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Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Pavore9: 6:59am On May 15, 2015 |
ideykwum: Marriage entails sacrifice but not loosing your identity as a human being. Being a virtuous woman does not also entail meekly being the recipient of prolonged domestic physical abuse while your children watched and one is stuck because of what the society would say. And this was a man who played gentleman with women outside. lf her elder brother when he was just only 17 could be bold enough to hit at their father in one of his beating sessions of their mother, we can ignore their father's misdeed and easily judge the boy for committing an abomination even adding bible quotations to it! There are things couples should not do to one another as both are responsible for nurturing a healthy marriage and a happy home. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by OrlandoOwoh(m): 7:00am On May 15, 2015 |
brownlord: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Adaeze003(f): 7:01am On May 15, 2015 |
kandiikane: Preach! Sis or bro Lol... Anyone who feels it was better back then can build a time machine n go back! For those who want to stay? Stop whining! That one persons marriage didn't work doesn't mean yours won't! You have to work on your marriage and not just yourself! You can't expect that today's independent woman will let herself be cheated on without divorcing yo behind or worse, doing same to you. You all don't want liabilities no more, you want her to work, do all the chores, raise your children and then... what do you say again? "Be your ho" oh... and you don't want a maid in your home one question, are you high? you can't expect to oppress, be abusive or worse, unemotional or what do you say again? "I no longer find her attractive" and then you want her to stay there "for the kids"... is marriage for the kids? did she marry you for the kids? Or for you? Work on your home and stop whining, times have changed and things changed with it. If you don't wanna work then pick a naive girl from the villa. It's really that simple. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by ideykwum: 7:02am On May 15, 2015 |
I can't quarrel with your argument! It has lots of merit! Pavore9: |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Zeze06(m): 7:04am On May 15, 2015 |
One thing i still don't get is how to deal with infidelity in a marriage or a very serious relationship IMO..the only remedy is not really a remedy, because it is to end the relationship! Kawai!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by gbengaAIG: 7:04am On May 15, 2015 |
Both of the party were sincerly and faithfully,not like infidelity those days. |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Nobody: 7:05am On May 15, 2015 |
babyosisi: i don't know what society you are from but the truth is most African societies our father's time although did arranged marriages but the choice to marry was still her's. What you call lack of choice is actually people councelling you and advising you to take it like they probably did him too! Most times, when i hear feminists bring up this arguement to prove women's victimhood, i am like...isn't it the same Africa our grandmothers will bring a woman from the village and ask our fathers to marry just because he's of marriageable age and still single and because all of her mates are now grandmothers except her and our fathers couldn't turn down her request especially when she begins to shed tears? And please don't tell me "oh, that's why feminism is here, so as to help men too!" the truth is it has never been about fairness and i am not going to be decieved by that! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Toks2008(m): 7:06am On May 15, 2015 |
brownlord: Honestly i really don't know what went wrong. The world has gone crazy and just some few weeks back i read of a yeyebrity writing on social media about 100days without sex and i wonder how shameless some ladies can be. Many marriages crumble today because of the ex factor where many ladies compare your dick and your sexual prowess to their ex(es), where a man feels so unsure whether he is satisfying you as you want considering the number of d*cks that have swam in your wife in the past and strangely enough ladies even crave to have that satanic experience of tasting more than one d*ck just to have that feeling of evil experience.. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Pavore9: 7:09am On May 15, 2015 |
ideykwum: Thank you for that. |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Ahmeduana(m): 7:09am On May 15, 2015 |
tpiadotcom:BECAUSE THEN IN THE OLDEN DAYS, THERE WAS NO iPHONE, NO SAMSUNG galaxy, NO iPAD, NO GALAXY tab, NO BRAZILIAN HAIR ATTACH, NO PLASMA TVS, LCD TVS, NO LED TVS NO BUGGATI VERON, NO 5STARS RESTAURANT, NO DUBAI, NO DANGOTE, NO SENATOR YERIMA, NO SENATOR BUKOLA, NO GOVERNOR AKPABIO, NO ADVISER FFK, NO DAVIDO, NO PSQUARE, NO DBANJ, NO SHOPRITE, GRAND SQUARE. AND THE FEW OF THESE THINGS I MADE MENTION OF ARE NOT UTILISED TO OPPRESS OR SUPPRESS THE LESS PRIVILEDGES AND THE FEW RICH FELLAS ARE GOD FEARING, AND AS FOR THE POOR FELLAS THEY DON'T HAVE LONGER THROAT, THE ARE QUITE CONTENTED. NOW TELL WHY WON'T THE HAVE A PEACEFUL, LONGER AND TILL DEATH DO US APART MARRIAGE LIFE? |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by kingston247: 7:10am On May 15, 2015 |
tpiadotcom: because the girls got no home training unlike our mothers... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Zeze06(m): 7:12am On May 15, 2015 |
