At the risk of coming across as obnoxious, I will like to appeal to a group of people known as toasters, males and females inclusive.
Let's get this ball rolling.....
You've met someone you're attracted to, exchanged contacts and now you're following up on your pursuit of happiness. Nothing bad here, it's a process that have yielded beautiful unions. However, the wooing could take a wrong turn when either knowingly or unknowingly insensitivity creeps in, mostly in the form of placing calls.

Please moderate the number of times you call. Calling 12 times a day with some SMS in between does not in any way come across as being cool!One is in the office with unrealistic deadlines staring at you with big pleading eyes and someone is ringing you inconsistently! What is it you have to say that can't wait till after office hours There's instant messaging if you really need to make contact.

Now one is home after a long day and willing to talk. Then the call refused to end, 20 minutes and counting. Meanwhile the essence of the conversation ended 10 minutes ago. It does not help that the current brands of smartphones heat up with slight provocation. So here you are with tired eyes, weary bones beckoning for sleep and a ear acting as a heat conductor to your hot phone listening to an unending chatter. You are not being refreshing Mr/Ms toaster, you are adding to the stress of the day.

The one that ticks me off most, that makes steam pour out of the pores of my skin is calling very early in the morning during weekends and public holiday!
Let me be blunt here, that sh.it ain't dope!. If it's not an emergency, don't do that! Emergency only entails someone dying or someone has died. Why do you want to talk about around 5am on a Saturday morning? Wtf! It's an aberration, violation of my right as a person who deserves at least 8 hours of sleep on a weekend
Please there's nothing romantic about doing this, it's not a grand gesture, it's not loving. It's core insensitivity.

The caveat however is that some ladies may like all of the gestures above, please it's your job to identify such and act accordingly.
As for me, it crosses the line of being loving to being a disturbance. Give a girl some space to have time for other things (her family, friends, hobbies, sleep ) and also to miss you. Thank you!

*end of rant*

Now that you are getting attention from every guy, you wish to get it on a parade ground abi ?


Edited: Time will Tell

So are we the one disturbing you? I bet you ain't got the guts to even tell the real person(s) disturbing you.

*Sunday morning rant*
You actually have a point to be honest, some people just don't know when they are bugging someone. Their was this friend of a friend that tot it was ok to call me at all times ( even at 1am ) to complain me how my buddy was not being nice to her , I couldn't take it anymore so i told her politely to stop calling me, and especially at nite. Long story short : we are sworn enemy's now

Watch NL boys abuse you till thine kingdom come......
Make I spread mat look how this will end.





When a woman rants its an abommination but when a man rants, its a welcone development

hen hen! tell me more

..

who is this one

Good to know!
Hope guys will start acting differently.

Seriously guys dah jst do ds nids to take a chill... Most r sufferin frm low-self esteem tho.. Y wil smone nt pick Up n u stl kip callin... Once u call smone and they didnt pick up.. Stp callin.. They wil probably get bck 2u if U r important to dem... Evn if its an emergency n U kip callin.. If they wont still pick Up.. They wont.. And it applies to girls.. I once had a gf dah do gimme minimum of 50missd calls.. Buh dah doesnt guaranty dey wont stl cheat on U.. Mayb u r jst under d main man tag...

So why ar you telling us ? Go tell thoes guy calling u when dey don't even know someone like u don't worth an Sms in 3months nt to talk of call.

delishpot:
Watch NL boys abuse you till thine kingdom come......
Make I spread mat look how this will end.





When a woman rants its an abommination but when a man rants, its a welcone development

Well, I expect a lot to get all sentimental and not approach the post in a rational manner. They are welcome to join in the 'rant'

@ op, u av siad d truth but hope u ar not running 4 miss nairalander cos all d likes wen u don get b4 dem go turn to unlike o, d boys n some men of nairaland will definitely not like dis.


A girl once called abt 39times wen I was in a meeting on a monday morning at about 9am, @ d 40th time I picked n she said she wanted to hear me breath or my heart beat. I swear I almost smashed my fone.

Some peeps are too guilty of this. Early Saturday morning call has to be a sin.

The op might be right, but believe me, it all depends on the guy or girl in question. When a guy or girl u don't like calls to talk love, it's always annoying not minding the timing.

Henrypraise:
@ op, u av siad d truth but hope u ar not running 4 miss nairalander cos all d likes wen u don get b4 dem go turn to unlike o, d boys n some men of nairaland will definitely not like dis.


A girl once called abt 39times wen I was in a meeting on a monday morning at about 9am, @ d 40th time I picked n she said she wanted to hear me breath or my heart beat. I swear I almost smashed my fone.

Damn it! Lmao
Now that just jump right from annoying to amusing

I'm not contesting for nada....it's for the pretty ones

Another reason why we have many single ladies roaming the streets
When dem old and no get husband, dem go begin blame their ancestors


Na so this uncle take die single

rok1:
Some peeps are too guilty of this. Early Saturday morning call has to be a sin.

Spread the word

write2obi:
*Sunday morning rant*
You actually have a point to be honest, some people just don't know when they are bugging someone. Their was this friend of a friend that tot it was ok to call me at all times ( even at 1am ) to complain me how my buddy was not being nice to her , I couldn't take it anymore so i told her politely to stop calling me, and especially at nite. Long story short : we are sworn enemy's now

Honesty sometimes isn't the best policy I guess. I did the same and the culprit got all defensive on me

brushstrokes:
At the risk of coming across as obnoxious, I will like to appeal to a group of people known as toasters, males and females inclusive.
Let's get this ball rolling.....
You've met someone you're attracted to, exchanged contacts and now you're following up on your pursuit of happiness. Nothing bad here, it's a process that have yielded beautiful unions. However, the wooing could take a wrong turn when either knowingly or unknowingly insensitivity creeps in, mostly in the form of placing calls.

