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Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by Curiousity01: 2:04pm On May 15, 2015 |
I'm just a little curious and also want to learn from guys who have gone ahead of me. Especially guys who married older ladies and also ladies who got married to younger men....It will really be nice if you can share your experiences with us before some of us follow suit. Thanks in advance.
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Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by dulux07(m): 2:10pm On May 15, 2015 |
Nothing is wrong, provided the lady has good morals n shes respects u. Speakin from xperience.(dated an older lady for a long time) 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by winetapper: 2:10pm On May 15, 2015 |
it depends on how many years old she is than you.. You married her, she didnt marry you. 2 Likes |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by donbenedict(m): 2:24pm On May 15, 2015 |
Well, I won't venture into that.. Age is just not only a number.. 6 Likes |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by ahnie: 2:24pm On May 15, 2015 |
I cee no problem with it.i'm married to a much older man,am 25..he's 45.it all depends on the mutual understandin and choice tho. |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by Curiousity01: 2:29pm On May 15, 2015 |
ahnie:ahnie, tnx for ur contribution but i'm not actually referring to d guy being the older one now...I mean the lady being the older one. say 2-3 years older or so. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by nicerod(m): 2:30pm On May 15, 2015 |
Its all depends on both of u.
If u'r mature enuf 2 handle tinx u'r gud 2 go.
Tho am seein som1 older dan me by 10yrs 2 Likes |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by Curiousity01: 2:31pm On May 15, 2015 |
donbenedict:hmmmmm 1 Like |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by ahnie: 2:38pm On May 15, 2015 |
The choice z yurz. Curiousity01:best of luck. |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by mutiply: 2:59pm On May 15, 2015 |
I prefer the lady to be older than me. Young females don't know what they want. They act before thinking. 3 Likes |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by Rubis(m): 3:57pm On May 15, 2015 |
The older they are the better! 2 Likes |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by Chubhie: 5:22pm On May 15, 2015 |
I prefer much older ladies. The young ones lack depth. If you found her and she vibrates at your frequency, regardless of her earthly age go for it. Some souls are ageless and evergreen. The best of them are those of them that take care of Body,mind and soul that when they tell you their age you gonna doubt. 8 Likes |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by nicerod(m): 5:24pm On May 15, 2015 |
Chubhie::-D:-D bro u very rght 1 Like |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by veraponpo(m): 6:36pm On May 15, 2015 |
You have to weigh your options and test her very well before venturing into this. Marriage itself is very complicated; marrying an older woman makes it more complicated. It then follows that if you will make such attempt at all, you have to sit down and think deeply: 1. Which personality is involved ie the person you want to marry; 2. what is her maturity- Emotional Quotient, Intelligence Quotient and Spiritual Maturity; 3. What other factors can affect your marriage in the future other than the age factor? etc |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by Curiousity01: 7:05pm On May 15, 2015 |
Chubhie:I feel u bro...bt honestly i really wish i cud have one or two married folks who really are into diz system to share dia experience wit d house including the pros and cons. |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by Rubis(m): 7:57pm On May 15, 2015 |
Curiousity01: You are within same age cycle, so in other words you are age mate. Was thinking you meant ten yrs plus older. 1 Like |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by nicerod(m): 8:52pm On May 15, 2015 |
U must b open minded,b willing 2 take/bear consequencies of dating olderwomen cos,u'r likely gonna b mocked:dating her mum's age tinx lik da Ur goals must b dsame,d 1 am dating wnts marriage& i wnt s3x u knw its conflicting& if u knw d rght buttons 2 press u'r goin 2 enjoy her wella. 1 Like |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by evolg(m): 12:21pm On May 16, 2015 |
cc: Babyosisi You are needed here. She's a woman full of wisdom. |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by Nobody: 5:28am On May 17, 2015 |
ahnie: Why now? 1 Like |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by Nobody: 5:29am On May 17, 2015 |
evolg: Thanks for the compliments Curiousity01: 2-3 years is still within your age bracket,not a big deal. If you were talking 5 years plus then I might have something to say on that. 1 Like |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by Zi: 5:59am On May 17, 2015 |
I'm in that dilemma now. My best friend is 2 and half years younger than me. We've been good for about 3 years now. He doesn't mind at all, in fact, he is the one pushing more for it. He says things like, "l have more experience when it comes to relationships", "I will buy age in the market if it will make you happy" etc. He is really a great guy but I really want an older man because 1) I'm bigger than him physically. 2) Sometimes I see his actions or decisions childish, I can't wave the age thing past my mind. 3) ... I don't really know what to do as I don't love the other options as much or say I'm not as close to the other options as I'm close to him. I will leave the future to decide. |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by mystiqueDZ(f): 9:47am On May 17, 2015 |
ahnie:oh waoh!!you get along well? |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by ahnie: 10:19am On May 17, 2015 |
Felt like,mum did asked me same question,but daz my choice,al-do,he looks like under 30s. babyosisi: |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by ahnie: 10:22am On May 17, 2015 |
Oh sure.but you dont mess with me,he's ready to spill his last drop of blood for my sake. mystiqueDZ: |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by mystiqueDZ(f): 11:18am On May 17, 2015 |
ahnie:awwww.... ;Dmay the love grow more..... |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by Nobody: 1:44pm On May 17, 2015 |
ahnie: The age difference is too much but I wish you a very happy marriage |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by ahnie: 3:33pm On May 17, 2015 |
Tenk you. babyosisi: |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by juman(m): 5:45pm On May 17, 2015 |
Curiousity01: 2-3 years is good even some people could marry woman of more than 5 years older it depends on individual. You can watch the related videos from battabox guys on the subject. The videos is below. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RDez2sPtuxM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7PxRdKxD8SE 3 Likes |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by Nobody: 6:58am On May 18, 2015 |
Curiousity01: Nothing really wrong if the lady is >.............................. cant find a word for it most ladies naturally have an issue with submission even if she is 22 and your are 45 immediately you start dating youd see a change in the way she atlks and relates with you. believe me i know men that respect their wives even when the wives talk anyhow to them in public. ladies much be chosen with tact else if she is older and not ...........................(still cant find the word ) then God help that man. so its a function the personality not the age and since we cant control or determine the character now adays due to the matrimony rush id rather you stict to the young ones 1 Like |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by Nobody: 7:47am On May 18, 2015 |
Nothing wrong, as long as she loves and respects you. . Marrying a younger person isn't an assurance of respect and love, so if you see someone that rocks ya boat, please take her to the altar... 2 Likes |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by Yelenana: 8:34am On Apr 14, 2022 |
I don't think there's anything wrong with marrying a lady older than you, but I think it's a happy thing. Older women will be more planned, more intellectual, elegant, sexy, and full of fun. These cougars will have their careers, so there is a high probability that they can also bring you some connections and money. They also treat marriage more rationally. Compared with young women, they are more willing to spend their time managing this marriage. My brother is married to a cougar and they are 15 years apart. But they love each other and get along very well. They met on a cougar dating site: https://cougarslover.com/match/. |
Re: Guy, Is Anything Wrong In Marrying A Lady Older Than You? by Karleb(m): 12:24pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
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