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It's Not Lust. It's Not Infatuation. It's Love, But In An Awkward Way. by Nobody: 6:49am On May 09, 2015
It was never a debate whether she was beautiful or not. Her creamy, chocolate and eye-catching beauty that afternoon stiffened my nearves in her presence. She had a face and figure that would make a priest risk scandal. She was a cast in the mould of a goddess. When she smiles, a pair of dimples on her cheeks enlarges her face into an excellent specimen of feminine beauty. Moyo-Obong! she's beautiful.

I ran into her, in the midst of her female friends that fateful afternoon. Moyo-Obong caught my attention. I tried to approach her through one of her female friend, but I was told she's has been taken by a friend. Awwwwsh! Imagine when a girl catches your attention, truly, you, won't give ears to this. she is been taken by my guy. Sighs! She's one of my guys numerous girlfriend. Okay! Let me be sincere, he's my very good guy. We are of same native, but we stays here in Uyo, AkwaIbom State. A times, he do sleeps in my house, and currently, I would say, whenever I'm bored in my place I would just come over to his house. But, where have I been all this while that he sees this damsel? This question runs through me. Okay, that was when I left to PortHarcourt for brief. But he's my friend. Yes, he keep girls everywhere. I'm not a betrayer, but you can call me a betrayer if you wish to. just be guided that it might happen to someone you know one day, a sister, a brother, a friend, and/or even you...

NOW THE JOURNEY BEGIN..

The truth is that, this my friend doesn't love this girl. He keeps her for fun, he only won in luring the girl to love her. I'm proudly saying that the love is not and can never be there because I know this friend. But, is the girl comfortable with him? No! She's not comfortable with him, my friend doesn't take her serious. Her birthday, he wasn't there, no calls or sms not even a gift nor a set of perfume. On her birthday, she's the one that even called the guy. Imagine! She's in love, yet, she's not comfortable. Moyo-Obong would call him, he won't answer and he might decided to answer her call at the later end, etc etc.... Is that what you call love or just intimidation? Or would I say, some guys are an expert with sweet tongue? Okay! I'm not been rude or hard or too exposition on my guy, I'm just trying to state categorically what lead me to her.
On a very good day, I got her number. We started conversation, could you imagine that the first thing she did was to lay complaints to me? She was too beautiful to be taken for granted. She's well groomed at home. She talks very maturely, but a player is always a player for he only have you to satisfy his urges. Yes, some guys would come against me her. Some are going to nail me but what if she's your sister? Maybe I'm all wrong for trying to intermediate in the matter. Maybe it's all my fault for ever trying to come close to her, but remember, though, I have feelings for her I have this personal self control. I'm only trying to help them both to have a happy relationship. My friend doesn't love him, he's a non-romantic person. He's bored to be with but he's blessed with sweet words that if you are not careful you will..
After series of intermediation, I sees this as an ample opportunity to grab this girl. Oh! She finally agree to hang out with me. We've seen many times even, we've had funs. We are not bored. We acts like a brother and sister. I took her like my only sister. I took her the way I took my junior sister who recently got married. Moyo-Obong as I fondly called her deserved to be happy, and to stop complaining. She deserves a better relationship, and she deserved someone who would at least allocate some time for her. Hey guys! I'm not been an opportunist nor a betrayal here. I was attracted to her from the very first day I saw her.. I'm not a good guy, I have my weakness, I have my flaws, I'm never going to be perfect, I'm only working harder to build myself. I'm not a beggar of love and I'm never a self low esteem dude. No! I hate been in a relationship that was why for good three (3) years I have been off relationship. And now, I have fallen for Moyo-Obong. Remember, we've been friend all this while, but it was only yesterday that I summoned the courage to proclaim my love for her. I told her I love her, she closed her eyes and smile with deep kiss as a respond. Now, I know I will give her time to sort things out. I'm not desperate, I have told her so, I equally told her I'm not ready for secret meetings neither am i ready for a hide and seek. It's either she axe either of us because, I can't take it knowing someone is there.
The question now is.. Am we doing the right thing? I need your advise. I will go with the highest proportion of advise I promise... But, I love and have this feelings for her. I have introduced her to my friends who equally talked to her. Now, I'm straight and ready to face this!
Re: It's Not Lust. It's Not Infatuation. It's Love, But In An Awkward Way. by beycity(m): 6:52am On May 09, 2015
What the title of this Novel plsss..... I will like to read the full story. Thanks.
Re: It's Not Lust. It's Not Infatuation. It's Love, But In An Awkward Way. by Godfullsam(m): 7:19am On May 09, 2015
Guy your grammer poor small o undecided, you didn't even go through your write up and make some few corrects before posting angry.. na wa for u oh shocked

I can swear with my phone that no one can give you the best advice on this issue. Only you can advise yourself.

Try and introduce the girl to that your friend that has been dating her before you met her, watch his reactions and advise yourself.

You can thank me later cool.

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Re: It's Not Lust. It's Not Infatuation. It's Love, But In An Awkward Way. by stan241(m): 7:25am On May 09, 2015
I really did finish reading that *whew* @op its all up to you to decide, personally I'd say scram cus of too much baggage and drama from her side but who the shoe fits right?

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Re: It's Not Lust. It's Not Infatuation. It's Love, But In An Awkward Way. by Nobody: 7:32am On May 09, 2015
Not novel, please help.
Re: It's Not Lust. It's Not Infatuation. It's Love, But In An Awkward Way. by Nobody: 7:36am On May 09, 2015
Godfullsam:

Guy your grammer poor small o undecided, you didn't even go through your write up and make some few corrects before posting angry.. na wa for u oh shocked

I can swear with my phone that no one can give you the best advice on this issue. Only you can advise yourself.

Try and introduce the girl to that your friend that has been dating her before you met her, watch his reactions and advise yourself.

You can thank me later cool.




Thank you!
Re: It's Not Lust. It's Not Infatuation. It's Love, But In An Awkward Way. by Nobody: 7:50am On May 09, 2015
Godfullsam:

Guy your grammer poor small o undecided, you didn't even go through your write up and make some few corrects before posting angry.. na wa for u oh shocked

I can swear with my phone that no one can give you the best advice on this issue. Only you can advise yourself.

Try and introduce the girl to that your friend that has been dating her before you met her, watch his reactions and advise yourself.

You can thank me later cool.

Thank you! On the grammer -ish also!

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