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Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Aitee1: 2:01pm On May 08, 2015 |
sluk: |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by donhils: 2:14pm On May 08, 2015 |
ademega:I can only guess that this story was designed to make your bro appear not guilty which he actually is. Having vowed not to beat his wife, he has nothing to prove to her. That was a temptation he had to overcome. When Satan tempted Jesus to turn stone to bread or jump from a height, He [Jesus ] didn't do any of them, not because He didn't have the powers or cos He's proved everything. He simply didn't do them cos they were wrong . |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Fulba(m): 2:28pm On May 08, 2015 |
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Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by innervoice(m): 2:36pm On May 08, 2015 |
Anyone who raises his or her hand against another, should expect to get what was given out. However, your brother should have better reacted earlier, before he could take it no more and before giving her the beating of her life. I would have made use of other options available to me but I am not judging him since I have a gentle wife by my side. |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Fulba(m): 2:38pm On May 08, 2015 |
Mishydoo: Mishydoo: You have never been there so you will not understand how horrible it feels to be the man in such situation. The feeling is almost like being oppressed everyday of your life. Any small thing that happens between people in such union, the lady start beating the hell out of the man. I've been there, so I know how it feels and kills the man slowly. In a nutshell, it completely demoralize and put the man in an abused state of being constantly assaulted and oppressed. |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by RaeMystix: 3:21pm On May 08, 2015 |
honeric01: That's a very smart idea. |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Mishydoo(m): 3:41pm On May 08, 2015 |
Fulba: Dude,der sure as hell is nothing to understand.Marriage isnt fr kids! A mature husband shld kw dat when a wife hits u,it isnt "Beating"...its d way she expresses displeasure. some wives wld starve dia husbands sex,some wld burn his clothes,some others wld move out,still others wld refuse to cook or do any house choirs,or Nag u to death....Its left for the husband to find out wat he needs to do to make his wife HAPPY.SHEZ UPSET AND UR JOB SHLD BE TO MK HER HAPPY,...EVEN D BIBLE SAYS U LOVE UR WIFE AS UR OWN BODY. |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Dragonking: 3:56pm On May 08, 2015 |
juman: It is obvious you don't know anything and will learn the hard way..some ladies here on Nairaland have confessed to beating their boyfriend and husband and you are here behaving like a JJC. I hope u won't fall a victim b4 you learn. |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by kennyjodeci(m): 4:32pm On May 08, 2015 |
Hmm.... Na just to arrange a fine girl wey go born pikin for me, pay her and take my kids...I'm a very hot tempered Guy, I'm not sure if I can be able to take all thz in marriage |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Dragonking: 4:36pm On May 08, 2015 |
tabletop: So why are u still leaving with him?? |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by repogirl(f): 4:38pm On May 08, 2015 |
Ahdontbilivit! Which man has been the patience to endure that kind of woman and be 'preserving' her image? Most men would have called family meeting over her issue siiiiiiince and would not suffer in silence. |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by juman(m): 4:41pm On May 08, 2015 |
Dragonking: Funny. |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Dragonking: 4:47pm On May 08, 2015 |
Mishydoo: Are u married? |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Dragonking: 4:49pm On May 08, 2015 |
repogirl: Read this poster case below nd wise up Fulba: |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by repogirl(f): 4:58pm On May 08, 2015 |
Dragonking:that poster should go and pray for deliverance and check whether she has held him down with juju that he feels so helpless cos its cowardly and not manly to be oppressed in such a way! |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Donpiero1: 4:59pm On May 08, 2015 |
timawoku:y nt let d beast in u out? or u wnt to b called good man! |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Dragonking: 5:03pm On May 08, 2015 |
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Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Dragonking: 5:03pm On May 08, 2015 |
repogirl: You can see where the problem lies? If a man doesn't beat his wife but reports the situation, he is seen as a coward/ somebody being used by juju.....if the man beats the wife, you will still tag him as a beast. Na wah for women sha. |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Donpiero1: 5:07pm On May 08, 2015 |
i wil start beating my gf.she realy need it.now i knw. |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Donpiero1: 5:10pm On May 08, 2015 |
av learnt. |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Mishydoo(m): 5:12pm On May 08, 2015 |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by repogirl(f): 5:14pm On May 08, 2015 |
Dragonking:okay, where did the say he should beat her, oya quote where I said that. There can be resolution to things like this without trading blows. My point is that it isn't normal for a man to keep quiet and accept his fate like that without doing nothing. |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Dragonking: 5:19pm On May 08, 2015 |
repogirl: am not saying u said so..that's what most ladies say sha....there are many men being battered in their homes than u can imagine. The only thing is that in Africa, a man will be tagged as weak if he goes to report the case of being abused by his wife to the police or anyone, hence many are dying in silence. BTW what resolution do u think is best? Divorce? It is not as easy as u think about divorce. |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by austinbrown: 5:19pm On May 08, 2015 |
Shyna112:see them, future man beater |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by hamilton62(m): 5:39pm On May 08, 2015 |
akinboyepelumi9:What did you call him? A man! Not everything he sees in his union will he tell his people after all who married her in the family for him if not his sole acceptance and doing. No man will like his family looking bad on his wife until it goes hell way. The man was too gentle... I am against beating a woman but some of them need it because of their stupid nature of taking advantage of a man's quality. No good wife will even hit the husband. For me, I would have given her the benefit of doubt for the first time if the holy spirit was on me because I know it's hard for me, but the. 2nd time I will bamboozle her send her home to stay with the mum so that she'll advice her on how her father would have killed her if she did it to him. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by repogirl(f): 5:40pm On May 08, 2015 |
Dragonking:yeah, divorce is not easy but sometimes its what is needed, for the sake of the kids and the sanity of the oppressed or else one day, he will get so angry that he will do something ghastly. Anyhoo divorce is kinda extreme, first they can discuss the issue with both families, try to sort things out and if it's not working then separation abeg. I really can't imagine living Under the same roof with a spouse like that, calmly waiting for the next thrashing and doing nothing about it. |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Dragonking: 5:51pm On May 08, 2015 |
repogirl: Am glad u understand. I was actually shocked some many weeks back when some ladies here confessed hitting their boyfriends and husbands..The problem is dat some ladies love hitting men, especially the ones that re forming that they cant hit a lady...divorce isn't the best way out sha nd it is best both party look for a way out, if not, maybe then they can get divorced. |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by hamilton62(m): 5:54pm On May 08, 2015 |
madgoat:No! He won't like to dent the beautiful wife he has... |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by ewosk: 6:12pm On May 08, 2015 |
poo happens in dis lyf ... Just praying none of these daughters of Jezebel come near my abode or dat of my siblings my Neighbor @ om na area mama, her husband(or wife) humility and tolerance is legendary... I never pray for any1 to marry a violent woman...Hell on earth |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Prettydiamond(f): 6:51pm On May 08, 2015 |
Its not his fault. That is the character of a perfect gentleman. |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by AyeeIdris(f): 7:44pm On May 08, 2015 |
ademega:Well op, i know he is your family and u are likely to believe him over her. But in your start up , you said she was a good person too but then became a tiger. Keep an open mind dat your brother may have a different persona in the house. Many cases of domestic violence....people never believe ....ha that gentle man...that friendly man..... This cannot be over 2 slaps. The wife used d words ' has been beating her" not " he beat her" If this is true though, no one has monopoly of violence. If a woman slaps a man, he should slap her back on the spot |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by taryour(f): 7:55pm On May 08, 2015 |
honeric01: GBAM!!! @op sorry to say but your cousin dense small o. He endured beating for 2 years from his wife. He for wait till she feed him with rat poison na. |
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