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Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by sexylemo: 10:44am On May 18, 2015 |
Vikkie14: I know someone that needs this quote right here.. |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by Kingsasian(m): 10:49am On May 18, 2015 |
Well, nobody is perfect including you the op. Everyone of us have committed at least one atrocity in the past. If you truly love her as you claimed you will stand and be by her through this her trying period. Thank God you said she "was" and not she "is". |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by Duru009(m): 10:59am On May 18, 2015 |
Its really very difficuit here. But since u ar not in a haste to marry her now. Bro, Give her time and see whether thre will be any changes....... Nobody is perfect. Everybody has a past. |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by Nobody: 11:01am On May 18, 2015 |
As 4me, I will advice you to leave d girl, because there's a lot to it oo. 1 she will still want to enjoy women at a time in her marriage, that's when d sex life btw u both starts going down to mayb once in 2wks. Or that she might pass that urge n desire in her gin to ur daughter. 2 Wasn't she warned by her parents or friends that being a bi-sexual in dis our society is wrong. Why didn't she heed d advice, why did she live such life then, now she wants some one that will 4give her and now share d consequences of her past life with her? Ehh! Which kind love be that? 3. That guy might come to hunt for her later in life, besides u don't knw d agreement she must have reached with that guy for him to come back n say he was joking and also for d guy to still reach her after some months in ur relationship that means that it hasn't been upto three years she stopped d runs tins, that's if at all she has stopped mayb she's trying to stop just to get you to marry her b4 she continues. 4 nobody is forced into runs, these girls decide that demselves, so I don't pity them when the fall into this kind of situations cos they do take men as retirement plan during this period. 5 guy go n look for a better girl that reserved her self for marriage, even if she's not a virgin just go search for a normal girl, not a girl with a dirty past mehhhn, she can't eat her cake n have it, she can't leave dat act of lesbiansm, it's always hard for them. My ex was into girls but I dint know, she's married now and it's still doing it, she just opened up to me recently. 6 If you marry that girl Ehh, her fellow runs girls will use her as example that after d whole runs she did, she finally got married to a good husband, n that will encourage them more n more, so puleaseeeeee don't marry a girl u can't trust with her female friend. Finally, I don't see her runs life as past because if she wanted to have a better future like she wants now, she could have written a better script of her past. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by haul: 11:03am On May 18, 2015 |
maggilove: Answer this carefully madam, and with much sincerity. If your daughter told you how her fiancé confessed to her that he was gay,will you bless the union madam? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by mcgaius: 11:14am On May 18, 2015 |
Guy shine your eye.Two of them are still in communication.The guy updates your girl about you and your girl updates the guy about you.Make dem no scam you by blackmailing you emotionally. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by Papasmal(m): 11:19am On May 18, 2015 |
Two words that are very important in a relationship,LOVE and FORGIVENESS...If you truly love her you can easily forgive her past at an instant,the fact she is no more into the act and she will never be part of it again...you guys should come together and fight that devil trying to come inbetween you and cut every links relating your girl and the guy. |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by Tino86(m): 11:28am On May 18, 2015 |
NobleG1:1000000 likes for u gentleman. best advice ever. @ op, I advised u take ur time and go these post. it will indeed give u the peace of mind u deserve. a pig will always return to trash, even after cleaning it up. i believe u are not a baby to refrain any ill advise on this thead when u perceive one. my honest opinion tho 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by koladata(m): 11:38am On May 18, 2015 |
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]I don't comment on nairaland but i'm so touched by this story. Lesbianism is really trending among the ladies and I hope they would learn their lessons. If you marry this girl, the mystery will hunt you forever. The recommended time for you to wait is 2years if you would have to marry her. Between this two years, more secrets will be revealed. Inbetween this two years, you would know if true you can accept her regardless her flaws. Inbetween this two years, you might find a better woman. Bros it will amaze you that you can find someone you could love better and she can also find someone else to love her better as well. In relationship, love is separate entity so don't put it on your head and don't make it look like your life depend on this entity called "love" I've fallen in love three times now and i'm not yet married, and each time i fall in love its as if it will never end, like romeo and juliet were just a learner.... but yet it ends and it becomes stories.... meaning i'm still going to fall in love again because i'm not yet married.... so if after this two years, things don't still workout, then you can also fall in love. I really really really really feel your pains man. "Don't forget 2years" Dont forget o. I understand that age might not be on your side but there's a big need to clear this air. I repeat "two years" Take heart man. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by Tallesty1(m): 11:52am On May 18, 2015 |
If I were in your shoes I will collect the link to the site that has her secrets. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by tochstorm(m): 12:06pm On May 18, 2015 |
lessbian.. is like hiting rock to rock spoon to spoon etc. |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by Lobolintin(m): 12:07pm On May 18, 2015 |
Break up with her. There is some sins you can forgive and not this.... If its made in private without someone threatening its better..... But this one is public and the case of website and a man bugging you .... Or Break down for now and allow things cool off. Just take time off and meditate .... Quote me and die .. |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by olexy4real(m): 12:16pm On May 18, 2015 |
XBLadez: Lolzzzz. Lwkmd. Guy ur mind is so dirty u need to soak ur mind in hot water,add hypo, ariel and detol, then leave 4 3days before washing it. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by delors(m): 12:21pm On May 18, 2015 |
