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Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by adrainuche(m): 3:17pm On May 07, 2015 |
queebeediva: Thankx for ur contribution |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by oshyno(m): 3:17pm On May 07, 2015 |
@OP bcuznof this your question I had to go check your profile and eventually stumbled on this tread of urs. https://www.nairaland.com/2147628/how-broke-up-valentines-day You said u broke up with her on vals day. Just want to know have u reconciled with her cuz it seems ur talking about same girl here. U even paid their rent. Dude uv been shouldering their responsibility since God knows wen. Looking even at her attitude towards anytin finance, guy u dont deserve such girl. Infact both of u dont deserve each oda cuz believe me the girl is still hanging in there bcuz of d money. People help each oda. I do dat too to my girl but d moment my girl tried to get furious with me bcuz she needed moni badly and I wasnt giving her I placed her where she belonged. She apologized profusely and all got settled. Since den she cant even open her mouth and even beg me moni. I wud be d one to be like ok dis babe is in bad state financially leme lend a helping hand. And she will be thanking me even a week after.Shez now struggling to make somtin out of her life too which am helping her instead of being a leach. Plz stop. take a stock and ask if this is leading anywhere. Or better still if d girl in question is appreciative or does she feel like is her entitlement. If ur doing it bcuz u want to help a poor family,God will reward u but : 1-U must not expect anytin in return in terms of sex.2- the girl and the family must not put that on ur shoulder cuz for crying out loud ur a student which invarianly makes u dependent on ur parents. 3-the girl must be grateful and not see it as her due. But for the girl sef to call u a fool on vals day speaks volume. use ur tongue to count ur teeth . 1 Like |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by adrainuche(m): 3:18pm On May 07, 2015 |
Haywhymido: Noted Sir... |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by adrainuche(m): 3:19pm On May 07, 2015 |
snazzy5050: What as. That got to do... |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by adrainuche(m): 3:22pm On May 07, 2015 |
Badosqi: Am not buying it... 1 Like |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by adrainuche(m): 3:23pm On May 07, 2015 |
kingsilly: Thankx Boss... |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by Nobody: 3:25pm On May 07, 2015 |
I can understand men complaining about this issue, but not a girl. Who said u shouldn't work hard, who told you im lazy? I really pity this girl cod men will just cheat you. Stay there forming independent girl while your man spends money on other girls, you better go and ask your mother, it's not by being independent. Iv seen the fomer female President of NSE still call her husband to tell him about paying for a leather bag I brought to her, are you more independent than her? If the man gives spends on you will he have a lot to spend on other girls? Whether or not you need, collect. Wisdom is profitable to direct. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by adrainuche(m): 3:26pm On May 07, 2015 |
NZEGWUAGU: I do not know why u will rain insuts on me like dis if u are not going to advice me. At the end of the day...Thankx |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by adrainuche(m): 3:29pm On May 07, 2015 |
Omotayor123: Wat are u thinking ma'am |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by adrainuche(m): 3:29pm On May 07, 2015 |
kilokeys: Thank you ... |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by Nobody: 3:30pm On May 07, 2015 |
oshyno:This is a man adrianuche pls listen to him 1 Like |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by adrainuche(m): 3:30pm On May 07, 2015 |
moreeni: Go away |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by Oluwaplumpie(m): 3:32pm On May 07, 2015 |
adrainuche:U give someone ure not married to or legally bound to 30k per month?? Really? I think ure ur own problem. U don't need any advice. Do as ur heart leads. Also... Ure the problem with Nigeria |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by adrainuche(m): 3:40pm On May 07, 2015 |
Benz4pimp: Jesus |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by Modester4(f): 3:40pm On May 07, 2015 |
adrainuche: U welcome. Sure we are friends, and we can be. Thanks too. *I never born u dey call me aunt* All the same thanks 1 Like |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by 12month: 3:41pm On May 07, 2015 |
That same girl he is trying to keep happy, another guy dey fvck am for naija Hahaha naija girls I hail thee |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by ayusco85(m): 3:44pm On May 07, 2015 |
marshalcarter: keeping it real bro. i luv this post mehn. that OP needs some serious beating. and the Gf, well she shld just go for deliverance 1 Like |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by Nobody: 3:50pm On May 07, 2015 |
Ladylaura93:my point is taking care of her is always implied not explicit. think about it why would my gf tell me it's my responsibility to take care of her in terms . anyway sha all the best. peace |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by Paretomaster(m): 3:58pm On May 07, 2015 |
Hey look here dis boy/OP, am sure u have younger ones, and u dint place them on monthly salary. Infact u need to dump dat gal ASAP, u don't owe her nada, u may just help her once in a while if she is in need, but not to be her "standing order” Its better u pick up a homeless person, mother less child, and pay them monthly. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by adrainuche(m): 4:02pm On May 07, 2015 |
oshyno: Thanks we reconciled and we apologized to each other , yes she's the same girl .. Sometimes she feels its a bit complicated anyways I brought her here to this forum so she sees people response so den she would value me .. |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by jerumax: 4:03pm On May 07, 2015 |
