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| Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by Nobody: 6:16pm On May 04, 2015 |
This topic alongside some memes has been trending on my bbm/whatsapp. It's fast becoming a trite cliche, people tag changing of display pictures with immaturity. It's common here on NL too. Isn't one's display picture supposed to be his/her personal business or a means of self-expression/admiration?  What's your say? 6 Likes 3 Shares
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| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by Nobody: 6:19pm On May 04, 2015 |
Hmm, I think it has to do with individual character. 6 Likes |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by kinibigdeal(m): 6:21pm On May 04, 2015 |
Aint you guilty too  1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by Nobody: 6:24pm On May 04, 2015 |
kinibigdeal: Young man, is that the question?  Cc: mizmycoli 1 Like |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by MizMyColi(f): 6:30pm On May 04, 2015 |
I asked google...here's what she told me. The frequent DP changers "People who keep on changing their profile pictures are insecure, lack in confidence and are often very flippant in their decisions. Such people are also found to be suspicious and don't trust others easily. Some even show traits of split personality and always remain dissatisfied with their decisions," said psychologist Amool Ranjan. "This trait shows that a person is suffering from identity crisis and actually wants to explore himself in the views of others. They are also attention seekers," said another psychologist Kaptan Singh Sengar. Those with pictures of celebrities Said Ranjan, "It shows that the person is carefree. Such people like to idolize others and are not too successful in life. They are not confident and often seek other's opinions. They are introvert and are hesitant in disclosing their personal matters." Sengar added, "Usually such individuals' world is very limited. Their desire and wishes remain hidden somewhere deep within. By uploading someone else's picture, they feel projected. They are dreamers and like to remain in the fantasy world." Those who upload intimate photos "Such people are usually attention seekers and are insecure in their relationships. They suffer from inferiority complex. To conceal it, they try and be more expressive," shared Ranjan. Said Sengar, "This behaviour shows sheer immaturity and urge to seek attention. Such people lack in self esteem and can hardly be trustworthy in relationships. It also shows that they have suffered setback in relationships at some point of their lives." Users of slang in status messages Said Ranjan, "They are frustrated souls who have faced lots of failures and criticism in life. So to compensate that they hurt others by being offensive. They might be weak in their communication skills. They try and make it up by being offensive." Another psychologist, Suprakash Chaudhary said, "It shows the amount of failure they have faced in life. To make up for it, they use social media as the medium to abuse masses at one go without being subjected to legal proceedings." Frequent status message changers "In a bid to sound expressive and extrovert, people keep on updating their status messages. Sometimes they even end up revealing their private lives. But it just shows how much of an inferiority complex the person has. In such a case, the views of others matter more and that shows a lack of self-confidence. Such people are weak in their judgmental abilities. They can never stick to their decisions," said Ranjan. Chaudhary said this trait can be seen as part of being defensive. "Such people believe in saying more but end up doing little. They are bad adjudicators," he said. Those always on busy mode Said Ranjan, "Some people do it purposely. But when it becomes a habit, it shows a person's social withdrawal symptoms. They don't want to interact with people or are only concerned about their own interests." On this trait, Chaudhary said, "Such netizens don't need society's approval. They are not bothered about rules and regulation and live life on their terms. But sometimes the continued ignorance may lead to depression." Gothic art as DP Said Ranjan, "Such people are complex and mysterious. It's very difficult to understand them and that's what they enjoy. They are reserved and don't share too much with people. They try to solve their problems themselves." Sengar agreed, saying, "Though the person might be perfectly alright, they always feel they aren't well. These people are concerned about their physical appearances. That's the reason they often find faults with their health." 163 Likes 34 Shares |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by kinibigdeal(m): 6:32pm On May 04, 2015 |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by kinglekan: 6:34pm On May 04, 2015 |
This is very interesting. I think I fall under the category of the "Gothic art as DP" But then again these findings are not necessarily true. Cc: MizMyColi 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by SirLewis(m): 6:36pm On May 04, 2015 |
Sounds more like narcissism than immaturity. As a guy, I'd wonder if all you think about all day is taking pictures and being overly concerned with your looks. That's a turn off 10 Likes |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by Nobody: 6:36pm On May 04, 2015 |
I can say if it is immature or not but a busy person barely change his/her DP esp guys. 14 Likes |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by MizMyColi(f): 6:40pm On May 04, 2015 |
Well personally, I stopped uploading my DP on NL because I found that I kept visiting my profile. Checking out the number of likes, and if I found that the likes weren't as forthcoming, I'd take it down and change to another. It even got more annoying when my "hard earned" likes got subtracted as a result of the new picture. I told myself the hard truth, that in addition to people's general approval of my comments, I wanted them to approve my face too. And with each picture I uploaded, I somehow felt inadequate. Those times turned out to be my first real practical lessons on self acceptance/approval. Second and most important.....despite my openness as an individual, I am not always comfortable with the fact that my face is out there. The longest lasting DP I ever used on this forum was one where I had my face downwards, staring right into my bag. So, yes, I think that most times...when we upload and upload different styles and pictures of ourselves, we trying to fill a void.... #HardTruthThough That said, my thoughts aren't an absolute. Different strokes, Different folks. 113 Likes 15 Shares |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by MizMyColi(f): 6:43pm On May 04, 2015 |
kinglekan: Lolz. Apparently, there are tons of research on the subject. I just chose one that kinda resonated. 3 Likes |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by Beamborla(f): 6:45pm On May 04, 2015 |
I don't even know where I fall.  I think those who are always changing their pictures are just obsessed with themselves and are in need of aaproval 8 Likes |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by Beamborla(f): 6:46pm On May 04, 2015 |
