espn:
Some gals can form..der undies stinks and is more horrible than dis guys kitchen..i won't mention names..dey commented b4 me.

nino17:
Clean it up . Even if he's just a close friend.

nino17:
Clean it up . Even if he's just a close friend.

foxxynik:

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Here's what am talking about!
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Exactly what I need in a woman!...
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Most girls don't even know what testing a woman means!... Becoz the kitchen is effing dirty...doesn't mean...You'd be turn off!
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If I go to a friend's place and see a girl enter his house and see this kindaf kitchen and then clean It up...trust me....I'll snatch her a way from my friend and I'll do that with no conscience! Becoz they are rare species to come by!

preciousan:
abeg ,na run i go run o,forget dat kind test,that kitchen looks like what has been left dirty for like 5 years ,with all those rust ,so the lady should expect more if married to the guy ,the guy fit wear one boxers for 1month sef.or even go toilet im no go flush am,it just shows how dirty the guy can be.

TrishaP:
That ends the dating my dear. I"ll rather stay outside so we'll talk and then never visit. I mean There is no way I will be excited to see such dirty house and still want to continue. Jeez what kind of impression is that?!!

ikp4succes come and see this

TrishaP:

I was expecting the bashing and I was fully prepared for them. I was glad I had my binoculars with me. I knew majority of the guys would agree to the topic and want to bounce on any lady who doesn't agree with them.. too bad.

You should know you have to be mean with the truth especially in a thread like this, or else, guys will tear you to pieces

ginawest:
y shud I walk away?I wl simply help im clean it up...wu knows,he myt b testing me

nkem123:
this is what I do exactly, whenever I invite a lady to my house I leave my kitchen, toilet, and bathroom like that.I do intentionally to test them.d one that passed d test is still wit me till date and planning to get married by next year March
so what's d big deal if a lady finds ur apartment that way, that is one of d ways to know a wife material

Equalizer:

Life is all about choices and decisions... we all are entitle to our personal choices and decisions and whatever the outcome becomes, am sure its still within our jurisdictions to take full responsibility of it.. What I meant by litmus test is that the case might be different depending on the individual involved.. You might just be stepping in and all of a sudden he starts throwing up to the extend that the whole house becomes a mess... Will you leave him in that condition and walk without cleaning up the house?

foxxynik:

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Lol... Ofcoz we have guys that are dirty and those ones that are very dirty... But what's ur responsibility in a man's life? Jst to s'e'x him all day long?... No sweet!
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Women have the power to change any man they love to their Prince-Charming!
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It's a pity that women don't take little time to study their men or their relationship. They only get to know when he's cheating, when he's remorsefully refuse attending to her needs on bed.. They will sight a man and know if he's a wife beater, he's a lecher, he's stingy...
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But they refused to dig deep to study their relationships plan their relationship and perhaps build it alongside with the man!
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If ur man is a dirty one... You have the power to make him a very clean man! You have the power to make ur man listen to you! Women have the power to make a man feel important amongst his friends!
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A friend of mine... His girl really bring this guy out from his lack of dressing sense to a fashion king!... He's now very good with the colours combination... what to wear in the morning and what he'll wear in the evening and so on...
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A lot of women who knows what they're capable of...who knows the woman-power vested upon them...uses their powers to p.i.m.p their men!
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You can change a man from wearing one boxer for weeks to wearing three boxers a day! All u need is ur chemistry!

foxxynik:

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Here's what am talking about!
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Exactly what I need in a woman!...
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Most girls don't even know what testing a woman means!... Becoz the kitchen is effing dirty...doesn't mean...You'd be turn off!
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If I go to a friend's place and see a girl enter his house and see this kindaf kitchen and then clean It up...trust me....I'll snatch her a way from my friend and I'll do that with no conscience! Becoz they are rare species to come by!

Gold45:


now, that is a totally different case, even if I am not dating him or we just had a quarrel, I'll try to stop the vomiting, clean up the mess, fix him something to eat so he doesnt get dehydrated, get him some medication and tuck him in bed if I can lift him/ tuck him on the floor.

virginice:



So a guy can "test" a lady. Well, ladies had better start testing "guys" too. Why would she clean that? A guy in his right mind will not test any woman with that! It is too dirty and No I can't even step inside that kitchen. My mom never brought up my 3 brothers that way. She would share household chores equally among us. Me na only girl and yes I can pound yam, wash car etc. whenever it is my turn to do. Imagine this! If my bro test a babe with this, I will personally tell the babe to test my bro by asking for something he can't afford (monetary) #angry

Equalizer:

If you are for real then you are indeed a wife material... Keep it up dear..