God loves us all but He still requires that we ask Him, besides how does a man know when his women needs something if she doesn't ask? A man should provide for his woman and not spoil her,why? because it is difficult for anyone that has been spoilt to act responsibly. Are you sure you are talking about[b] Love/[/b] when you refer to how a man should slave himself for his wife? Well I thank God that you have been attracting these kind of men because it is a great thing to have someone who is willing to sacrifice because of Love. Please Love goes both ways, when necessary you should also be ready to make sacrifice for your man. If a man does not take care of you when you are dating how will he take care if you if you marry him? On this you are right. Ladylaura93: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by adrainuche(m): 4:06pm On May 07, 2015 |
Ladylaura93: Thanks have listened to him ... You guys are one derfull |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by Saraben(f): 4:09pm On May 07, 2015 |
pcguru1:I agree with you |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by smvinreal(f): 4:11pm On May 07, 2015 |
Edusouls:you don't have to insult me ok no one is forceing him to pay place her on allowance ok,that's way i said if he's up to the task i see nothing bad in it 1 Like |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by Nobody: 4:15pm On May 07, 2015 |
Ladylaura93:Though I still helped me ex because we are friends, contributed a large amount for her rent. She's the type who will never ask me for cash and I hated it. Such a shame genotype ish was a factor my point a reasonable guy would always help out if he has the means sometimes it could be out of our control. Remember the economy is not predictable God forbid but tomorrow I could be out of a job, should I be worried that my gf will break up with me because I can't meet her needs. |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by erico2k2(m): 4:16pm On May 07, 2015 |
Ladylaura93:can I please ask you a question |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by Nobody: 4:17pm On May 07, 2015 |
I smvinreal: Ladylaura93: What OP is a student, truly the boy is silly. Misplaced priority at the highest. For a student he has no right taking such responsibility other than graduating well. I even thought he was working class. Silly boy. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by Nobody: 4:24pm On May 07, 2015 |
Can you imagine op is even a student ll you people supporting this are all wicked. I even thought op was working class. OP you are silly face your studies now. If that relationships lasts outside school then thank God because they never do. No girl wants to settle with their peers. Go and read and pass your exams first. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by ricki: 5:05pm On May 07, 2015 |
Ok settle down everyone, am in a similar situation minus the mandate. I don't give a toss if anoda dude is stretching it; cause it does need widening a little though . In my case, I actually saw with my own 2 eyes how she suffering and roughing it in school while I went to visit her. I have to be generous to her for simple reasons beside those mentioned above.... A. She was a good girl wen I forced my way through the tunnel and this happened in her final year at school. No mugurism here o B. I tricked her one day dat I ran out of money (she didn't speak to me for three days in the same house and I realised dat I didn't bath much within dos days contributed to her closing chop on me). So I can't really tell if it was the money trick or not.... During this time we were both counting thousands upon upon of naira for payment to workers on my building site and I just drop it in to make sure that it's not the money. C. She is very interesting girl rude nasty - just the way I like it and I like her for dos natural talent D. I just can't bear her crying and nagging cause she might get used to it. Not good for me later. E. I really really like her and I know she loves me. Doing introduction this July. Enough about me Oga OP you are not alone in this kind of situation some people just have it better or worst than others. From ur own words it seemed it bothers you and/or something is bothering u for u to come on to niranland to tabled this issue. Sorry for all all the insults left and right, jungle justice is no fun. You mentioned that u invited that same girl to this forum for what exactly? Vindication? I hope to hear her side of the story too and hopefully she can gather enough courage to show up. Laters 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by Omotayor123(f): 5:12pm On May 07, 2015 |
adrainuche:Same as what u think I'm thinking. |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by tobsonkings: 5:15pm On May 07, 2015 |
Love is an ocean of emotion xterised by an expanse of expenses and sacrifices. However, lets not be blind cause we re in love. Hw are u sure she is in love with you when she ranting over allowances when she isnt even married to you. Is it her right or a privillege. True love isnt materialistic. Look deep and put her to test. If she fails . Pls move onnnn...... |
Re: Is It Apopriate For One To Place His GF On Monthly Allowances ?? by Nobody: 5:18pm On May 07, 2015 |
OP my boy, you know there are some lessons that simply have got to be learned the hard way? this is one of them.... why did you come to Nairaland for advice concerning this? it shows that deep within you, you are not comfortable with this odd and unreasonable arrangement, yet you are busy thanking people who give you advice to the contrary. well, you are still young so ma nigga, do yo thing, ride on but ask yourself if you think this is a tale you would be proud to tell your kids of in the future? at 23 ur already pushing 30 so you better start seeing the bigger picture. |
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