wristwatch:
It's a pity that age is not directly proportional to maturity but rather inversely related as regards some guys.

Finding a good girlfriend/wife is a good thing but the personality of the hunter must be right standing.

Guys complain of the declining rate of good ladies whereby they fail to do the right thing rather do silly acts.

Therefore, let's take a look @ these silly things guys do.

1. Negative Assumption Towards all Ladies

In this present era, it's no longer a news that we have dense population of gold diggers among ladies but having a negative assertion that all ladies are thieves is wrong. This kind of mentality can make you loose the next good girl that comes your way.

2. Irresponsible Dressing

This point has been discussed time and time again. Acts like sagging, wearing tattered shirts/jeans, devilish tattoo, un kept hairstyles, etc is a turn off for a good lady to pick from these category of guys.

3. Ass /Butt Licking

This is becoming a major concern just like comparing it to economic meltdown/ebola virus/terrorist attacks/xenophobia. It is however a show of shame when you see immature guys defending senseless topics/statement/words put forward by adolescence ladies just to gain their favouritism. This act is anonymous to social websites and forums where some guys open silly threads as regards their obsession to big ass ladies.

4. Disrespect for People

An act of disrespect is a discomfort to all category of ladies. Such guys possess potential attitude of beating their wives like a wrestler. They abuse elders, their mates and treat their younger ones like shit. Example of such guys are the notorious agberos, area boys, etc.

5. Having uncontrolled Sex

Their urge for sex is insatiable. They are known as jonny walker in penetrating every skirt they come by. Even a Calabar Girl will reject their proposal as their brain is wickedly oriented with sex thoughts. These set of guys have countless number of porn video on their mobile devices.


6. Stealing

Stealing to prove you are capable of meeting her financial need is a shameful thing to do. Once any lady be it good or bad observe this, she will "magaed" the guy straight off and become available on transfer market for serious minded dudes.

7. Lying

Lying about something you don't have just to win her is a silly thing to do. Let her love you for "who you are not what you are". I have seen guys borrowing expensive cars just to woo babes. Some claim titanic containers awaiting their approval @ sea ports, etc.

daimsy:
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EricRichie:
Op... Did you write this out of experience or just formed it from your head?


Anyway sha.. You're right... Girls judge boys with the snap of the finger immediately they set their eyes on him... So the way a guy presents himself and his character should be duely changed if at all he wants to find someone responsible for marriage

prettythicksme:
hmmmm correct!!but op i think for me guys with tat are cool to me.#I love tatoo

Equalizer:
i will take this message to my yard people cos virtually all the single guys there are citing all these your points as the reasons why they are still single.... Relax, God has your cry....

ronald4lif:
Make money, step up the intensity of paper chasing.

They'll overlook all your flaws and be there even when you don't need them.

SleekyP:

ronald4lif:
Make money, step up the intensity of paper chasing.

They'll overlook all your flaws and be there even when you don't need them.

wristwatch:


Exactly bro. It's time we discussed the truth. Immature dudes everywhere especially on this forum.

wristwatch:


Bro am not disputing your fact but as time goes on, it will become a serious concern 4 them.

daimsy:
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Venom104:


For girls that have sense and know what they want.. whatever the money he has, a useless man is a useless man..

I don't know if you've ever heard the saying that he who has money is never wrong. Money man no dey make mistake bro.

It takes more than being sensible to resist the temptation of money and the quest for the good life.

prettythicksme:
hmmmm correct!!but op i think for me guys with tat are cool to me.#I love tatoo

agarawu23:
Fake lifestyle


Fake bigboiz everywhere without "shishi" for pocket do you think all Ladies are materialistic? you need a good gf/wife and you are pretending to be Dangote's son while your dad is a palm wine tapper!(when kasala burst how will u hide your shame?)

Good ladies dont care about the fake blink blink you are putting on and your friend father's car you are using to show. Mr man, only the bad/gold digging ladies will run after u.

kinglekan:
When I saw lying and stealing, I thought you were about to add the 10 commandments ooo

@wristwatch

ronald4lif:


Sure it's a concern for every man, money or not. I was just tryna say that when one get their priorities in life right a lot of women will embrace their shortcomings as a strength and virtue.

agarawu23:
Fake lifestyle


Fake bigboiz everywhere without "shishi" for pocket do you think all Ladies are materialistic? you need a good gf/wife and you are pretending to be Dangote's son while your dad is a palm wine tapper!(when kasala burst how will u hide your shame?)

Good ladies dont care about the fake blink blink you are putting on and your friend father's car you are using to show. Mr man, only the bad/gold digging ladies will run after u.

Thugnificient:
When i read threads about personality. I do smile happily knowing i have little or no personality trait to deal with.