Summer1:

U have ur kind of virtues u look out for in women..I have mine and as sure as hell, a poor command of English is not a virtue..u know that too even if u don't want to accept it, its a huge turn off

Kingsley1000:
quite pathetic,this is why our local dialect is dwindling day by day because this contemporary age don't care in developing and sustaining it,,,so a stranger wooing you with your dialect is a turn off?what if he feign not knowing how to speak good english?...you must be an igbo girl,it's prevalent here

language is all abt understanding

Blackett:
Grammar, not grammars.

Coming from someone who cannot date a lady who is structurally and constructively deficient in writing.

"Grammars" indeed.

Summer1:

Its very obvious you find it difficult to understand..yea I'm an Igbo girl and I'm verrrrry proud of my language..but we all know that our official language here in Nigeria is English language,before u start toasting a girl and you don't knw where she comes from,don't u use English? Its that first impression that I'm talking abt here. personally I need to know that u re good with English before speaking my native language with u

ronald4lif:


You're becoming more impressive atleast. You've been gradually spelling words in full rather than the shorthand writing. You know, to most men who are fluent with the Anglo Lingua shorthand form of writing is a turn off. It shows unseriousness. Just saying.

Summer1:

So, what are you feeling like?

VictoriaBee:
Lol, OP, you are hilarious.
Yeah, you're right. Guys with great command of English grammar is a huge turn on, but a touch of british accent does it for me.

Summer1:

Relax and stop showing off, OK...you might be good with spelling in full, I don't do that especially when I've got a lot to type..I just hope you are good with spoken English as well

Another impressive one.

Showing off? That's a new one. Humour me more.

Like I said typing in shorthand sketches a person as unserious, especially to someone who's attracted to one who has a good command of English Language. And you know it.

tohpahz:
I don't think i can..

Good mastery of English is a turn on.. how will i cope with the bad grammar??

Summer1:

Its very obvious you find it difficult to understand..yea I'm an Igbo girl and I'm verrrrry proud of my language..but we all know that our official language here in Nigeria is English language,before u start toasting a girl and you don't knw where she comes from,don't u use English? Its that first impression that I'm talking abt here. personally I need to know that u re good with English before speaking my native language with u

tosyne2much:
I thought you have given a long time ago up trying to seek my attention

Go check your dictionary.. Fool !!!

Kindly point to where I said I cannot date a lady who is structurally and constructively deficient

This is not a lame to get my attention you inconsequential goat

Quote me and I won't reply you

tosyne2much:
Personally, good use of grammars and spellings turns me on

Though protocols can be bypassed when it comes a loving someone so It's very difficult to rush into judgement saying I can't date a lady who is structurally and constructively poor when it comes to speaking or writing..

*Lemme hear from Ronald4lif *

ronald4lif:


Another impressive one.

Showing off? That's a new one. Humour me more.

Like I said typing in shorthand sketches a person as unserious, especially to someone who's attracted to one who has a good command of English Language. And you know it.

Summer1:

Its very obvious you find it difficult to understand..yea I'm an Igbo girl and I'm verrrrry proud of my language..but we all know that our official language here in Nigeria is English language,before u start toasting a girl and you don't knw where she comes from,don't u use English? Its that first impression that I'm talking abt here. personally I need to know that u re good with English before speaking my native language with u

Lamispaco:
All this grammarian on here,the only way am going to agree with you is if your spoken english is paying your bills otherwise,If it's not making money,is not making sense.

Lamispaco:
the mention on your diary though...cool.
Waking you up at 6am to play Ludo is crazy anyway.

Kingsley1000:
...Alright buh for the fact that english folks colonizes us doesn't mean we'll be promoting theirs to the detriment of ours.i know it'll interest you to know that if you goto countries like singapore,hongkong even india that're also colonized by britain they don't even imbibe the language in their national affairs(as their lingua franca) and they'r more enlightened and developed than us

so in a nutshell,one not knowing how to speak english doesn't make him an illitrate

Summer1:

Its obvious you're feeling so fly because I keep Quoting you..this is gonna be the last..say whatever you want from now on

VictoriaBee:

Lol, stale and utter balderdash.

It actually pays the bill of people in the media house.

What are you insinuating again?

IamOdin:



He's trying to say you should work on your punctuation.And who told you you can't be intimidated??
Well,i would have cut your wandering ego short if i hadn't perceived you're floundering for attention.But remember,that you are opportuned to attend a nice college doesn't mean you should talk short of others that wasn't.All fingers aint equal.Be careful!

jaybee3:
"Neat English", what da heck is that?

You should be more concerned about effective communication rather than spoken language

Na real wa

Lala247:
Lol LOL u you guys turned this place to english lesson.


Op i think OP, I think u you can pick one they meet your criteria

Summer1:

I'm concerned with both effective communication and how well the communication was is made

Blackett:
Can't, not cant.

It has an apostrophe. (')