I don't even know where I fall. I think those who are always changing their pictures are just obsessed with themselves and are in need of aproval 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by dechandel(f): 6:51pm On May 04, 2015 |
I do not see how often one changes his/her profile picture should be tagged as an immature move!! But then again with what i see on my bbm?? Dinner in a five star finds its way on my bbm.. Look of the day finds its way on my bbm Being in a taxi finds its way on my bbm.. Haba!! Makes me wonder if they use this to get validation or what!? From who? And i also think one has to be a picture freak for him/her to be dishing out the pics like its hot.. And also less busy like someone above said..  I even had to remind one that she was still in Ghana when she uploaded a pics of her putting on a hood and saying cant wait for summer"! Abi i no do well?? If you will keep on blasting my feeds with your updates, get ready for my sweet observations!! 14 Likes |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by Nobody: 6:51pm On May 04, 2015 |
MizMyColi:lols. This is very true. Everyone has been guilty of this at some point in his/her e-life. I told myself the hard truth, that in addition to people's general approval of my comments, I wanted them to approve my face too.I agree with this too. I just don't like the fine girl idea, I believe my beauty/physical attributes is a constant_ so, I rather work on my comments. Let people accept me for that. But, what of outside NL, bbm/ whatsapp for example? And with each picture I uploaded, I somehow felt inadequate.I am going through this phase. , though I don't like a blank dp...I tend to put up something, be it comic, or family/friends.Second and most important.....despite my openness as an individual, I am not always comfortable with the fact that my face is out there.Okay, now i'm a direct opposite on this one. I don't like the faceless forum ish joor. I love to know who i'm dealing with 4 Likes |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by zicoraads: 6:51pm On May 04, 2015 |
MizMyColi:You eh...I like it when you say what is in your hearts of heart. I think what you said about uploading pictures on nairaland and seeking for likes...be it subtle or not is very, very true. And even if most people refuse to admit it, it just the plain truth. That said, am still searching for where I fall. 4 Likes |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by Xxpress(m): 6:54pm On May 04, 2015 |
My dp, my problem, how often I change it is no one biz 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by MizMyColi(f): 7:11pm On May 04, 2015 |
zicoraads: Well, I just gotta admit that the more we are think we know, the more we don't. I'm at that phase where I am learning (kai! It's hard ehn ) how to be wholly accepting of self, whether I wear fine clothings or not. Whether I make up or not.More important I am learning how to ask, will I like him/them? Instead of the stereotypical "will he/they like me?" 14 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by Dygeasy(m): 7:17pm On May 04, 2015 |
Well, personally I'm not one to constantly change my dp from time to time but when I see people doing that same thing the only question I ask is "why?" Cos it makes me think they need a validation of some sort. Either they desperately need someone to pass a comment or some other faced up reason. It's funny and annoying at the same time. 1 Like |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by Nobody: 7:27pm On May 04, 2015 |
Just reading... |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by MizMyColi(f): 7:28pm On May 04, 2015 |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by Nobody: 7:31pm On May 04, 2015 |
Kachi sweerie when will you reply my calls |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by laplace12(m): 7:35pm On May 04, 2015 |
Keep changing the dps, we love it that way Just feeding the eyes. Now I Wonder why a guy Will choose to upload pics in the first place |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by Nobody: 7:48pm On May 04, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie:My dp, my pictures, my profile, my business. what am I supposed to do with all the pictures on my phone  What ever you know how to do, do it without caring with people would say. Write epistles, use smileys, troll, be anonymous, flaunt nyash, flaunt boobi..... As the spirit leads. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by joseph1832(m): 7:53pm On May 04, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie:Whatever anyone decides to do or not do with their display picture is entirely their business and nobody's!. For me, my display picture usually arouse religious connotations and I really love it that it gives this religious narrow minded individuals sleepless nights. Imagine you seeing the picture below as one of your contacts dp, I wonder what you'll say or think!. 1 Like
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| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by ErepaTV: 7:56pm On May 04, 2015 |
MizMyColi: Spot on! 1 Like |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by jauntty: 8:03pm On May 04, 2015 |
"[size=14pt]......and I just changed my BBM dp before opening this thread. (after abt 2weeks)Here are my statistics : Whatapp- I'd used the same pix since last year. Facebook - Same pix since last year. (I really hate Fbk ths days sef) Conclusion: IMO, Frequent Dp changes denotes JOBLESSNESS....and if u are a guy, I'd think you have Gay tendencies when u change dp frequently like a lady Sweethrt ShirelleBaby what do u think?[/size] 7 Likes |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by nuelski10: 8:26pm On May 04, 2015 |
Check my nairaland dp,im just too handsome |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by encryptjay(m): 8:31pm On May 04, 2015 |
nuelski10:Naruto fan |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by Nobody: 8:33pm On May 04, 2015 |
joseph1832: I have a friend that is always using horror images like this your own on his dp, sometimes I ask him why_ in the longrun it's not my business. |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by ShirelleBaby: 8:36pm On May 04, 2015 |
jauntty: Hahahahahahaha! You are soo wrong in the bolded. I partially agree on the JOBLESSNESS part. Because a very busy person won't be concerned with snapping pictures daily except it is their source of livelihood. Again,some people are photo addicts!they can't complete a day with taking pictures. Boredom also plays a role in regular picture changing. But to say it is immature for people to change their ''PICTURE'' regularly is WRONG. Maturity don't have any role in people's way of making themselves happy. 6 Likes |
| Re: Is (excessive/frequent) Changing Of Display Picture A Sign Of Immaturity? by Nobody: 8:39pm On May 04, 2015 |
Yes, it's your personal business, but most mature people rarely have time for DPs. I used to change my DP very often, but now with business and all, I only change it like once or twice a month. The urge to even change it is really non-existent these days. I also do not chat anymore. It's like if it ain't about money, you ain't saying nothing. That kinda thing. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
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