancy, her parents/family will get the fetus murdered and get u locked up in jail. I will like to see people like u taught a lesson by igbo families. 3 Likes |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by Nobody: 3:09pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
rubbish. even when d girl no be virgin sef. I mean conscious losing of ur virginity. keep selling ur daughters in d name of pride price. virgin or no virgin dis is ripped off |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by 49cents(m): 3:10pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
The high bride price has its pros and cons! Pros It makes the man focus and make something out of his life before entering marraige It makes the man very careful in selecting the girl as he can't waste his money on the one that aint worth It makes the man value his wife more altogether, It isn't a coincidethat igbos have the lowest rates of divorce. Beef appart CONS Delayed marraige Delayed marraige Delayed marraige 1 Like |
Re: Imo State Mandatory Bride Prize List by Nobody: 3:12pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
[img]http://i./5ZXyJGVjUFBKM.gif[/img][img]http://i./NoiABU5hKmXEk.gif[/img] |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (Reply)
Five(5) Places Where Women Have More Than One Husband / Aramide Shekinat Celebrates Her 40th Birthday / African Tribeswoman In Supermarket Wearing Goat Skins & Mud For Sunscreen (pix)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 41 |