Good day nairalnders,

A very good friend of mine told me her boyfriend loves her bt doesn't trust her..

So i kept wondering if love can exist without trust? Although the guy has been so loving and caring bt there has been no trust..
My girlfriend said he trust his boifrnd bt dis guy doesn't even trust her even when she does things 2 make him trust her bt her boifrnd just keep saying he doesn't trust her that she should put more efforts..

So my fellow nairalnders can u LOVE someone dearly without TRUST?

Cc lalasticlala

He loves the body and not the girl

Basildvalour:
He loves the body and not the girl

But he doesn't show he loves the body..

alberto2k:
True Love without trust? Not Possible...

Can u love without trust ?

vizkiz:
we can't love without trust and we can't trust without love...both works together!

Infact the day you stop trusting your partner is the day you break up with him/her psycologically

Thanks

no sir!!!

Blizzyblinkzy:


But he doesn't show he loves the body..

Its a tactical move to make the girl request for it herself so that when he eventually takes it and leaves, he wouldn't be blamed to have "used and dumped" her.


Its logical

agarawu23:
no sir!!!

am not a guy ma

Blizzyblinkzy:


Can u love without trust ?

Yes . . if i juss wan chop and clean mouth

Basildvalour:
Its a tactical move to make the girl request for it herself so that when he eventually takes it and leaves, he wouldn't be blamed to have "used and dumped" her.


Its logical

But they have dated 4 2 yrs and some months and everything is still moving fyn.. They have really gone a long way in d relationship

Blizzyblinkzy:


am not a guy ma

hahaha just checked your moniker well and discovered u are a Lady in fact (the lady I once.....

alberto2k:
Yes . . if i juss wan chop and clean mouth

That's not love

agarawu23:
hahaha just checked your moniker well and discovered u are a Lady in fact (the lady I once.....

The lady u once did what ?

Blizzyblinkzy:


But they have dated 4 2 yrs and some months and everything is still moving fyn.. They have really gone a long way in d relationship

Hanging on for two years plus, still strong together and still complaining of no trust

Maybe its really not an intimate relationship. Might be one for mutual benefits. The guy might be gaining things from her other than her body which he might be getting somewhere else because you say he isn't interested in her body.

Blizzyblinkzy:


The lady u once did what ?

I dissed you about your age two days ago if u could remember. just focus on your thread OK? make we know derail

Basildvalour:
Hanging on for two years plus, still strong together and still complaining of no trust

Maybe its really not an intimate relationship. Might be one for mutual benefits. The guy might be gaining things from her other than her body which he might be getting somewhere else because you say he isn't interested in her body.

Things like what ?

Blizzyblinkzy:

That's not love

that explains my first post here

Love without trust is possible if you've cheated before. Supposing you apologise, you could be forgiven and still be loved but the trust is gone.

Blizzyblinkzy:


But they have dated 4 2 yrs and some months and everything is still moving fyn.. They have really gone a long way in d relationship

OK! since the relationship is old, I will advice your friend to sit his bf down and ask him what exactly is giving him doubt abt her.

I think the guy doesn't know what he want for himself because I see no reason why should date a girl u didn't trust for that long.

agarawu23:
I dissed you about your age two days ago if u could remember. just focus on your thread OK? make we know derail

Ain't bothered abt that.. It was yesterday i just remembered it

Blizzyblinkzy:

Things like what ?

Wouldn't know though. For me, no trust, no love

Basildvalour:
Wouldn't know though. For me, no trust, no love

ok.. Thanks 4 ur opinion

agarawu23:
OK! since the relationship is old, I will advice your friend to sit his bf down and ask him what exactly is giving him doubt abt her.

I think the guy doesn't know what he want for himself because I see no reason why should date a girl u didn't trust for that long.

Cos she has got so many male frnd than female frnds
She has got a lot of admirers and stalkers
Bt she's free with her phone.. Her boifrnd do have access 2 her phone and sometimes do receive her call
She do introduce her male frnds 2 him as d boifrnd bt am still confused

XtraSmooth404:
Love without trust is possible if you've cheated before. Supposing you apologise, you could be forgiven and still be loved but the trust is gone.

Thanks bt can u love without trust? Although he feels the girlfriend cheats bt got no prove

Blizzyblinkzy:


Thanks bt can u love without trust? Although he feels the girlfriend cheats bt got no prove

Love? Nah... I'm into ''partnership'', what do you have to offer?

XtraSmooth404:

Love? Nah... I'm into ''partnership'', what do you have to offer?

Na u sabi

Love is meant to be without condition, there was an ex I deeply loved to fault, I didn't care about her flaws but unfortunately she married someone else, since then I have been finding it hard to fall in love again. All I see is hoes around me.

I beg to defer.... There can be love without trust. Am typing from experience. My current girlfriend, I love her but i don't trust her. My reason, two months into our relationship, she 'kissed' another guy (Atleast that was what she agreed to, perhaps to suit my ears) and though i forgave her, i have not been able to come and trust her. I Love her like no other, atleast if not just for that act i would have broken up with her.... But i love her somuch, yet, trusting her for that action early in our relationship is difficult. I still find it very difficult even till now. So i think the lady may have done something or acted in a way to arouse suspicion from the guy or to kill trust. Know that once trust is killed, to rebuild may take forever.

You can you love without trust, but paranoia go kill person , no peace of mind, arguement , always suspecting something.... Its possible but difficult.
Its like kissing ur bae, then going for various test everytime u do ..
You must have some form of trust to be able to love someone completely.. (Inlove) with someone is different from just love


Lalasticlala fp

Blizzyblinkzy:
Good day nairalnders,

A very good friend of mine told me her boyfriend loves her bt doesn't trust her..

So i kept wondering if love can exist without trust? Although the guy has been so loving and caring bt there has been no trust..
My girlfriend said he trust his boifrnd bt dis guy doesn't even trust her even when she does things 2 make him trust her bt her boifrnd just keep saying he doesn't trust her that she should put more efforts..

So my fellow nairalnders can u LOVE someone dearly without TRUST?

Cc lalasticlala

no way i can partake in such. Such relationship is built on a quaking foundation.



XavierBlue