eleojo23: If i shld ask, what do you consider a remedy or express solution to INfIDELITY in marriage or a serious relationship?? |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by umarc19: 7:13am On May 15, 2015 |
ideykwum: U welcum sir, hope u will rectify those areas u found urself wanting. |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Rapture4real(m): 7:16am On May 15, 2015 |
tpiadotcom: VALUE.The olden days have vulues that hold marriage.whether a christian,Muslim or not traditionally there were cherished values.But today westernisation has dealt a deadly blow on us plus end time spirits.In thoses days there were respect,humility,fidelity etc but now evil exposure has exposed us to dangers.The divorce rates are dangerously too high now.So answer:Value system 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by trapQ: 7:17am On May 15, 2015 |
Yes blame it on the women like you'll always do. If men showed love to their wives , marriage will work Osama10: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by kingston247: 7:18am On May 15, 2015 |
Adaeze003: Girls like these end up single... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by SAMBARRY: 7:18am On May 15, 2015 |
donbenedict:from the look of things is it not |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by horlaryehmee(m): 7:19am On May 15, 2015 |
Wen u don tok ur mind finish |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by SAMBARRY: 7:23am On May 15, 2015 |
kingston247:Because they say what you don't like? and by the way is singlehood supposed to be some form of threat or something? Is that a new line? |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Nobody: 7:27am On May 15, 2015 |
Toks2008: a trillion likes!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by SAMBARRY: 7:27am On May 15, 2015 |
kingston247:but the" boys"have home training like their fathers |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Acidosis(m): 7:33am On May 15, 2015 |
...because our mothers do not go about dating 3,4,5 men before marriage. The woman of today will keep jumping from Chinedu to Akpos to Olawale to Rufus. She'll then weigh all based on monetary acquisition before settling down. Our mothers stick with one man (each)! It is abomination to sleep with 3,4 men before marriage then, but today its adventurous. We believe the faster & hotter in bed, the better Never underrate the power of s p e r m. The higher the number of s p e r m you've stored from different sources, the harder it becomes to settle. S p e r m s do not settle, they swim & jump from one end to another. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by SAMBARRY: 7:38am On May 15, 2015 |
Here we go again sanctimonious hypocrite. I don taya for una matter o aren't you the people that will say you don't want virgins virgins are frigid. You want women with experience. When the student con get experience finish won't she be more versatile than her teacher so please let me hear word and back to the how many days she has had sex. So u thought it's only men that know how to be verbally expressive when analysing sex with their friends over a bottle of gulder. ptsheww Toks2008: |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by michaelbiz: 7:39am On May 15, 2015 |
Chiam55: Chiam55: My dear chiamaka {moniker says so} Don't be carried away by today's promise of 'freedom to love', 'freedom to live' and so on Cos like many out there, there's no homes, yet we live in the big city...no roads, yet we see roads everywhere It's the opposite paradoxically It's harder now my dear Life was sooooooo beautiful back then to the point that my mum would rather go back to black n white (her voice suddenly sounds like cinderella when she starts her sweet good ol'days story) LOL happy birthday hun |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by virtuedagirl(f): 7:40am On May 15, 2015 |
Osama10:I believe the problem lies here in as much as women should be submissive,respect should be mutual,if men will learn to love&respect their wives & wives do same in addition to being submissive our marriages will be be enjoyable&last long 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by SAMBARRY: 7:42am On May 15, 2015 |
If they don't jump from chinedu to onyeka and chibuzor how will they gather experience. Why do you think employers ask how many years of experience do you have before applying in this company. . Shebi the elders say experience is the best teacher Acidosis: |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by macino1(m): 7:42am On May 15, 2015 |
A time when ladies use their suppose husband as boyfriend and marry their suppose boyfriend as husband. And ofcourse vis a vis the guys. You know what i mean. |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Nobody: 7:42am On May 15, 2015 |
eleojo23: I always love your posts eleojo |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Nobody: 7:44am On May 15, 2015 |
sukkot: chai! I don die!!! |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by SAMBARRY: 7:48am On May 15, 2015 |
Gbam. They are looking for a combination of robot, sek machine and baby making machine as well as a bimbo cook and cleaner. That means that they will have to clone their wives Adaeze003: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Acidosis(m): 7:48am On May 15, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Yea, same reason marriages crash. Divorce is important for the experience folks, so they can further their career with more gbolla, better pay & career development. |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by SAMBARRY: 7:50am On May 15, 2015 |
Acidosis:exactly |
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