ronald4lif:
Well, it is because a lot of men (and women) are becoming more aware that love is a farce and relationship/marriage its all about individual interest. So when a man is of a marriageable age he becomes very conscious of most women he comes across and is suspicious of whatever moves they make. He develops this mindset that women are after his wealth and unfortunately many of them lives true to type as they never fails to bombard him with one request or another.

Other factors are compromise. Lot of people are becoming too selfish that they don't picture themselves sacrificing their lifestyle and splitting their income with someone else for life. How will he close from work everyday and head home straight away without hanging out with mates?. How will he have to inform her of every of his movement and whereabout daily and each time he fails to quarrel might spring up? etc. A lot of guys who are scared of marriage have phobia for responsibility. Marriage comes with a lot of responsibility.

Recently the most fearful factor is that of alimony payments and rights. Having to split ones asset should a marriage end up in a divorce. No man would want to hustle all his life and build a reasonable savings for himself then get married and wife files for a divorce in a few years, splitting your savings into two. In some cases, they even kick the man out of his home.

The rate at which people get married will keep dwindling and divorce will keep skyrocketing until people are able to sacrifice and love for the right reasons. Not with the money syndrome currently being practised.

sunnydayasaba:



Very through my brother, I once had a girl i planned to marry latest next year by Gods grace, But after letting her know my intentions, she turned me to a MAGA...At first her demand increased, am not bother abt spending on her and giving her money and gift, but what broke the d carmels back once when she told me am suppose to just be sending her 40% of my pay check to her account for upkeep since she's not working and she private needs.....That was d end of it all....I ran as fast as my leg could carry me...lol

onomeglo:
Lol spouse scarcity abi money scarcity ,most guys wanna make it big before settling down,

BlissB:
Yah...i agree with u....d major reason is money,in d sense dat if d guy nor get moni d babe nor go gree

onomeglo:
yes oogirls don wise up now too

Jollyjoy:
even u too abi?

onomeglo:
hahhaahhahaha girls are not smiling oo

Jollyjoy:
yex na. Who wan live 4 mud house?

onomeglo:
hhahahahha certainly,no be our girls of dis generation

Hiploko:
Let's discuss this please