Nicklouse:
This is my second nairaland account and not my original just for the sake of this post and other stuff. I recently married this beautiful 24 years old Lady about 4 months ago. We married in a church and the wedding was great. Our honeymoon was also great.

She is always demanding sex.. When i say NO she would romance and seduce me so much that i have no choice but to give in up to 8 times a day. Especially weekends. During the working days, she would ensure we copulate at least 3 times in the morning before she leaves for work and up to 3 times at Night before we sleep and sometimes in the car in traffic as our work places are very close so we leave together.

I am getting tired of this. The day she came visiting to my work place.. we had sex there in my office. I dont know whats in her head right now i need help. Nairalanders please help me.

I reported to her family they have ignored my complaints.. She is a very young, beautiful and irresistible girl so i can barely control my self even when i do not want it. I threatened to divorce her, she said i cannot divorce her just like that. She is right, i cannot. I wont dare judging by the family she is coming from. An iron born family.

I am now angry, sad, and confused.. She is even sleeping by my side as i type this i am sure by 5:00am tomorrow, another round.

HOW YOU CAN RELEASE 8 TIMES IN A DAY? I THINK U LIE BUT HOW COME? DO YOU RELEASE EVERY 30 SECONDS? .......... FOR ME, I LAST AT LEAST 20 MINUTES IN THE FIRST ROUND AND MORE IN OTHER ROUNDS .........SOMETIMES, I HAVE TO FEEL LIKE CRYING AND BEGGING MYSELF TO LEAVE IT SO EARLY.

Its your fault man. u need medical check up.....im sure you dont last longer than 2 minutes. she is a human being and entitled to satisfaction on bed by her man. you are lucky she is not cheating on you.....
AS A MARIJUANA OR WEED ACTIVIST, I RECOMMEND MJ FOR YOU. IF YOU CANT SMOKE IT, CHEW IT.........IF YOU CANT CHEW IT, COOKING WITH YOUR NORMAL MEALS AND YOUR LIFE+UR WIFE'S LIFE WILL NEVER REMAIN THE SAME.

You need to go with her to seek the help of a counsellor to know what the problem is exactly. It might be running in her family since her family members have Decided to be quuiet about and d problem can also be psycological

KiidaACE:
Rub cameroon pepper and aboniki balm on the next condom you wear..
bro,she's gonna stop nagging you for sex,i sweeaar.
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You can thank me later.
i serious die

Like say na wetin u dey do b dis? Chai, women don suffer!!!

Tell her u r leaving for offshore jobs so that gateman will helpout

No maTter how true or faulse the story is one thing is in everything is an atom of truth in it. The amount of times the lady demands for sex shouldn't threnthen u. She is ur wife and she is active u should be proud of that. You will still complain if it was the other way round. Its unavoidable. But put ur mind to it. Eat well take fruit and enjoy it.

Nicklouse:
This is my second nairaland account and not my original just for the sake of this post and other stuff. I recently married this beautiful 24 years old Lady about 4 months ago. We married in a church and the wedding was great. Our honeymoon was also great.

She is always demanding sex.. When i say NO she would romance and seduce me so much that i have no choice but to give in up to 8 times a day. Especially weekends. During the working days, she would ensure we copulate at least 3 times in the morning before she leaves for work and up to 3 times at Night before we sleep and sometimes in the car in traffic as our work places are very close so we leave together.

I am getting tired of this. The day she came visiting to my work place.. we had sex there in my office. I dont know whats in her head right now i need help. Nairalanders please help me.

I reported to her family they have ignored my complaints.. She is a very young, beautiful and irresistible girl so i can barely control my self even when i do not want it. I threatened to divorce her, she said i cannot divorce her just like that. She is right, i cannot. I wont dare judging by the family she is coming from. An iron born family.

I am now angry, sad, and confused.. She is even sleeping by my side as i type this i am sure by 5:00am tomorrow, another round.

