I rest my case on this note.. A woman raising hand up...is to be caned.

Nice.

AbuuUsaamah:


The Prophet Muhammad never beat his wives.

Na lie! The same prophet mohammed advised his brethren to make horse whips for their wives! E se koboko fun won! I hear this always in their preaching.

Some women can be so frustrating so I can relate to what the op is saying. Well he had endure her for too long and probably he didn't want the marriage to crash so it was time he gave her a hard reset which is essential. I bet hence forth she will learn to respect him more and also fear him too.

kullozone:
Ahhhhhhh!!



























only two slaps?

Those two slaps na combination of wetyn d man dey recieve since

Wait oh!, are you guys telling me that what he did was not right.

My God I can't imagine this. If you guys truly know WOMEN is then you will understand.

Women are very smart that is why they attach emotion to almost everything against the OPPOSITE SEX to be VICTORIOUS at the end. In this case I am 101% support to the man.

Advice if truly want to know a woman behavior or secrete call an AGED FELLOW WOMAN.Believe me there 70% sure of the rightful result.

You know.

Na reset button he press

you guys need this

ademega:

My brother ,it happened .
My brother is a gentle type .easy going

A woman that urinate through her back beated her husband many times even bitten him severally without husband do anything, abeg nah lie. Big lie.

sochima1989:
. Na ur stature that woman go carry........ Buy am kinda sure u aint gonna do that.......but which one be cradle(child?) Robber

Don't be too sure...
People are not always as they seem.

@the UNBORN WIFE, you be Yerima?

She got what she deserved. Your brother should have documented all these abuses. Note to ladies: never take a quiet man for granted because the day he will revolt, you will be shocked! Respect is reciprocal jare. Some ladies can turn an angel into a devil.

Yes he was right to hit her, she sounds psychotic. Why do people resort to violence though I will never understand. He should just divorce her, she will never change. Violent people always have it within them.

This thread below is for guys.


10 Signs Your Girlfriend Or Wife Is An Emotional Bully And Abusive
https://www.nairaland.com/2276672/10-signs-girlfriend-wife-emotional

He shld have reported her a long time ago. The woman's parents shld have been made aware b4 it got to dis point, now everyone will think he is d wolf in sheep's clothing.

Ishilove:

I'm a lover, not a fighter.

Na so all the ladies dey talk o. .before marriage they are excellent lovers, after marriage dey turn to excellent boxers and fighters. . .I believe u sha

Your step-brother is a pússy and an Idíot.

I can never be in his shoes because no lady will treat me the way he's treated. All these effeminate men disgracing themselves. I have never laid my hands on any woman, but in this case, i'll pummel that bytch!!

MissSlimbody:


Don't be too sure...
People are not always as they seem.

@the UNBORN WIFE, you be Yerima?

. I dey fear una na......I am same stand point with that guy....but if my wife turns out that way......then me no go marry....... Cos I go jus run leave house for her. But u sound too responsible, u won't do such.....am too sure

jammyunn:
Never should a woman be hit-lessons from my father

Yes, but was your dad ever slapped by his wife?

sochima1989:
Padi.......in no case should u slap ur wife............but womaniii.....unu dey provoke unu husband oh

I have no adequate reply for you! you are probably a first year student.

The Man Actually allowed it to continue this Long,the very moment she slap me na 2 go land for her face so that it will nevr repeat itself again..wtf why would a woman try to beat/slap a man not to talk of husband even if she's older than me no give her d right to...

DIVORCE! Your bro made a wrong selection. These are the reasons why I keep wondering, if I would ever get married.

MissSlimbody:
Some women sha...

Na dem go first look 4 trouble, wen u come give dem double trouble. Them go start form victim.

Don't. Mind them!

kullozone:
Ahhhhhhh!!






only two slaps?

the thing pain me pass u only two slap that guy has no balls heavy beating even to carry phone call go hard her

hammer2010:
My fears about getting married knows no bounds

Don't be afraid as fear is of the devil. Just put GOD in your search for a wife and he won't disappoint you. Tell him what you want and he won't disappoint you. Matt 7:7-Ask and you shall be given.

jammyunn:
Never should a woman be hit-lessons from my father

how many women slapped your father?

ademega:
I am not in any way in support of raising a finger at a woman. I consider it barbaric .In fact, only a mentally disabled man will beat and beat his wife at the slightest provocation .