SagePerv:Actually, love does hold grudges of the past Mr. Love isn't stupid...it is reasonable. And being reasonable here, I mean love accepts that we are humans and must naturally react or behave as such. The guy just got jolted out if the love world back to reality. He discovered a shock, naturally he is reacting. Because he loves her doesn't mean he should blindly turn blind eyes to what he found out. So if you are a girl, in love with this guy, and found out he was a daredevil armed robber with the history of uncountable murders, but he stopped being a robber two years ago ( I didn't say he 'repented' o). He stopped probably because he found a little money to start up a biz...And you found that out, would you still say love conquers all, and blindly go ahead with the guy? No? Well, I thought as much. They are not married yet, they are not even up to a year together, if he loves his life, free the girl. No matter what, there will be issues in marriage later in life n those issues could drive her back to lesbianisn or even worse. She's not a repented girl, she barely 'paused' the act. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by Nobody: 12:26pm On May 18, 2015 |
You are in for a wild marriage |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by Danfo(m): 12:29pm On May 18, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Absolutely correct! You need to see what public information is held about the lady you want to marry....too important to ignore... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by maggilove(f): 12:31pm On May 18, 2015 |
haul:To err is human and to forgive is divine, if d man had repented genuinely, it means God has forgiven him who am I not to forgive him? And why must I jeopardize my daughter's happiness in d name of what has happened in d past. |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by haul: 12:36pm On May 18, 2015 |
maggilove: Well if you think that will be your advice to your daughter,I applaud your acumen. |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by maggilove(f): 12:40pm On May 18, 2015 |
haul:Everybody has a past, do I know everything about my daughter's past too? |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by haul: 12:47pm On May 18, 2015 |
maggilove: Sure, but we should lay a good present so we won't have a bad past we do regret,I'm not a saint but I can gallantly tell you I don't have a past, have argued this with a family member before but dropped it when he aint seeing the picture I'm painting.so I will comply with your words madam. Do you know everything about your daughters past? It shows how responsible and attention we dedicate to our children if we can't tell some kinda behavior they could do or not. |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by ocelot2006(m): 1:02pm On May 18, 2015 |
SagePerv: You make it sound as if it's easy. Dude, it's not. Anyway, if the poor dude cant handle it, let him move on. At least thank God it wasnt revealed much later. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by ocelot2006(m): 1:05pm On May 18, 2015 |
tempilo2k: THANK YOU!! Youve said it all. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by Ursinmind(m): 1:10pm On May 18, 2015 |
I don't know why people bring matter like this to Nairaland. Man this need only your decision but if I am you and I really love her I will go ahead and marry her |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by Charly68: 1:13pm On May 18, 2015 |
Take het for deliverance first because her case is a spiritual case..I have seen ladies in form two that are involved in that naughty affairs..had to help them by casting out the demons.. They struggled to come out of it but they were helpless until they opened up. The bible says Confession shall lead to salvation. It is as simple as that..the demon could be stubborn but they bow to the power in the name of Jesus..Leaving her is not the issue but helping her is the real issue..even if you won't marry her again,help her to come out of the mess completely . As for the other love-vendor,cut him off from both of you & let him know you will trace him out with police if he dares to send you any stinker again. |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by Ujulabelle: 1:37pm On May 18, 2015 |
Do what ur heart tells you to do. But remember, she was the one who told u when u asked. What if she didn't tell u at all? Would u have known? Everyone has a past including you and me. The problem isn't how our ugly past looks like. The problem is what do we do when our past kept calling. Your decision today determines ur womans tomorrow. Decide well and ask if she was ur sister, would u throw her away, disown her or take her back? SHALOM |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by Zahara78(f): 2:09pm On May 18, 2015 |
Why do you like pretending you men? Why is it that you like 3sums/ lesbian videos yet you discriminate when you are confronted by a real lesbian situation. |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by wheezyoung(m): 2:16pm On May 18, 2015 |
pukena:its all in the past.... She even confessed....its just like you as a guy,am sure you've asked for a ladies nude before and you've sent yours before....that was her sexuality back then not anymore...she's been remorseful ever since then showing regret...all.left to you to take thr big step |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by wheezyoung(m): 2:17pm On May 18, 2015 |
hazydon:typical Nigerian mentality ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by whoisuche: 2:20pm On May 18, 2015 |
If she has truly repented and you fell u can live with her all the rest of your life no problem. But let her go for deliverance first |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by amacastel: 2:38pm On May 18, 2015 |
XBLadez: U are so funny no be small threatening of our lives lolzzzz |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by Ifebazz(m): 3:32pm On May 18, 2015 |
pukena:Tales by moonlight. You met a girl in December, proposed to her in January, found out she was a lesbian in February, now want to ditch her in March. Clap for yourself. How does it sound to you? My friend continue. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Was A Lesbian. Should I Still Marry her? by Ifebazz(m): 3:37pm On May 18, 2015 |
whoisuche:Deliverance from what sef, a bad habit? Have you delivered yourself from the gossiping, envy and jealousy, bigotry, hate, gluttony, obesity, pilfering, plagiarism etc that you do? You guys can form one stupid holy holy for this country eh. Very annoying. Deliverance from what? 1 Like |
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