adexsimply:
LOL..Keep deceiving yourself. Most of those marriages lack love. The wives are mostly in bondage, they just avoid divorces because of societal ridicules and shame...

Toks2008:


First let me correct the fact that i am not in my forties but will be 40 this year and very much single and no longer married. Yes i agree that the word p*nny is very inappropriate but yes one can use it when expressing sarcasm and that was why i used it.

Thanks for the observation.

kingston247:


Girls like these end up single...

craziebone:


i wonder why a man in his 40s and married ashould still be using the word "punny" to refer to the femal Instruments. Don't you know the more formal word to use to it? It is Vaginaa.

Aslo, do you still remember the discussion we had the other time?

And pls, i really want you to answer this question; i want to know what you think. Is it also a big plus for a woman when she makes a man a man? Does he also give him that "maximum" respect?

craziebone:
what about the question i asked? Why don't you answer it? I really want to know.

craziebone:


i wonder why a man in his 40s and married ashould still be using the word "punny" to refer to the femal Instruments. Don't you know the more formal word to use to it? It is Vaginaa.

Aslo, do you still remember the discussion we had the other time?

And pls, i really want you to answer this question; i want to know what you think. Is it also a big plus for a woman when she makes a man a man? Does he also give him that "maximum" respect?

eleojo23:
Because people are looking for easy comfort. If there is a little problem, they just quit, no effort to resolve the issue.

Marriage is work. Many marital problems can be avoided when couples take time to understand each other and try to resolve issues that may come between them. But people would rather prefer to live in the dream world and ride high on feelings. That is the modern day philosophy - it has to feel good all the time.
Anyone who has a good understanding of how life works knows that it won't always be easy and that hard times are the test of your seriousness with the relationship/marriage.
If someone only holds on in good times and gives up when things aren't smooth, one cannot but question his/her commitment to the relationship/marriage.

(I understand that this subject of marriage is one in which many people claim to have 'Phd's' and thus opinions may vary The above is mine )

Toks2008:


Honestly if you are in my shoes, you will be tired of this creatures called women after spending 12 years of your life wasting it with one. I will remarry when i find another one to risk my lifetime with.

VenusBetty:
ode leleyi o, are you married ni? this is one clear reason, blame each other for your misfortune. nonsense

HizMissy:
And who made you judge to decide what objections to overrule?

centjamie:



I understand how you feel.but do well to expunge the thought that all women are bad from your system.there are actually good women,if only you can search for her with a positive

tpiadotcom:


what attitudes did the husbands of those days have that are also different from nowadays?

Dranatomy:
Gender equality is the problem my brother..

Acidosis:

Bible

Toks2008:


Honestly if you are in my shoes, you will be tired of this creatures called women after spending 12 years of your life wasting it with one. I will remarry when i find another one to risk my lifetime with.

tobtap:

madam....y the insult...i only gave my opinion....is that how u argue? with insults?....hmmmm

tpiadotcom:
Strange!

Modern marriages have both the husband and wife either wishing for death or divorce as their only alternatives, why marry if you hate your fellow human?

Nor be by force nah.

Edusouls:
excellent work brother, u did ur research well..

HizMissy:
What do you know about the bible

VenusBetty:
oya sorry, no vex ehn

centjamie:


No doubts about that.

But the reason why so many marriages crash now unlike in the olden days is mostly because of misplaced priorities.people place material things much above other important qualities...... and women are always the chief culprits.

Toks2008:


Yes i agree, that is why im considering taking a new wife from Benin rep,Togo or Ghana or any country outside Nigeria where their ladies will love you for you and unconditionally not because of what you can offer. Countries where being wealthy as a man is only a plus and never a criterion for loving a man.

I am so scared of Nigerian ladies.