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Re: Should He Marry The Lady He Loves Or The One That Loves Him? by Monicasque(f): 6:22pm On May 14, 2015 |
Marry the one u love, coz u dnt wana hate de person u wake up next to for the rest of your life. Your aim is to set your heart free. If she dont love u, its her problem. She is the one who wud have gotten herself in a jail situation |
Re: Should He Marry The Lady He Loves Or The One That Loves Him? by Monicasque(f): 6:23pm On May 14, 2015 |
Marry the one u love, coz u dnt wana hate de person u wake up next to for the rest of your life. Your aim is to set your heart free. If she dont love u, its her problem. She is the one who wud have gotten herself in a jail situation. B selfish if u dnt wana hate yo life forever, or rather wait for the one who wil love u as much as u love her |
Re: Should He Marry The Lady He Loves Or The One That Loves Him? by Hila12(m): 6:23pm On May 14, 2015 |
The greater love lies in that which we give, not the one we receive. When you truly love a woman you make unending sacrifices for her. But when she only loves you, you become nice to her out of pity. So you see, it wouldn't be fair keeping a woman and not loving her, it will be selfish on your part. One day she will be fed up and may even poison you, and kill herself. |
Re: Should He Marry The Lady He Loves Or The One That Loves Him? by Venom104: 6:29pm On May 14, 2015 |
Why dont you love the one that loves you? |
Re: Should He Marry The Lady He Loves Or The One That Loves Him? by Anoneism(m): 6:58pm On May 14, 2015 |
Monicasque:another perspective to the topic again. Nice one! Thanks for this . |
Re: Should He Marry The Lady He Loves Or The One That Loves Him? by Anoneism(m): 7:02pm On May 14, 2015 |
Venom104:It's something that has to do with choice and personality. |
Re: Should He Marry The Lady He Loves Or The One That Loves Him? by ihedinobi2: 9:46pm On May 14, 2015 |
@Anoneism, men were built to seek out the women they want. It's truer to masculine nature that a man settle down with a woman he has chosen than with the one that chose him. Men typically are conquerors, fighters. We are not "yielders". Women, on the other hand, are built with an imperative to submit or make do. A woman's love typically begins when she accepts a man's love for her. It's like kissing. The first time you kiss a girl unexpectedly she may not pull away but she may take a little while to start kissing you back. That's how it is for women. Their love is typically a response to yours. To your particular dilemma, I'd say neither. Leave the one playing with you because you are a man and marriage and life are serious business. Leave the one you don't love because you will very likely hurt her in the future. The least you must have is that the woman you want is willing to even give you a chance to draw out her love for you. That's my opinion anyway. I wish you well, bro. 1 Like |
Re: Should He Marry The Lady He Loves Or The One That Loves Him? by Nobody: 10:19pm On May 14, 2015 |
This is my biggest problem and it's killing me. I've always wanted a girl that I love and not a girl that loves me. Sometimes you don't get the love in return But I believe that's the only I could be honest to a girl. When I say I love you, then I mean it. It will also help me not to cheat. |
Re: Should He Marry The Lady He Loves Or The One That Loves Him? by Anoneism(m): 10:58pm On May 14, 2015 |
ihedinobi2:thanks bro. I will keep ur words to heart. |
Re: Should He Marry The Lady He Loves Or The One That Loves Him? by Anoneism(m): 11:00pm On May 14, 2015 |
kelvin100:hmmmmmm i have been battling with this stuff for a while now. I just hope i resolve this on time. |
Re: Should He Marry The Lady He Loves Or The One That Loves Him? by Anoneism(m): 7:24am On May 15, 2015 |
Please Romancelanders keep your advice coming. |
Re: Should He Marry The Lady He Loves Or The One That Loves Him? by Mixty: 9:16am On May 15, 2015 |
Anoneism:tough one |
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