Having said the above , and with a thread a nairalander opened yesterday about her friend that was always receiving the beating of her life from her husband,the story of my step brother came to my mind .

Before my brother got married,he was this gentle, quiet, caring, loving and hard working type. He got married to this beautiful and also easy going lady. We were all happy about the union and expecting a kind of union that will be a model for us his younger ones.

There was this evening we received an unusual call from the wife saying my brother has been giving her the beating of her life since morning . That he has nearly killed her. Immediately she dropped the call, her mum called again that if anything should happen to her daughter that my mum and the whole family would be responsible and in for it. Her younger sister called again, calling my brother unprintable names and giving different kinds of warnings, if anything should happen to her sister.

This destabilsed us in the house. We were confused. Nobody has ever reported my brother in the house before, hence it was strange. We called my brother but he didn't even pick .

To cut the long story short, my brother eventually came home after three days to actually explain what happened.
He said since he got married to the popularly believed gentle,innocent girl, it has been horror for him. He said he has been trying to protect that good quality popularly believed by the family, and that was the reason why he has not reported her newly discovered characters to anyone and was hoping that she would change sooner .

He said for the past two years, that his wife slapped or beat him on the slightest provocation. He showed us old and new wounds all over his body. He said he has been enduring it all these while . He further said he noticed his wife was becoming stronger and happy with her actions because every time she would introduce new styles of beating him.

He said on this faithful day, there was an argument and before he could say one or two words, one, two slaps don land gidigba for his face. She didn't stop there, but went further to use her high heel shoes on him. Not yet done she went further to bite him severally ( the hand bite almost resulted in Whitlow). We saw with our eyes all the injuries inflicted on him . In fact, my younger brother had to ask him if his legs and hands were tied together while all these were going on. He said he was just smiling and trying to hold her together .

After all these, he said he had to talked to himself: for how long would these continue? He said his wife was doing all these just because she knows his position towards beating a lady, and before they got married he had one time or the other condemned men that do beat their wives and even called them animals.

The wife having realised this, was now doing the beating and expecting the husband to keep to his words and be strong in his conviction .

He said on this particular day, when his wife had finished doing her worst, he went to her ( not in anger but intentionally) and told her that what he was about to do is necessary at this point . That he wanted to prove one thing, which is , not that he doesn't have the power to beat but he has vowed not to in his life and seeing the type of woman she is, he has to prove this point today.

He first begged for forgiveness from God and her, and then, immediately, he landed two hot slaps on her face which caught her unawares and her jaw dropped.

Immediately he did this ,she went straight to pick up her phone and started calling her relatives and telling them lies that he has nearly finished her with beating .

In this case , what is your judgement ?

I no fit laugh! This is so funny. Sorry to sound one-sided, but the story has coherence and consistency. But what did she expect? I am SURE the beating has subsided.

So what's he supposed to do? sit nd watch her till it gets to the time she starts planks and bottles on him. ABEG.......

AbuuUsaamah:


The Prophet Muhammad never beat his wives.

not necessarily, but when it gets to certain stage in her behavior you're allowed to spank her a little. It's in the Holy book.

fem29:
Yes he was right to hit her, she sounds psychotic. Why do people resort to violence though I will never understand. He should just divorce her, she will never change. Violent people always have it within them.

okay o

D man fall my hand sef. He suppose tie her hand and leg wen she dey Sleep, turn d yansh kari pankere, explain dt tin wey he talk to her, den better flogging, ( if u act like a child, u get treated like a child) carry her fone call d mama tell am say u dey cun report ursef. After d whole talk and she no change, dnt leave ur House for her o, carry am go d mama house make dem help u teach am how to behave like a mother to be. She go remain there till she learn well.

For heaven sake, kids re closer to their mum than dad, does she want to groom them with violence? Innocent kids go cun learn nonsense. We have enough terrorists in naija, we dnt nid more

Story for the gods.

My lady slaps me once i simply telll her that im sure it was spasm of the hand but must never happen again then she does it again....she will choose one of these..pack out or get the beating of her life.

Arrant nonsense.

peedeeasobie:





I have no adequate reply for you! you are probably a first year student.

. You guessed right oh.........you be IFA priest? I would rather tie her up, bundle her to her mom than give her two cute slapppp........