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If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by Bamoha(m): 3:27pm On May 03, 2015
this arguement came up between me and my co-workers, there is a man there that said he wont pay back because her money is our money, and there is another that said her money is her money but my money is ours... so whats your take on this issue?
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by ArchEnemy(m): 3:28pm On May 03, 2015
Why not?
Lazy man excuse

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Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by DickDastardly(m): 3:32pm On May 03, 2015
There is honor in paying back what you borrowed irrespective of who the creditor is. Unless it was dashed. Even in this case the failure to pay back shouldnt be a thing of ego but clear and acceptable reasons.

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Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by temitemi1(m): 3:32pm On May 03, 2015
I don't know yet.
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by Noloss(f): 3:32pm On May 03, 2015
If friends and family will pay for their services business will grow

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Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by Cutehector(m): 3:34pm On May 03, 2015
Yeah for sure....
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by ronald4lif(m): 3:34pm On May 03, 2015
When someone lend you money you have to pay back regardless of who the person is to you. Lending involves the temporal use of something which has to be return at a later date.

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Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by Nobody: 3:35pm On May 03, 2015
MaleSideOfMe: why won't I return it Na lend na


FemaleSideOfMe: why won't he return the money




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Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by Bamoha(m): 3:36pm On May 03, 2015
DickDastardly:
There is honor in paying back what you borrowed irrespective of who the creditor is. Unless it was dashed. Even in this case the failure to pay back shouldnt be a thing of ego but clear and acceptable reasons.
but shes your wife.. you own things together
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by Princecalm(m): 3:38pm On May 03, 2015
Once lends comes in then it is meant to be returned.

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Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by hotunba20(m): 3:39pm On May 03, 2015
It's a must u pay her back cos she open up for you that she av money#

For the sake of next time pls return

Gbam

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Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by DickDastardly(m): 3:44pm On May 03, 2015
Bamoha:
but shes your wife.. you own things together
Sure she is....but u see, you BORROWED it. As the head of your family, you need to set the pace of honesty and your family naturally follows. You wouldnt want to appear like a crook in your own house.
Way out is, give her reasons why you cant pay immediately, trust me with time she will not even remember it again. But evading your debt by the "dubious claim" that your wife's money is also yours is ridiculous.

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Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by McEwen(m): 3:44pm On May 03, 2015
ronald4lif:
When someone lend you money you have to pay back regardless of who the person is to you. Lending involves the temporal use of something which has to be return at a later date.
General talk angry

btwn: are you married?
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by ronald4lif(m): 3:46pm On May 03, 2015
McEwen:

General talk angry

btwn: are you married?

I'll be back to answer that after consulting Ifa.
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by umar745(m): 3:52pm On May 03, 2015
That your friend should just pick up a dictionary and know what 'lend' means

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Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by cold(m): 3:53pm On May 03, 2015
Why won't he want to pay back? Even if it was borrowed from the wife. A man gradually begins to lose credibility and self respect from his wife if he continually borrows and instead of paying back or giving cogent reason or reasons why he can't pay back begins to flex his muscles and reminding her after all i married you,you're my wife bla,bla,bla. Does not speak well of the integrity of such person. Such a person will still default if he borrows money from any other source.

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Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by Nobody: 3:55pm On May 03, 2015
Whatever rock your boat.
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by McEwen(m): 3:55pm On May 03, 2015
ronald4lif:


I'll be back to answer that after consulting Ifa.
grin grin bad boi!
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by Bamoha(m): 4:00pm On May 03, 2015
cc: lalasticlala
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by Brugo(m): 4:01pm On May 03, 2015
Better pay back to avoid woman wahala. Women can give things freely but when it comes to money...hmmm.....

She will still collect it one way or the other. In double fold.
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by LadyX(f): 4:13pm On May 03, 2015
If you borrow something you have to return it.
If he does not return the money, next time his wife will not lend him.
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by Nobody: 4:13pm On May 03, 2015
Of course, u shud pay back, unless tis a very meagre amount that can b ovetrlooked.
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by agarawu23(m): 4:14pm On May 03, 2015
temitemi1:
I don't know yet.
you will never know, if na to loot nigeria money, you will know sharply grin




Op If your wife lend you #20 return it if the agreement is "lend"
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by countsparrow: 4:15pm On May 03, 2015
If u are thinking of not paying back, den u must be covetous... Oju kokoro lo n je be
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by prettyrosiemua(f): 4:16pm On May 03, 2015
The honourable thing to do is to pay her back. She might have wanted to use the money for something else but she lent it to the husband anyways. The lady try self. Some ladies will never they have money even when its breathing heavily in the bank.
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by MzzTega(f): 4:20pm On May 03, 2015
Since there was a lending,There should also be a paying back.
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by temitemi1(m): 4:24pm On May 03, 2015
Agarawu23 grin grin
agarawu23:
you will never know, if na to loot nigeria money, you will know sharply grin




Op If your wife lend you #20 return it if the agreement is "lend"
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by MRBrownJ: 7:09pm On May 03, 2015
Bamoha:
this arguement came up between me and my co-workers, there is a man there that said he wont pay back because her money is our money, and there is another that said her money is her money but my money is ours... so whats your take on this issue?

if her money is his money indeed then he wouldnt have to borrow it then.
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by baralatie(m): 7:48pm On May 03, 2015
Bamoha:
but shes your wife.. you own things together
the man BORROWED as a LOAN
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by justmetoday(m): 8:53pm On May 03, 2015
Honourable to refund d money.
Re: If Your Wife Lends You Money, Are You To Pay Back? by MrsChima(f): 8:54pm On May 03, 2015
Yes.

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