You are dating this guy from quite some time, but are not sure if he is really the man of your dreams? We are pretty sure that a lot of our lovely ladies might have found this familiar. Well girls, if you observe carefully, you will know that the difference between the guy you are dating and your future husband lies in small things. And, those are, his small gestures as well as his behaviour in the relationship. Wondering what they are? Well, do not worry till the time we are here to help you.

So, here are the signs that will tell you if your man is really your future husband or just a waste of time.

#1. He listens to you

A man with the intentions of marrying you will be genuinely interested in you. Hence, he will lend his ears to you whenever you speak. This quality may be absent in someone who is not serious about you.

#2. He is genuinely concerned about you

The one actually in love with you will worry about your safety, your health, your career, your well-being, and even the smallest thing related to you. But, a random guy will not even fake so much of interest in you.

#3. He includes you in his future plans

You will notice him talking more about ‘us’ than ‘me’, if he is serious about you. He may even unconsciously slip a word or two about marriage, kids, and getting old together.

#4. He is ready to make sacrifices for you

Your future husband will be ready to make sacrifices and compromises in order to keep you happy and also, to keep the relationship going. Of course, not always! But, whenever possible, he will do so because your happiness matters a lot to him.

#5. He calls you up without any reason

Well, of course there is a reason. He might be missing you, or is concerned about you. Or, probably he had a bad day, and just wants to listen to your voice! Whatever the reason is, such calls are one of the signs that your relationship with this man is a meaningful one.

#6. He shows interest in your family

Not every guy will show interest in getting involved or even get acquainted with your family in the early stages of dating. And, if you find one, maybe he is just the ‘one’ for you.

#7. He introduces you to his family and friends

The right man in your life will not only take interest in your family, but will also be interested in introducing you to his family and friends. On the other hand, someone who does not see any future with you will be hesitant to take this step.

#8. He is ready to wait for lovemaking

While a ‘not so serious’ guy might just be looking for some physical intimacy, the one who truly loves you will wait as long as you want. And, he will never even pressurize you for the same.

So ladies, does your man exhibit any of these qualities? If not, then maybe it is time to talk out things with him about your future together clearly. And, if yes, then you definitely are one lucky girl!

Source:www.informationng.com/2015/04/8-signs-to-tell-whether-he-is-your-future-husband-or-just-a-waste-of-time.html

#7. He introduces you to his family and friends



eyes don open, so this point is not true anymore, not in this present generation

even if the guy takes you to heaven to meet his great grandparents, you can still be his ex(stop dreaming abt future husband)

...And after holistically doing all that, HE'LL STILL NOT MARRY YOU

Ok

son of a spoon

Do you know the strategies that players use?

Tallesty1:
Do you know the strategies that players use?

all of the above i guess....but a real man/God fearing man wouldn't use such tactics

set the record straight now!!!

What if he pretends

damseyl:
What if he pretends

then God will judge

No 8

Can naija guys wait?

Taking you to see his parents doesn't guarantee that he will marry you, he could flip anytime

Number 5, for where?

Number 8, He's prolly getting it somewhere, while waiting for you to be ready

Nneka123:
Taking you to see his parents doesn't guarantee that he will marry you, he could flip anytime

Number 5, for where?

Number 8, He's prolly getting it somewhere, while waiting for you to be ready

coders everywhere

Mhizizzy:
No 8

Can naija guys wait?

someone like me

SleekyP:


coders everywhere

so it's a waste of time then

Nneka123:
so it's a waste of time then

not for the fearing God type

tosyne2much come here

Some no be true jare...
I once has a girlfriend that was known by her boyfriend family, at d end lie lie no marriage, d guy after popping d cherry went for another one though she found out and ended the affair...
Last one na lie too, he may feign waiting so as not to think he is lusting after your body only,,, op abeg professional players knew how to play their balls perfectly well, them can dribble eeeehhh
sha, who ever say experience is nott good.....

SleekyP:

someone like me

If I hear

Even ordinary girls

U are trying to **** dem

Mhizizzy:


If I hear

Even ordinary girls

U are trying to **** dem

Jollyjoy:
Some no be true jare...
I once has a girlfriend that was known by her boyfriend family, at d end lie lie no marriage, d guy after popping d cherry went for another one though she found out and ended the affair...
Last one na lie too, he may feign waiting so as not to think he is lusting after your body only,,, op abeg professional players knew how to play their balls perfectly well, them can dribble eeeehhh
sha, who ever say experience is nott good.....

Je ne comprends pas

SleekyP:
tosyne2much come here

I don ladn sharp sharp

tosyne2much:
I don ladn sharp sharp

your 2cent on here

SleekyP:
Je ne comprends pas

meaning?

Jollyjoy:
meaning?

good

Mhizizzy:
No 8
Can naija guys wait?

million dollar question my sis

sarahatuba:

million dollar question my sis

SleekyP:

why are you smiling at me?

Player Alert

zenith4biz:
Player Alert