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Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by pinkhill(f): 2:43pm On May 14, 2015 |
no he didn't make other kids i would v shared my personal story but i cant...when i see things like this i use my mom's story to give others hope...she experienced a lot but stood strong in it... if i were in her shoes with my upbringing....the man is dead and gone re marrying is not in my option it is not easy but God will make a way cococandy: 1 Like |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by pinkhill(f): 2:44pm On May 14, 2015 |
well said babyosisi: 3 Likes |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by pinkhill(f): 2:45pm On May 14, 2015 |
cococandy i am not encouraging the man o trust me babyosisi: |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by Nobody: 2:58pm On May 14, 2015 |
Adaezeagu:Very very true. it is when a man is rich that you will know his true character and also know if the love he was professing before is real or not. 2 Likes |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by Onegai(f): 2:59pm On May 14, 2015 |
He's not having intimacy with you bah? Good! Tell her to look on the bright side: he has 4 wives and is in Politics. Chances of him having a heart attack soon are very high based on those parameters and if she is the first, legal wife, congratulobia If I were her, i would start strategising with some key members of his family as per how things will shele. What is the point of divorcing a nigguh who is already letting you act the part of a single mother?? I mean, if you do serve him papers, you will get his attention back for a while but it may backfire and your kids won't get anything when its over. JEJELY face your front, get child support from him and wait for him to have that first heart attack. If this was in the early years, I'd tell her to leave. But after 17 years, lady you deserve a payout. Shey you know it is this kind of man that will drop dead one day in a hotel, at a party or at the bank no carry any man on top head o!! 1 Like |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by nickxtra(m): 3:23pm On May 14, 2015 |
Kimoni:Sorry for that. Thanks for the positive comments. I have even sent this post link to the woman, for her to read thru and look at the advice. 1 Like |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by cococandy(f): 3:33pm On May 14, 2015 |
Four extra wives and he didn't make other kids? Anyway I don talk my own for the matter. Have a nice day pinkhill: |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by Ngokafor(f): 3:43pm On May 14, 2015 |
cococandy: ....at the risk of digressing,abeg who started this red pant and bra thing? ..I have been reading it around and i keep wondering how?.. ..Imagine my husband cheating and i am thinking of 'red pants and bra' with perhaps a plastic smile or a frown on my face forming sexy or what? ..ridiculous! 1 Like |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by pinkhill(f): 3:43pm On May 14, 2015 |
no i was referring to that of my neighbor.....for that of the op he is a loosed dog,that position and money he is putting his hope upon will forsake him the most annoying thing there, if anything happens to that nitwit the family will run to the first wife the thunder that will strike them is waiting patiently to strike ... cococandy: 1 Like |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by cococandy(f): 3:53pm On May 14, 2015 |
I don't know o ask chillisauce and edwife. It's one of them. I suspect chillisauce. Ngokafor: |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by keenn: 3:55pm On May 14, 2015 |
This is a pathetic one, a tale that discourages young ladies to struggle with men of their youth in early matrimony. Nevertheless, we all know what's good. Adultery, neglect, loss of affection are good grounds for divorce. Its better she stays off from this fellow than risk the chance of having STDs. You and other friends can rally round her to get an affordable lawyer and SUE for child support. Life is short for anyone to manage anybody, what u are telling her ('God will intervene') is also what the friends of other wives are also telling. 1 Like |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by bukatyne(f): 4:02pm On May 14, 2015 |
cococandy: I started it and byvan picked it up CC: Ngokafor 1 Like |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by cococandy(f): 4:04pm On May 14, 2015 |
bukatyne:oh see the culprit |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by Nobody: 4:05pm On May 14, 2015 |
cococandy: Not me o. Is the resident nairaland wandering pen1ses. Ileobatojo then sealed it Off. 1 Like |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by bukatyne(f): 4:07pm On May 14, 2015 |
cococandy: Lols Then, a lot of dress sexy, cook sweet food, improve bedmatics was a common line when men cheated on their wives. Just wanted to give it a uniform... Black bra and red pant 1 Like |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by edwife(f): 4:14pm On May 14, 2015 |
cococandy: Lol,see cococandy accusing me.... I am innocent Byvan is most likely the culprit.... 1 Like |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by tpiadotcom: 4:18pm On May 14, 2015 |
nickxtra: there is nothing there to appeal to anyone. there is no woman who will start throwing a scene because the husband brought in a fifth wife. if she did not decide what she wanted to do when he brought in wives # 1, 2, 3and 4, then its not when #5 passes by that she will make that kind of fuss. Did "your friend" also throw scenes every time the other four wives were brought in? Does she intend to keep throwing scenes while the husband keeps bringing in wives # 6,7,8,9,10, etc? who does that? if the man keeps wandering everywhere and hauling in wives en masse, are you saying the wife must keep demonstrating in this manner instead of facing her life and taking care of her children? and yes, why was it my own post that disturbed you? 1 Like |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by Nobody: 5:10pm On May 14, 2015 |
cococandy: Pinkhill's story is a different story altogether 1 Like |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by Nobody: 5:15pm On May 14, 2015 |
keenn: I have written my story here from time to time Azubuike was hopping on molue when I met and married him He was just starting life He didn't have much but a marketable degree and a fiery zeal to succeed God has taken him way beyond that today and we have stayed married and still in love and that story is not unique Not perfect ,no marriage is perfect but I can confidently say that I am happy to be his wife and submit to him because he loves and respects me. I will advise ladies to not sit back and be wives and mothers As he progresses in his career,you need to find a way to also get into your own career at some point and bring something to the union too There is some respect you earn by pulling your own weight This doesn't guarantee that the man won't mess up but it makes you financially ready and able to stand if he is no longer interested in the marriage.you won't be at his mercies. 2 Likes |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by nickxtra(m): 5:40pm On May 14, 2015 |
keenn:thanks, I think we will suggest that to her |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by Ngokafor(f): 5:55pm On May 14, 2015 |
....@coco,chilli,buky,edwife you are all so funny..see claims and counter-claims ...no be small thing..i don laugh tire 1 Like |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by cococandy(f): 5:58pm On May 14, 2015 |
edwife:i miss byvan. Somebody tell her it's time to come back |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by edwife(f): 6:17pm On May 14, 2015 |
cococandy: I miss her too,more than i imagined i would.She is a very strong young woman-i think her new job and the kids are taking her time. I hope she will be back. 1 Like |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by thorpido(m): 6:43pm On May 14, 2015 |
bukatyne:Do men like the red pant and bra?I don't feel it though. Pink makes more sense. |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by bukatyne(f): 6:51pm On May 14, 2015 |
thorpido: I don't know o! You are the man naw It was just a reaction to cook, wear bum shorts, sex him better advices given when a husband is cheating. So you like pink? Madame must hear this |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by bukatyne(f): 6:53pm On May 14, 2015 |
Ngokafor: |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by thorpido(m): 6:57pm On May 14, 2015 |
keenn:@bolded,what do women always mean by struggle with a man?Doesn't the man also struggle with the wife?Was the man not born and exposed to the same life as the woman?If the man does not have much,is the woman any better? There is nothing wrong with starting with little.The key is to choose a stable man,good character and morally upright.As a woman too,you don't sit back like a cheerleader(cheerleaders even do some work).You have to develop yourself and improve career-wise,even if all you do is business from home.Be able to hold your own. |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by thorpido(m): 7:01pm On May 14, 2015 |
bukatyne:lol,she knows already. |
Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by bukatyne(f): 7:10pm On May 14, 2015 |
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