Its been more than a year since I started dating my present GF and money seems to be one of the major problem in our relationship ... There's no need to know which part of Nigeria she's from

Previously I send her money at will or when she asks but I noticed it was becoming too rampant and sometimes recursive, so I decided to place her on monthly allowances .

Another problem has boiled out she says she wants
30k per month so in 12 months (NVM) although to me its a bit better because previously am sure I send her more than 30k a month, ...

So please I want to know if its a good idea for one to place his GF on monthly allowances and how much is ideal I once insisted I slash her monthly allowance to 20 or 15k monthly but she nearly killed me

Some of my friends feel its a bad idea that it seems too formal like as if dating me is a job, she's 21 and am 23 , we are both in university tho I don't study in naija presently ...



Am sure some Elderly Folks may find this insipid am honestly sorry

Is the girl handicap?

My dear, you are too young to carry such responsibility.
At this stage, giving of anything, be it sex or money should not be seen as a right or obligation in a relarionship judging by your age alone. She does not owe you nada and you also dont owe her. If she is broke and you want to assist her through school and you would have done it even if she was not your gf, then its fine. But to see it as a responsibility to give her money because she is dating you is not a wise idea at this age o.

delishpot:
My dear, you are too young to carry such responsibility.

Its OK ... Thanks for your keen advice .. To Everyone Else your opinion has been noted carefully .
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MODIFY

I HAVE NEVER BEEN THIS INSULTED IN MY ENTIRE LIFE SOME PEOPLE EVEN INSULTED MY ANCESTIRS THIS IS TOO SERIOUS JESUS .. I DUN STOP AM INSHUT AS FROM TODAY YOU CAN CALL AKAGUM

I couldn't modify the initial post so I decided to modify this , I don't want to make any rash decision. So I keenly sent my GF to this forum so she would see hw much I have been insulted, hence she would appreciate me better and know that very few people would do what I am doing presently ...

Apart from that to all NL I appreciate your comments and insults perhaps I have gained a lot but my inner mind wonldnt allow me stop helping her when I can as per the allowances we would definitely stop it or resolve it, we've been tru alot and we do not want money to be y we are no longer together, I hope she's reading this I usually tell her that I may not b perfect but what I am doing most people would definitely say its a bad idea ..

Thankx again ...


HAHAHAH

BTW she read dis and she's mad she says she doesn't want the money again ... Una too much

Hmmmmmm

delishpot:
My dear, you are too young to carry such responsibility.

bad Belle


op na u b boss of lies sha

tosyne2much:
Hmmmmmm

Oga tosyne I live in Benin when am in naija u dey represent us wella for nairaland.. More grace to ur gifted hands

Some people should study d full meanin of maga

sinaj:


bad Belle


op na u b boss of lies sha

Madam, wetin I do you? My bele fresh o. Inshort I just eat cake finish. My bele swet well well

sinaj:


bad Belle


op na u b boss of lies sha

Y should I be lie-ing ... U want to see my bank statement ??

adrainuche:


Oga tosyne I live in Benin when am in naija u dey represent us wella for nairaland.. More grace to ur gifted hands

Thanks my biggest bros

Cutehector:
Some people should study d full meanin of maga

Please this is not a case of magarism

R u her daddy?

adrainuche:


Please this is not a case of magarism

den wat is it? When she isn't even yet ur wife

Chai..No know Wetin bro talk

Emodeee:
R u her daddy?

No am not she's not particularly from a very rich home tho ..

[size=35pt] Hell to the NO!!! [/size]

Cutehector:
den wat is it? When she isn't even yet ur wife

She feels since am not around and as long as we are dating I have to finicially assist her ...

adrainuche:


No am not she's not particularly from a very rich home tho ..

so what is ur reason for giving her pension without working for u

Did dis rabbit just typed 30k??



Wait wait......


You said you wanted to reduce her cash to 20k nd she nearly killed you??



Wait wait.......



Is she working for you





Wait wait........




I need just 2k for transport dis week nd I dnt knw whr to get dem from....




Wait.....




You mean 1 snake will just sit down while 30k enters her f**kin acct every month



I HATE YOU WITH PASSION@MR OP




Dey dere dey waste money while we have children in the street beggin each day just for water....we still gat kids in the orphanage home.....nd u're here wastin it on 1 full bodied babyRat
GOD knws I'll never try it



Had it been she's ur wife..its better....but she's ur so called damn f**kin g.f who will dump you for sum1 she loves and yet u're still blind?


F**k you a billion tyms!!!!

If you up to the task i don't see anything bad in that

marshalcarter:
Did dis rabbit just typed 30k??



Wait wait......


You said you wanted to reduce her cash to 20k nd she nearly killed you??



Wait wait.......



Is she working for you





Wait wait........




I need just 2k for transport dis week nd I dnt knw whr to get dem from....




Wait.....




You mean 1 snake will just sit down while 30k enters her f**kin acct every month



I HATE YOU WITH PASSION@MR OP




Dey dere dey waste money while we have children in the street beggin each day just for water....we still gat kids in the orphanage home.....nd u're here wastin it on 1 full bodied babyRat
GOD knws I'll never try it



Had it been she's ur wife..its better....but she's ur so called damn f**kin g.f who will dump you for sum1 she loves and yet u're still blind?


F**k you a billion tyms!!!!

OMG Am really sorry sir, it wasn't intentional to hurt you in anyway .. I felt since I was dating her at least I owe her some support whether finicially or in any other way ... Once again sorry ...

adrainuche:

Y should I be lie-ing ... U want to see my bank statement ??

I dnt nid to c ur bank statement

I c ur haircut nigga

delishpot:


Madam, wetin I do you? My bele fresh o. Inshort I just eat cake finish. My bele swet well well

lol i love cakes *smack lips*

DNT TALK TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!








You don buy wrapper for ur mumsi b4??



I swear you need to go cele

Hello folks, please watch out for my new novel titled: 'When A Foolish Boy Falls In Love'. The book was published by Omiragua Publishers, Warri!

Ipledge:
so what is ur reason for giving her pension without working for u

She feels since we are dating I should be responsible for upkeep bla bla bla ...

marshalcarter:
DNT TALK TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!









You don buy wrapper for ur mumsi b4??




I swear you need to go cele

She hsnt asked me too buy her wrapper I occasionally buy her gifts on mothers day ...

Rapmoney:
Hello folks, please watch out for my new novel titled: 'When A Foolish Boy Falls In Love'. The book was published by Omiragua Publishers, Warri!

May be u are right am foolish but may be ur wrong as well, there's no need calling me names I asked for ur opinion not ur insults or mockery ..

sinaj:


I dnt nid to c ur bank statement


I c ur haircut nigga

Lol

Remember to give her pension if she breaks up with you.