most women always say they are living for their children, and anytime they talk little emphasy is made about the man who made the children a possibility, I think its an injustice against men who most times treasure their wife's and children equally.what do u think?

Princecalm:
Tell me what happens when there is no child/children in a marriage

that's the question, most women behave like they just got married for their selfish interest of having their own children with little concern for the man

Her child is from her womb....he/she is part of her......

If I had a child(ren) I wil dem more dan any1 or anytin on dis earth.
WHY? They re d real apples of my eyes, my flesh, blood n soul. I get relief wen I tink of dem or see dem in gud health wen I'm depressed. We already love dem wen dey were in d tommy, dats where d love came 4rm.
I dnt knw hw to put it, buh we jux LOVE dem more dan ever.

Blebleswag:
If I had a child(ren) I wil dem more dan any1 or anytin on dis earth.
WHY? They re d real apples of my eyes, my flesh, blood n soul. I get relief wen I tink of dem or see dem in gud health wen I'm depressed. We already love dem wen dey were in d tommy, dats where d love came 4rm.
I dnt knw hw to put it, buh we jux LOVE dem more dan ever.

and u think the male folks doz not love the children in equal measure? but we still try to balance the affection but that of women is lopsided

truthlegend:
that's the question, most women behave like they just got married for their selfish interest of having their own children with little concern for the man

are you saying men don't have concern for children?

A woman will always love her child more than her husband it's how they are wired. I wouldn't call this an injustice; the primary consideration given to her child increases its chances of survival. The child needs this consideration and attention more than the husband so this can be described as a survival mechanism for the species.

truthlegend:
most women always say they are living for their children, and anytime they talk little emphasy is made about the man who made the children a possibility, I think its an injustice against men who most times treasure their wife's and children equally.what do u think?

men who treasure their wives are always honoured by their wives. A woman with a man who acts right will not shut up about him, everything will be all about her man and keeping him happy. If a man doesnt act right, the kids become a priority and he just becomes her roommate.

chibwike:
Her child is from her womb....he/she is part of her......

this is true

Moana:
this is true

thank you

ApexTitan:
A woman will always love her child more than her husband it's how they are wired. I wouldn't call this an injustice; the primary consideration given to her child increases its chances of survival. The child needs this consideration and attention more than the husband so this can be described as a survival mechanism for the species.

you have a very cogent point but saying it to the mans face could spring jealousy from d man towards d children

Moana:
men who treasure their wives are always honoured by their wives. A woman with a man who acts right will not shut up about him, everything will be all about her man and keeping him happy. If a man doesnt act right, the kids become a priority and he just becomes her roommate.

you have a point but most women only adores their husband's mainly because he is rich

truthlegend:
you have a point but most women only adores their husband's mainly because he is rich

which goes on to show that you know little about women. A woman will always be happy with her average husband who treats her right.

Moana:
which goes on to show that you know little about women. A woman will always be happy with her average husband who treats her right.

with due respect to women world over,if anything is to be known about women is the fact that they love money whether single or married

Because a lot of the husbands are perpetual cheats and treat their mistresses better than their wives sef. It's hard to love such a man totally and at least with her children she knows most likely they will always have her back unlike the man . Men wh are good to their wives enjoy the same love if not more than the children sef

missclasssy:
Because it's a logical thing to do.

how logical is it to openly declare ur life preferences to include only ur children even in the presence of the man who made it all possible?

bamidele029:
Because a lot of the husbands are perpetual cheats and treat their mistresses better than their wives sef. It's hard to love such a man totally and at least with her children she knows most likely they will always have her back unlike the man . Men wh are good to their wives enjoy the same love if not more than the children sef

it is wrong to call all noodles indomie,if u know wat I mean relating to ur comment

Moana nice one,

A woman whose husband sees her as his priority will always be treated RIGHT.. 'She give you what you give her'. It's no magic.

Kids?

They are a bundle of joy.. Ooogh!! The joy of a mother when she is delivered of a baby . She forgets all the pain(s) during birth, nurtures and watch the child(ren) grow like a blooming flower

They (kids) remain when 'daddy' decides to misbehave.. They (kids) are the future of their (mothers, especially) lives.


Though, from my own observation, daddies/fathers transfer so much love to their kids, especially the girl(s) child(ren) that it affects mummy(ies) , and they get jealous.

Same with mothers, and the male child(ren).

In all, Moderation should be key so as you don't cause a stir in the family.

#My opinion..

truthlegend:
with due respect to women world over,if anything is to be known about women is the fact that they love money whether single or married

Oga you don't love money?

Dunno where you guys meet these kind of women from. All the women I know treat their husbands and kids with equal affection.

Sleekyshuga:
A woman whose husband sees her as his priority will always be treated RIGHT.. 'She give you what you give her'. It's no magic.

Kids?

They are a bundle of joy.. Ooogh!! The joy of a mother when she is delivered of a baby . She forgets all the pain(s) during birth, nurtures and watch the child(ren) grow like a blooming flower

They (kids) remain when 'daddy' decides to misbehave.. They (kids) are the future of their (mothers, especially) lives.


Though, from my own observation, daddies/fathers transfer so much love to their kids, especially the girl(s) child(ren) that it affects mummy(ies) , and they get jealous.

Same with mothers, and the male child(ren).

In all, Moderation should be key so as you don't cause a stir in the family.

#My opinion..

ur opinion stands

Joy1706:

Oga you don't love money?

I like money but ur own love for money is too much ghan!

ireneidiva:
Dunno where you guys meet these kind of women from. All the women I know treat their husbands and kids with equal affection.

what part of the world did u come from?

truthlegend:
ur opinion stands

truthlegend:
what part of the world did u come from?

The best part.