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Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by bakynes(m): 12:10pm On May 16, 2015 |
I agree with the OP 101% because in a country such as Nigeria every Goddamn things is reliant on Money. The basics of life we do not have in Nigeria so love cannot even be built from the Scratch. A typical British person has the basics of life like Housing, water, electricity, gas etc. Even if he doesn't have money the Govt will give him welfare for all that. So it's just the luxuries he won't be able to afford, love can still thrive on the basics of life but a country such as ours if you don't have money no govt will come and give u welfare to take care of basics of life hence love cannot thrive. If you must go into a rship as a struggling man do not put all your heart if she stays she stays and if she leaves you no worries life goes on. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by agarawu23(m): 12:12pm On May 16, 2015 |
olareed:nice one |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by Mintayo(m): 12:12pm On May 16, 2015 |
If u r in a relationship with a lady who is too demanding even if u r financially buoyant, please quit the relationship, a sensible girl will work to support her man! There are ladies that will stick to a guy come what may, these are no parasitic ladies! To me, it's wrong for a lady to be asking for hairdo money from her man or money to buy Brazilian Hair or unnecessary stuffs! Love doesn't demand! 4 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by agarawu23(m): 12:15pm On May 16, 2015 |
GodMode:true talk |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by 2Blessed2stress: 12:15pm On May 16, 2015 |
You make a lot of sense in your post. But the last thing that can happen to a man is for a woman to marry him cause of his money or "comfortable lifestyle". Because , if she see's other wealthier family, she will be envious of them and may cheat on you with a far RICHER dude. Work for your purpose and goal in life. To quote an Author , "The worst thing is to succeed before you are prepared". 3 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by Mintayo(m): 12:16pm On May 16, 2015 |
naijaboiy:My thought exactly, so if a guy doesn't make it till He is 45, He shouldn't get married? The write-up is flawed to me too! 3 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by BamideleOJ: 12:16pm On May 16, 2015 |
Rapmoney: Powerfully with you ramponey 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by Jossyroyal1: 12:17pm On May 16, 2015 |
ronald4lif:lol.... akpoko spotted!!! |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by teegrams(m): 12:19pm On May 16, 2015 |
@op so Oshobaba found love after hustling right ok I hear you 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by kelvine(m): 12:22pm On May 16, 2015 |
Wish I made front page responce on this topic, but with your comment I feel my thoughts are already shared. After work yesterday a lot of colleagues opined just what the OP just presented but my point was similar to yours on the part of the letters highlighted in bold. More so, marriage is a project, spend time to search out your mate or class. Saying love is dead is too much a hasty generalization, there are still modest, God fearing, virtuous and prudent ladies (though very scarce). They may not be super pretty, search them out, love-vendor them and marry them. agarawu23: 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by kikesblog(m): 12:22pm On May 16, 2015 |
Well not all girls in the acclaimed cities look out for money sha! it is a 70-30 stuff. nice write up.#applauds |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by centjamie(m): 12:23pm On May 16, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Case studies are not even far,they are not hard to find, as our day to day activities are testament enough to prove the validity of points raised here in support of this thread. There must be divergent views to issues,especially one of this nature.but in my humble opinion,i think the only people who will be against this thread are the ladies and guys who have always had enough money to throw around. Of course,there are few exceptional cases where a lady sincerely sticks to a guy out of love irrespective of his poor financial condition.but the fact that people see such LADY as a rare being from a different PLANET is it not testament enough that the Op(this thread) and everybody who writes in support of this thread are actually correct? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by Nobody: 12:25pm On May 16, 2015 |
Wow!!! ![]() ![]() Nice 1 ![]() No Money, no Honey ![]() ![]() Good example: The newly wedded couple in Edo State... ![]() **The Beauty and the Beast** lol ![]() ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by millionboi(m): 12:25pm On May 16, 2015 |
ronald4lif:hahahahaha......una no go kil person 4dis luv matter |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by centjamie(m): 12:25pm On May 16, 2015 |
centjamie: |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by millionboi(m): 12:26pm On May 16, 2015 |
omojoshy:hmmmm.....2harsh |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by nkem123(m): 12:26pm On May 16, 2015 |
Adaobi12:that's what all women always say 'we are nt d same'........pure heresy. inasmuch as I agree with u partially, that can only be 1 out of a million women. they will tel u money is nt luv bt that Is nt true, it's nt true my sister.without money no naija woman will stay wit u.my girl did same when d journey was tough, she told me she wants to quit for no reason, she started being harsh, arrogant, proud and rude to me and finally stayed away from me.she later heard I was undergoing training with one of d big oil and gas company, she started calling, texting, telling me hw she missed me and hw much she loves me, bt this was a girl that even when I called her she wouldn't pick, or even when she picks will sound so unfriendly suddenly began being caring and romantic.I will take her back, bt will mess her up and dump her. quote me anyday anytime, no naija woman will labour with u bt they want to reap whr they didn't sow.d few ones that sticked with their man when it was rough and struggled with him until God blessed him, they still cheated on their man with another guy. 6 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by OrlandoOwoh(m): 12:27pm On May 16, 2015 |
