Gflat:
A relationship of 5years went down the drain few weeks ago. She was cheating on me, but I have forgiven her for that already. I just want the relationship back

She later confessed to have fallen inlove with this new guy that she don't think she loves me anymore, she said we have to move on bla,bla,bla...but since then she has been calling

Sometimes I don't feel like picking her calls, she will later say "why didn't you pick my calls naaw" whenever I decided to...she asks questions about my welfare and all that sh*it!

I am just confused now...I need to know whay the hell she wants from me!

buygala:
She wants to retain the op as a side mugu


After she has donated her puna freely to the whole world, she will come back crying for forgiveness, blaming the Devil for her transgressions


NO OFFENCE.....

I strongly expect her to succeed, because the op is really sounding like like a pussssy-struck sissy

buygala:
She wants to retain the op as a side mugu


After she has donated her puna freely to the whole world, she will come back crying for forgiveness, blaming the Devil for her transgressions


NO OFFENCE.....

I strongly expect her to succeed, because the op is really sounding like like a pussssy-struck sissy

donmoris:
silly talk :osilly talk

TheSonOfMark:

Here's the thing: She calls to find out how miserable you are without. It's an ingrained vanity of women - they constantly seek reassurances of their value. Their self-worth depends on how much you show you need them.
Let me guess: When she calls you tell your worries, how sad you are and avoid talking about what she needs. How miserable of you! Just what she called to hear.
Endeavour to let her know you're happy without her, indirectly that is.

Brugo:


Bro you need to take a stand yourself. Will you let her toy with your feelings or not? Don't let one gal give you needless stress.

smvinreal:
I think its best to ask her

emitope:
Dude, she jus changed ur name to 'plan B'.

pasqal09:
Bro, she just zoned you man

Gflat:


Ask her why she's calling? I don't wanna be immature or rude

Ladybluecash:
Thats not true, she no frndzone u anytin.. I broke up wit ma ex of 8yrs relatnship, thou i loved him so much nd stil do, he wnted us to get marry bt i refused cos he isnt supportin my dream he wnts me to b a full housewife(for ds kind country), he beged me to stop callin him so dat he can move on nd forget abt me, i tried nd i cudnt cos i nw see him as part of me nd a frnd, i jos want to knw hw he is doin dats all. Relatnshps musnt end in marriage, tho i undastnd u op sumtyms u tink she wnts to return bak to u. Call her nd ask her for d lst tym den if she isnt interested as said, move on bro, tak her call bt neva invite her to ur house. Tank u

Gflat:
A relationship of 5years went down the drain few weeks ago. She was cheating on me, but I have forgiven her for that already. I just want the relationship back

[b]She later confessed to have fallen inlove with this new guy that she don't think she loves me anymore, she said we have to move on [/b]bla,bla,bla...but since then she has been calling

Sometimes I don't feel like picking her calls, she will later say "why didn't you pick my calls naaw" whenever I decided to...she asks questions about my welfare and all that sh*it!

I am just confused now...I need to know whay the hell she wants from me!

Gflat:


Plan B
Its not like we can still date anytime soon or in the future. She cheated bro, that can't just fade away from my memory

Gflat:


I really love your comment and I am encouraged from it...but I still have some questions.

1. What is she calls me and wants to come visit Should I tell her that is not going to be possible?

2. I am into a new relationship now but I haven't gotten over her fully(though I explained to my gf about her and she sometimes tell me to pick her call and stop being her enemy) I don't want my gf to start thinking there is still something between us...should I tell her to stop calling?

3. My birthday is in few days to come and I am having a party...do you think its a good idea to allow her come over since the breakup is still very fresh

Gflat:


I really love your comment and I am encouraged from it...but I still have some questions.

1. What is she calls me and wants to come visit Should I tell her that is not going to be possible?

2. I am into a new relationship now but I haven't gotten over her fully(though I explained to my gf about her and she sometimes tell me to pick her call and stop being her enemy) I don't want my gf to start thinking there is still something between us...should I tell her to stop calling?

3. My birthday is in few days to come and I am having a party...do you think its a good idea to allow her come over since the breakup is still very fresh