Perhaps, she's on a quest to get pregnant as soon as possible.
Anyway, you should discuss with her again.
Many men would wish to be in your shoes, but I know it can't be easy to be having sex more than 5 times everyday. I can't even imagine myself going through that exhaustion.

MissSlimbody:

I have also heard a pastor say it.
So, don't conclude that he lied.

..And he added that for this reason, the wife demands for sex everytym n everywhere, even in the office..Abeg let's not deceive ourselves.. I know sex happens in the office buh the pastor won't encourage that. They are addults and should understand that the pastor was only trying to tell them not to starve eachother of sex in marriage. And not to have sex everywhere like dogs..

babadee1:


The pastor is right, a married couple can have sex anywhere and at any time.

even during sermon in church?

Even in Traffic o boi itz getting out of control ooo. yu go soon dey act porn!

this are just lies..... traffic...!!!? may god punish ur mouth.. u yarn like a kid with fantasy....... all this are ur fantasies.. i know Cus Av been there....... Mtsww next topic please

don't agree with this kind of seduction. if you follow her, you will go thin. that's only head and neck will remain in your body. shakala woman you think say na food...

sylvalord:
go back and read again

my advice is take TRAmADoL and I bet you, she will beg u to stop...

Hello bro, its nt actually strange to hear this cos what many marriages r experiencing today is even terrible than this but the truth is u didn't knw her too well before marrying her. From my knowledge on this, many ladies that started having a continuous sex at a very early age (13, 14 even 15, 16) tends to enjoy sex and demands for it more than the ladies that started having it at their 20s and ur wify might be one of the victims.
Bro no 1 solution by me is pray to God to change her cos there is nothing God can not do. 2, pls seek medical advice frm medical experts their could medications or any kind of solution to reduce the urge atleast. Pls don't go for one that will kill the urge o bro so that u don't start complaining again.
U can't continue like this or else hmmmm.... It is well.

Nicklouse:


Well, that one is another level but i dont think that can cause this. There are so many girls who are not virgins and yet they are responsible at home

Funny story, truly. What you might want to do is rather than judging your spouse, start doing some research and understand her better. The better you arm yourself with reasons (health or otherwise) for her condition, the less you speculate and are able to come to terms with her situation. Ideally, you should be visiting a gyneacologist but as Nigerians are wont to do, you are visiting a Pastor instead.

Some men and women have high drives, while for others, it takes them a whole lot of time to get excited and ejaculate. In your wife's case, she has a very high drive and this is what you need to understand and know that for a very long time, it is unlikely to change. Also, it is not a bad thing except that when you engage in pleasure without conscience, you tend to lose the essence of getting involved in such an activity. From watching National Geographic, I am aware that there are several medical conditions that cause the make up for people to behave in certain ways, e.g. there are women who get aroused and have orgasms every 30-45 mins due to a medical condition. They mostly are socially awkward and cannot go out due to their condition. Imagine that.

On the other hand, like someone suggested in an earlier post, you need to get both of you involved in quality activities such as joining a health club or social club with facilities. The only challenge with this is that if you are not performing your duties as at when due, she might get other capable male to help her out.

You also mentioned that while you dated for 2 years, you never had a clue that she likes sex - I find this very hard to believe except you mean to say you were not listening or taking her seriously when she referred to several scenarios. I wish you the best.

pls move this tin to the jokes section, or better still the talees by moonlight section...

Nicklouse:
This is my second nairaland account and not my original just for the sake of this post and other stuff. I recently married this beautiful 24 years old Lady about 4 months ago. We married in a church and the wedding was great. Our honeymoon was also great.

She is always demanding sex.. When i say NO she would romance and seduce me so much that i have no choice but to give in up to 8 times a day. Especially weekends. During the working days, she would ensure we copulate at least 3 times in the morning before she leaves for work and up to 3 times at Night before we sleep and sometimes in the car in traffic as our work places are very close so we leave together.

