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10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Dotwillis1(m): 12:18pm On May 01, 2015 |
To find an actual healthy relationship and frankly, to not end up embarrassing yourself by falling for some guy who’s just not that into you. To help you navigate the mine- filled manscape, here are some guidelines to live by: 10 commandments to keep you from embarrassing yourself- ONE Thou shalt not initiate communication with a guy you aren’t absolutely sure is into you. Unless a guy is making it crazy apparent that he’s all about you, don’t text, call or email first. In order to fall for a girl, a guy needs to feel she’s a little out of reach. Initiating communication with him before he gets to that point makes it difficult for him to fully appreciate and respect you, and become attracted to you. TWO Thou shalt not ask a guy (who is not your boyfriend) where things are going If you have to ask, he’s not treating you the way you deserve to be treated. Don’t ask him for an explanation or a roadmap — his explanation doesn’t matter and what he says he’s planning for the future is likely bullshit. A good guy who wants to be with you will make it happen. No excuses. It’s that simple. THREE Thou shalt not crush on, date, sleep with, pine for, or cry over an asshole If a guy’s treating you like an afterthought, an option, or a backup plan, he’s a shit. Move on. Don’t give him your time, your body or any mindshare. If anything, celebrate — you dodged a bullet. FOUR Thou shalt not be seduced by a guy’s — or your own — bullshit. Don’t be stupid. You know better. Be your own best friend and keep yourself honest and out of denial. FIVE Thou shalt not waste endless hours of your — or your girlfriends’ time — trying to determine whether some guy is into you. Who cares whether some guy who obviously isn’t making you feel amazing is into you? Either he makes you feel good or he doesn’t. There’s nothing to analyze or agonize over. Instead, look at his behavior and ask yourself if, given what he’s shown you, you’re into him… SIX Thou shalt not behave like a needy biatch. Your life shouldn’t revolve around what the guy you’re with is doing, thinking, wanting. If that’s happening, you need to get a life (we mean that in a nice way). Gather your girlfriends and make some plans. Like we said, guys need to feel a little distance between you and them…. Create that distance and he’ll be needy for you. SEVEN Thou shalt not be the crazy girl. That girl’s not hot — keep your shit together. And: If he brings out your crazy, he’s not the one. Sorry. EIGHT Thou shalt listen to your strongest self as much as possible. Because your weaker self — the one who’s insecure and thinks you’re not good enough — should not be running your life. There’s a better, badass voice inside you, the one that loves you and wants the best for you and that’s who you should be channeling at all times. NINE Thou shalt behave like a chooser, not a beggar. Act like a hot girl and men will respond to you like one. TEN Thou shalt not berate yourself for being single or obsess about the ticking of your clock. This is your time to be all about you — don’t let fear ruin it. When you meet the guy — and you will — you’ll be so pissed you wasted the best years of your life worrying. And, think you’re old? You’re not. You’ll realize that 5 years from now when you’ll back and think, “Daaaamn, I was young and hot when I was ____.” ![]() Are there any dating commandments you live by? Share them! ![]() 21 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Nobody: 12:20pm On May 01, 2015 |
Number 1 and 2 are pure uncompartmentalized bullshit! 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Dotwillis1(m): 12:32pm On May 01, 2015 |
Blackett: ![]() |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Nobody: 12:35pm On May 01, 2015 |
Virtually most if not all the things you stated are pure rubbish... *sighs* Seems you don't have any pity for the ladies.. I can see you're trying to make them loners for life 19 Likes |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by izuch(m): 12:37pm On May 01, 2015 |
Utter and arrant jiberish. *spits on thread and walks out*(hope i spelt it well) 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by DanceVille: 12:38pm On May 01, 2015 |
Why is it always commandment? You listed these commandment out for them when they haven't even obey the commandment of God in the Bible.... 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Nobody: 12:44pm On May 01, 2015 |
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Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Nobody: 12:46pm On May 01, 2015 |
DanceVille:wicked!!! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Nobody: 12:47pm On May 01, 2015 |
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Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by DanceVille: 12:58pm On May 01, 2015 |
Why Wicked? diddydiva:Am just trying to put things right 1 Like |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by damseyl(f): 2:32pm On May 01, 2015 |
DanceVille:who told you we don't obey God's commandment ![]() |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by DanceVille: 3:35pm On May 01, 2015 |
I didn't need to respond to that.. damseyl: 1 Like |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by LewisO: 8:49pm On May 01, 2015 |
Another moses. ![]() The sad truth they won't heed to the aforementioned. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by kilokeys(m): 8:50pm On May 01, 2015 |
i laff when u try creating ur version of the " Ten commandments" as the angels above scribbles ur name with permanent marker in Hell's diary 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by hamaworld(m): 8:50pm On May 01, 2015 |
Wait |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by lilmax(m): 8:50pm On May 01, 2015 |
Okay |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by bunmioguns(m): 8:50pm On May 01, 2015 |
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Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Eniqurl(f): 8:50pm On May 01, 2015 |
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Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by firstolalekan(m): 8:50pm On May 01, 2015 |
Okay |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by youngwarlocks: 8:51pm On May 01, 2015 |
11. THOU SHALL NOT ASK THE GUYS FOR MONEY...... lata my friend will b telling me gender equality crap. until girls begin dey woo me, notin like equality. op...Weldone o. keep decieving d girls while u are busy doing d opposite 4 Likes |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Sijo01(f): 8:51pm On May 01, 2015 |
Thou shalt love and develop yourself 1 Like |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Tufunky: 8:52pm On May 01, 2015 |
Op point of correction. The title of your topic should be 10 dating commandments for immature chicks. Pls modify. |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by McEwen(m): 8:52pm On May 01, 2015 |
ok |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by paulolee(m): 8:52pm On May 01, 2015 |
hmmmm..... nice post Sha n I hope deY wud listen 1 Like
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Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by kekeerin: 8:52pm On May 01, 2015 |
sensible |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Nobody: 8:52pm On May 01, 2015 |
Smh! I pity you! Ask reasonable ladies, No1 is so outdated lest you remain a single at 57..... ode 1 Like |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by aaamos(m): 8:53pm On May 01, 2015 |
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Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Nobody: 8:53pm On May 01, 2015 |
Blackett:Seconded 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by Drdaps(m): 8:54pm On May 01, 2015 |
Here comes the Moses of our time |
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