EricRichie:
Simple! Help him clean the house.. .

It's cuz of stupid questions like this that I bomb people

ginawest:
y shud I walk away?I wl simply help im clean it up...wu knows,he myt b testing me

Gold45:





I really pity u, no I dont pity you. So just because she cleaned the kitchen, u will marry her? what if she's a slut? cant cook? stubborn? or is just pretending? you'll come here and tell us how ur perfect precious wife has changed since u married her.

TrishaP:

Ok be honest and realistic, A girl you like so much decided to invite you to her house and you bump into such and even worse, what would be running through your mind?

foxxynik:

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Lol... You're getting it all wrong!... My friend, Denis, before he proposed to his fiance.... He did something very dreaded!... I wouldn't mind telling you..
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It was jst right before time...when Denis returned from work...he had a car... Glory was the type of girl that likes visiting Denis from Abuja to porthartcourt, they had dated for 4years right from their 3rd year in school... Denis all thro the week had hired a girl to take over his house for a week..he knew she'll sneak in that week... We had arranged a spot for the engagement party that evening... We never knew denis had a serious plan to know if she'll give in or not... Glory landed that evening knocked on the door and saw a different girl... She was curious..she got angry yet controlled it...she asked if that was Denis house and the girl agreed... So she told her she was coming to visit Denis...and the girl started a quarel with her...dragged her clothes...and wanted a fight with her...called a huge scene...
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Glory respected herself... While neighbours came to separate the girl from harming her.... Although, she was told never to fight but to shake her... At this time... Glory called Denis and Denis picked her called and was very angry with her for coming without informing him... Glory strted crying!... Denis told her to return to abuja that he had always wanted to inform her that it was over between them!... We never knew what was happening...We were busy bringing live band groups and setting the place for the party to kickoff..
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Then Glory... Sat at the Balcony weeping..waiting to see Denis.. When Denis returning after coming to see us... We went to an eatery to get a cake....then foods and drinks from the store...he dropped us at the venue and went to his house... She was jst there crying...Heartbroken and almost fainted... When she saw Denis she knelt down and started begging... She was locked outside... She begged for forgiveness....that if the long distance relationship isn't favorable that she'll come down to porthartcourt to stay with him... She had tot of what will change Denis mind totally from her...
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Denis told her to hold on...that they needed to get to somewhere and talk things out... He went inside...brot a customised polo that was written "will you marry me" on it...and the other one was "yes, I'll marry you"...he put them in his car... The other had finished dressing...he took her and Glory in his car to the venue... He ushered her inside... With tears on her eyes...she saw her mother and father and her siblings all the way from Abuja...and some friends from school and the band started playing.....she drilled more tears when she turned and see the guy kneeling and asking her if she'll marry him! And she stood for minutes trying to understand thhe game she was being played!...
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Ofcoz she said yes! Then the girl who fought was the MC...
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Trust, many girls will not wait to have that moment! When the MC who fought her...disclose the story...a lot of ppl were shading tears!... I wouldn't lie... I hid and clean mine! Lol... Just know that... A man can test you and he'll do so for a reason!

ginawest:
y shud I walk away?I wl simply help im clean it up...wu knows,he myt b testing me

foxxynik:

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Lol.... On her first day?... Even when she doesn't know if am testing her or not?...
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Sluts only come for intimacy and will not even bother about ur kitchen!... And if she can't cook... Going to catering school isn't a bad idea.... Sturborness can be tamed!....
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When a man succeed in making a girl to love him from her heart...there are a lot of things she'll forego...!
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All you need is to do what you know is right!... This things add value to ur womanhood and give rise to ur dignity!
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Please, always do what is necessary when u meet with your man... Coz u dnt knw what is always running thro his mind...

Equalizer:

Yea but some will still see what you just did as an act of slavery since you guys are not married yet.. Do you know that some girls won't even do what you just narrated cos that sight of the vomit might be irritating them.. Its all about choices my dear m..Where I work explains this kitchen a bit cos one might have planned to do laundry or some dishes by the weekend and on getting to work you will be asked to get onboard the vessel and that travel might extend to weeks or even months.. So let's not be too fast in concluding that the guy is the dirty type until we hear his story first..