Rapmoney:No mind them. 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by millionboi(m): 12:29pm On May 16, 2015 |
2Blessed2stress: |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by braine(m): 12:32pm On May 16, 2015 |
Safari29:So many sensible comments here. Thanks guys. |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by Nobody: 12:33pm On May 16, 2015 |
This what happens when kids gain access to free Internet. So what happened to those who are young and getting married. Keep following your mentality am sure you will be one to raise a teenager when you are supposed to retire. This is why I hate nairaland everything has to be battle of the sexes. Someone has a bad experience with a girl or a guy and the rest of us are suppose to take the blame for others. Anyway back to my section. This section is full of it. Adams wedding is his business not mine. EDITED: I misread the context and yes truly OP does have a point, though i don't expect anyone to be that stupid to spend all his hard earned money gotten from sweat on a lady just to impress, I don't want to be believe such people exists. Sorry OP misread your article , now i get what you mean now. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by Desmondkk(m): 12:35pm On May 16, 2015 |
Rapmoney:God bless u for dis advice...u just thought me some sense to live 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by Adelivinggreat(m): 12:35pm On May 16, 2015 |
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Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by upsonn(m): 12:35pm On May 16, 2015 |
agarawu23: You are among those who bliv someone pple re nt destiny to be rich! I laff in spanish.. What a bad imagination and bliv. |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by Acidosis(m): 12:37pm On May 16, 2015 |
Lol I used to share the same reasoning with OP until I realise success has no definition. Whether you earn 20k or 150k, you'll always see a woman who would love you and ready to settle with you. I've come to realise no amount of money is ever enough. ![]() Set your target at N200k/monthly, by the time you reach your target, the trickle down effect will affect your entire life such that you'll start buying perfume worth N50k. At that stage, you'll realise N200k is no longer enough to settle down... and the trend continues. Its basic economics- human wants are insatiable. Telling a level '08 NSCDC officer or level '08 F.G Teacher of N27 years old to forget love and face hustling is like telling him to delay his offspring. Even if you hustle and sweat, you can't rise above the stipulated years for promotion. The aforementioned principle applies to our everyday life; you just cannot run faster than destiny - it can only be delayed. Also I think your write-up should be directed at students. A guy of 24+ should never forget love. If LOVE is a distraction, what do you call CLUBBING, WOMANISING, CHAMPIONS LEAGUE, Play Station, Android Tweaks, BBM, FACEBOOK? I think its better to settle down with a reasonable lady and remain faithful. Those who miss it are those who spend carelessly to impress a thousand and random girls in exchange for s e x. Spending on 'A' lover shouldn't distract anyone. I don't know where some of you meet your girls, but I know there are reasonable ones out there who hardly make demands. In fact some don't ask! If a young man can't find love, remember the destiny of your offspring lies in your hands! You wouldn't want to settle down with an o l o s h o at old age. Imagine driving your kids to Montessori academy at age 50 when your mates' are already playing with grand children around the house - all in the name of hustling as if we can make all the money in the world. In summary, hard work pays but it doesn't pay everyone equally; likewise, relationship pays, but not all survive the accompanying impediments. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by agarawu23(m): 12:37pm On May 16, 2015 |
upsonn:your opinion. |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by Nobody: 12:38pm On May 16, 2015 |
Nnaa.. op u just yarn thrash. Money come, money fit go. There are girls that stand by the guy no matter what. Its better the girl struggle with me till I make it than she come meet the money. 3 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by Nobody: 12:40pm On May 16, 2015 |
Acidosis: Haba android, playstation it's not waste of time. It doesn't stop me from doing clients work sometimes it unlocks my creative processes. It's from metal gear I got the concept of a system that monitors everything in real time and adjust itself . Guns of patriot system |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by braine(m): 12:42pm On May 16, 2015 |
kelvine:True. Thanks for this comment. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by Desmondkk(m): 12:42pm On May 16, 2015 |
Adaobi12:my dear this case is very rare...u in person might be able to stick to d situation why others can't. That's were individual differences comes in |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by ZLANGAARD: 12:43pm On May 16, 2015 |
Acidosis:you have said it all.man. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by Okeycima: 12:45pm On May 16, 2015 |
Onyeoma ur head dey there,whrn I tell ma DAWGs that I see relationship now as a contract signed.they tend to see me as weirdo,sometime I do think that it is only me that reason like this 1 Like |
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