I am getting tired of this. The day she came visiting to my work place.. we had sex there in my office. I dont know whats in her head right now i need help. Nairalanders please hel

I am now angry, sad, and confused.. She is even sleeping by my side as i type this i am sure by 5:00am tomorrow, another round.

Childish post fraught with lies and exaggeration

Op you no well oh. You no date her?
Abi na pastor prophecy you take marry her?
You suppose know na? Abi you no bleep her during courtship?

bros, enjoy it while it last....i promise you, a day would come when it will be you that begs her for bleeping. When "little you(s)" starts springing up, bet she will be too preoccupied with them.....to start asking you for incessant bleeping! Besides, what you are trying to stop, is what some marriages mare lacking....enjoy oh!

midolian:
..And he added that for this reason, the wife demands for sex everytym n everywhere, even in the office..Abeg let's not deceive ourselves.. I know sex happens in the office buh the pastor won't encourage that. They are addults and should understand that the pastor was only trying to tell them not to starve eachother of sex in marriage. And not to have sex everywhere like dogs..

Exactly, they didn't get the real message the pastor passed across.

Morning sickness and other discomforts will likely make her anxious and think less about it. Yes pregnant women enjoy it, but she at least will end up having a baby.

braine:
You make sense. But don't you think pregnancy may increase her urge with the hormones and all?

Chanchit:
Well, lemme pretend as if I believe this story. Bro are you also a "no sex before marriage" guy. Or u don dey do 3-4 rounds dey form king kong before the Marriage, if so, you should know u r about to marry a nympho. Bro make I no lie you, if u continue like this you no fit watch the next european league season weh go start by August.

You are a big clown!

Bro how long do last on a round of love making?

Her need for it may be because of not getting satisfied.
Get her to climax at least once and you will get your needed rest.
She might just be longing for a simple climax. If you ask me, she is very inexperienced and
Married to an inexperience man.

Fallacy

Dude,from your write up,it is obvious your wife is a nyphomanic.To help contain this hyper sexuality;Get her a s.extoy and learn the art of cunnilingus.If these thing doesn't work,guy take her to see a shrink

bros yeh,I swear an lie you dey talk.commonsensically n healthwise you shd av become a ghost of yourself.Abeg comot jo

Force u asin ...rape u?

Sit ur wife down n talk to her ask her. Certain questions I strongly believe she is a lesbian ask her if she likes porn n d type she likes,anyways u hv to devise ways to satisfy her witout drainin urself MouthAction is one if u dnt knw hw to do it find out thru porn movies n learn it n eat well o mk u no go die

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All the best

Nicklouse:
This is my second nairaland account and not my original just for the sake of this post and other stuff. I recently married this beautiful 24 years old Lady about 4 months ago. We married in a church and the wedding was great. Our honeymoon was also great.

She is always demanding sex.. When i say NO she would romance and seduce me so much that i have no choice but to give in up to 8 times a day. Especially weekends. During the working days, she would ensure we copulate at least 3 times in the morning before she leaves for work and up to 3 times at Night before we sleep and sometimes in the car in traffic as our work places are very close so we leave together.

I am getting tired of this. The day she came visiting to my work place.. we had sex there in my office. I dont know whats in her head right now i need help. Nairalanders please help me.

I reported to her family they have ignored my complaints.. She is a very young, beautiful and irresistible girl so i can barely control my self even when i do not want it. I threatened to divorce her, she said i cannot divorce her just like that. She is right, i cannot. I wont dare judging by the family she is coming from. An iron born family.

I am now angry, sad, and confused.. She is even sleeping by my side as i type this i am sure by 5:00am tomorrow, another round.

What kind of man complains about making endless love to his wife? MTCHEEEEWWWWWWW!!!!! Common shut up and go and get some Alomo bitters and do your duty! You are not ready for prime time!!!!! .......Hold on, are you saying you need assistance

Congrats bro, u just married a sex machine. You may kiss the bride