I am not in any way in support of raising a finger at a woman. I consider it barbaric .In fact, only a mentally disabled man will beat and beat his wife at the slightest provocation .

Having said the above , and with a thread a nairalander opened yesterday about her friend that was always receiving the beating of her life from her husband,the story of my step brother came to my mind .

Before my brother got married,he was this gentle, quiet, caring, loving and hard working type. He got married to this beautiful and also easy going lady. We were all happy about the union and expecting a kind of union that will be a model for us his younger ones.

There was this evening we received an unusual call from the wife saying my brother has been giving her the beating of her life since morning . That he has nearly killed her. Immediately she dropped the call, her mum called again that if anything should happen to her daughter that my mum and the whole family would be responsible and in for it. Her younger sister called again, calling my brother unprintable names and giving different kinds of warnings, if anything should happen to her sister.

This destabilsed us in the house. We were confused. Nobody has ever reported my brother in the house before, hence it was strange. We called my brother but he didn't even pick .

To cut the long story short, my brother eventually came home after three days to actually explain what happened.
He said since he got married to the popularly believed gentle,innocent girl, it has been horror for him. He said he has been trying to protect that good quality popularly believed by the family, and that was the reason why he has not reported her newly discovered characters to anyone and was hoping that she would change sooner .

He said for the past two years, that his wife slapped or beat him on the slightest provocation. He showed us old and new wounds all over his body. He said he has been enduring it all these while . He further said he noticed his wife was becoming stronger and happy with her actions because every time she would introduce new styles of beating him.

He said on this faithful day, there was an argument and before he could say one or two words, one, two slaps don land gidigba for his face. She didn't stop there, but went further to use her high heel shoes on him. Not yet done she went further to bite him severally ( the hand bite almost resulted in Whitlow). We saw with our eyes all the injuries inflicted on him . In fact, my younger brother had to ask him if his legs and hands were tied together while all these were going on. He said he was just smiling and trying to hold her together .

After all these, he said he had to talked to himself: for how long would these continue? He said his wife was doing all these just because she knows his position towards beating a lady, and before they got married he had one time or the other condemned men that do beat their wives and even called them animals.

The wife having realised this, was now doing the beating and expecting the husband to keep to his words and be strong in his conviction .

He said on this particular day, when his wife had finished doing her worst, he went to her ( not in anger but intentionally) and told her that what he was about to do is necessary at this point . That he wanted to prove one thing, which is , not that he doesn't have the power to beat but he has vowed not to in his life and seeing the type of woman she is, he has to prove this point today.

He first begged for forgiveness from God and her, and then, immediately, he landed two hot slaps on her face which caught her unawares and her jaw dropped.

Immediately he did this ,she went straight to pick up her phone and started calling her relatives and telling them lies that he has nearly finished her with beating .

In this case , what is your judgement ?

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Before doing this, he should have in one of these incidents recorded the beatings he got from the wife so as to show as evidence when the blackmail starts.

Any woman that beats a man deserves to be beaten.. call me old fashion i don't care..if you have the power to beat a man, you should have the strength to receive same beatings.

The Man is to be blame jare, Why didn't he report her to her Family?? I am sure the family knows her true Colour, and would have mentioned it in the process of rebuking her. She might have been the area fighter and pretend to be "Madam Peace" whenever she's with him and his family.

She deserved it.What insolence

Hmm...

'This uprising will bring out the beast in us'

If I were to be him, I would leave the house for some days, then come back to check if her senses are back. I would do so until I find solace outside and that might spell doom for the marriage. But I won't bring out the beast in me.

If I were to be him,I go beat am eee



Smh for women.

Give them one shoe,they will look for the other size.

After all these, he said he had to talked to himself: for how long would these continue?

Good, it means he borrowed himself brain. He did the right thing, although I feel he should have reported her to her family first, with the warning that if she lay her hands on him again, he would not be responsible for his reaction. Now she has made him look like the bad person.

The gentility of the tiger does not signify weakness. I have brothers and I will not sit back and watch them being abused, the same way they won't fold their hands if I am suffering spousal abuse. He did the right thing and I applaud him. Hopefully, the slaps may have succeeded in restoring her to her default settings. If it didn't, report her to her family. If that still doesn't work, kick her butt out of the house and only readmit her after she has learnt to tame her inner Floyd Mayweather.

Rubbish

She deserves worse.

Women ehn! Chai God help us

READing!

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The first she does that, we could say 'Oh, she was angry and unconscious'.

The second time she does that we can still find an excuse and call it coincidental, 'such will never happen again''! But the third time signifies intention. What I would have like to know which the OP didn't report is her actions afterward, maybe she use to sho remorse and apologize but all that doesn't matter anyway.

I have to salute that man's courage to manage the crisis he actually over-manage bad thing, he should have reported her to parents and relative after the 3rd occasion and warn that he's going t divorce (you don't have a wife if u got beaten by ur so called wife every now an then) her when such happen again.


He should not have allowed her break the covenant with God. I will suggest he divorce her!
not that he doesn't have the power to beat but he has vowed not to in his life and seeing the type of woman she is, he has to prove this point today.

I'm relly really sad it took him so long before he gave her those warning slaps.., but I assure u that gradually 'Parade go change gear'

There's always a limit to everything... The man was pushed to the limit.He did the right thing.

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De General

Lady hulk hogan.

I know the african stance on marriage and divorce but back in the states, the man would divorce the wife and file an assault suit against her......she's goinng to jail man!!

One other thing....i hate it when in-laws interfere in (especially) a man's private issue. They think they can just boss the man around, they even go as far as threatening at any slight misunderstanding.

GOD HELP ME IF I DONT LOCK THE WHOLE FAMILY IN JAIL!

Against wife beating my foot....!

Everyone has a reason fr doing evil things,
That ur reason cover two pages of Fullscap sheet dsnt mk it ryt!!

News Flash!
Ur Bro Just Became A Wife Beater And Destroyed His Home!

Why will u beat a woman?


























But islam support beating a woman somehow

Slapping and beating topics now trending on Nairaland

Meanwhile

Op your brother tried. You can't spare the rod and expect to not spoil the child.

Ishilove are you a man-beater?

How did this crap make the front page?

Your brother allowed the nonsense to fester ,slap me ones and receive the beating of your life and of course you're leaving the damn house that same night.

See me see wahala o.

Padi.......in no case should u slap ur wife............but womaniii.....unu dey provoke unu husband oh

man that was funny.......

On a second thought ......she needs a bit of the slap........

I love the part where he asked for forgiveness from God

Lmao.. well deserved. He did not even need to ask her for forgivenesss. Beat satan out of her soul. Silly girl

sochima1989:
Padi.......in no case should u slap ur wife............but womaniii.....unu dey provoke unu husband oh

You are silly

He did right,but i don't think that is the end of the matter. If the scenario painted by the op is anything to go by the situation is about to get worse...shudders

If this story is true ('cos i doubt) then the man is a mumu. He is living in year 3000 (over civilization dey worry am).
Even after praying, he didnt give her a good beating.
Yes, if the man woman he married was well beaten she wouldnt recognise her phone.

Sometimes it is good to be pragmatic to achieve results. Igbos say that if a child crawls to pinch you, crawl back like a baby to pinch him. So that the baby will know it doesnt feel good.

She got wat she deserved

allanphash7:
Why will u beat a woman?
But islam support beating a woman somehow

The Prophet Muhammad never beat his wives.

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only two slaps?