Please moderate the number of times you call. Calling 12 times a day with some SMS in between does not in any way come across as being cool!One is in the office with unrealistic deadlines staring at you with big pleading eyes and someone is ringing you inconsistently! What is it you have to say that can't wait till after office hours There's instant messaging if you really need to make contact.

Now one is home after a long day and willing to talk. Then the call refused to end, 20 minutes and counting. Meanwhile the essence of the conversation ended 10 minutes ago. It does not help that the current brands of smartphones heat up with slight provocation. So here you are with tired eyes, weary bones beckoning for sleep and a ear acting as a heat conductor to your hot phone listening to an unending chatter. You are not being refreshing Mr/Ms toaster, you are adding to the stress of the day.

The one that ticks me off most, that makes steam pour out of the pores of my skin is calling very early in the morning during weekends and public holiday!
Let me be blunt here, that sh.it ain't dope!. If it's not an emergency, don't do that! Emergency only entails someone dying or someone has died. Why do you want to talk about around 5am on a Saturday morning? Wtf! It's an aberration, violation of my right as a person who deserves at least 8 hours of sleep on a weekend
Please there's nothing romantic about doing this, it's not a grand gesture, it's not loving. It's core insensitivity.

The caveat however is that some ladies may like all of the gestures above, please it's your job to identify such and act accordingly.
As for me, it crosses the line of being loving to being a disturbance. Give a girl some space to have time for other things (her family, friends, hobbies, sleep ) and also to miss you. Thank you!

*end of rant*

u r frustrated. Na wetin ur toasters dey do u be dat. Smboiz no get sense.
Wetin he go do we go please u? He call, u say "he too call" E nor call, u say "he nor call." Wetin sef? Moderate calling in another person's view might mean excessive calling.

So dn't rant here, go and tell d above to ur toasters or ur darlings.

brushstrokes:


Damn it! Lmao
Now that just jump right from annoying to amusing

I'm not contesting for nada....it's for the pretty ones

@ bolded: "a tin is a tin not wat is said of dat tin"

brushstrokes:


Now one is home after a long day and willing to talk. Then the call refused to end, 20 minutes and counting. Meanwhile the essence of the conversation ended 10 minutes ago.[b] It does not help that the current brands of smartphones heat up with slight provocation. [/b]So here you are with tired eyes, weary bones beckoning for sleep and a ear acting as a heat conductor to your hot phone listening to an unending chatter. You are not being refreshing Mr/Ms toaster, you are adding to the stress of the day.

Man inhumanity to the ears

jacksparrow1207:
Another reason why we have many single ladies roaming the streets
When dem old and no get husband, dem go begin blame their ancestors


Na so this uncle take die single

Y d uncle no go find babe wey get yansh?

.

seankay:

Y d uncle no go find babe wey get yansh?

Lol. It's not all about yarnsh sir. U can't have it all

Henrypraise:


@ bolded: "a tin is a tin not wat is said of dat tin"

A thing is a thing!

jacksparrow1207:


Lol. It's not all about yarnsh sir. U can't have it all

I got the drill, I was just playing around

seankay:

I got the drill, I was just playing around

I know right

brushstrokes:
At the risk of coming across as obnoxious, I will like to appeal to a group of people known as toasters, males and females inclusive.
Let's get this ball rolling.....
You've met someone you're attracted to, exchanged contacts and now you're following up on your pursuit of happiness. Nothing bad here, it's a process that have yielded beautiful unions. However, the wooing could take a wrong turn when either knowingly or unknowingly insensitivity creeps in, mostly in the form of placing calls.

Please moderate the number of times you call. Calling 12 times a day with some SMS in between does not in any way come across as being cool!One is in the office with unrealistic deadlines staring at you with big pleading eyes and someone is ringing you inconsistently! What is it you have to say that can't wait till after office hours There's instant messaging if you really need to make contact.

Now one is home after a long day and willing to talk. Then the call refused to end, 20 minutes and counting. Meanwhile the essence of the conversation ended 10 minutes ago. It does not help that the current brands of smartphones heat up with slight provocation. So here you are with tired eyes, weary bones beckoning for sleep and a ear acting as a heat conductor to your hot phone listening to an unending chatter. You are not being refreshing Mr/Ms toaster, you are adding to the stress of the day.

The one that ticks me off most, that makes steam pour out of the pores of my skin is calling very early in the morning during weekends and public holiday!
Let me be blunt here, that sh.it ain't dope!. If it's not an emergency, don't do that! Emergency only entails someone dying or someone has died. Why do you want to talk about around 5am on a Saturday morning? Wtf! It's an aberration, violation of my right as a person who deserves at least 8 hours of sleep on a weekend
Please there's nothing romantic about doing this, it's not a grand gesture, it's not loving. It's core insensitivity.

The caveat however is that some ladies may like all of the gestures above, please it's your job to identify such and act accordingly.
As for me, it crosses the line of being loving to being a disturbance. Give a girl some space to have time for other things (her family, friends, hobbies, sleep ) and also to miss you. Thank you!

*end of rant*

We don't care and don't wanna know who calls you or don't,please channel ur anger to the people distubing ur life not bringing up here disturbing our peace tot u had better ting to say not knowing I had to come and read this rubbish abeg going forward don't come and put this up again pls take note.