Marry the one u love, coz u dnt wana hate de person u wake up next to for the rest of your life. Your aim is to set your heart free. If she dont love u, its her problem. She is the one who wud have gotten herself in a jail situation

Marry the one u love, coz u dnt wana hate de person u wake up next to for the rest of your life. Your aim is to set your heart free. If she dont love u, its her problem. She is the one who wud have gotten herself in a jail situation. B selfish if u dnt wana hate yo life forever, or rather wait for the one who wil love u as much as u love her

The greater love lies in that which we give, not the one we receive.

When you truly love a woman you make unending sacrifices for her. But when she only loves you, you become nice to her out of pity.

So you see, it wouldn't be fair keeping a woman and not loving her, it will be selfish on your part. One day she will be fed up and may even poison you, and kill herself.

Why dont you love the one that loves you?

Monicasque:
Marry the one u love, coz u dnt wana hate de person u wake up next to for the rest of your life. Your aim is to set your heart free. If she dont love u, its her problem. She is the one who wud have gotten herself in a jail situation. B selfish if u dnt wana hate yo life forever, or rather wait for the one who wil love u as much as u love her

another perspective to the topic again. Nice one! Thanks for this .

Venom104:
Why dont you love the one that loves you?

It's something that has to do with choice and personality.

@Anoneism, men were built to seek out the women they want. It's truer to masculine nature that a man settle down with a woman he has chosen than with the one that chose him. Men typically are conquerors, fighters. We are not "yielders".

Women, on the other hand, are built with an imperative to submit or make do. A woman's love typically begins when she accepts a man's love for her. It's like kissing. The first time you kiss a girl unexpectedly she may not pull away but she may take a little while to start kissing you back. That's how it is for women. Their love is typically a response to yours.

To your particular dilemma, I'd say neither. Leave the one playing with you because you are a man and marriage and life are serious business. Leave the one you don't love because you will very likely hurt her in the future. The least you must have is that the woman you want is willing to even give you a chance to draw out her love for you.

That's my opinion anyway. I wish you well, bro.

This is my biggest problem and it's killing me.
I've always wanted a girl that I love and not a girl that loves me.
Sometimes you don't get the love in return

But I believe that's the only I could be honest to a girl.
When I say I love you, then I mean it. It will also help me not to cheat.

ihedinobi2:
@Anoneism, men were built to seek out the women they want. It's truer to masculine nature that a man settle down with a woman he has chosen than with the one that chose him. Men typically are conquerors, fighters. We are not "yielders".

Women, on the other hand, are built with an imperative to submit or make do. A woman's love typically begins when she accepts a man's love for her. It's like kissing. The first time you kiss a girl unexpectedly she may not pull away but she may take a little while to start kissing you back. That's how it is for women. Their love is typically a response to yours.

To your particular dilemma, I'd say neither. Leave the one playing with you because you are a man and marriage and life are serious business. Leave the one you don't love because you will very likely hurt her in the future. The least you must have is that the woman you want is willing to even give you a chance to draw out her love for you.

That's my opinion anyway. I wish you well, bro.

thanks bro. I will keep ur words to heart.

kelvin100:
This is my biggest problem and it's killing me.
I've always wanted a girl that I love and not a girl that loves me.
Sometimes you don't get the love in return

But I believe that's the only I could be honest to a girl.
When I say I love you, then I mean it. It will also help me not to cheat.

hmmmmmm i have been battling with this stuff for a while now. I just hope i resolve this on time.

Please Romancelanders keep your advice coming.

Anoneism:
Please Romancelanders keep your advice coming.

tough one