Jollyjoy:
eh? Eh? So ur country girls are the worst time of girls abi? Omo asha oooo. Pls o, dnt just generalize dat fact abeg u hear, nigerian chicks are the best.
Smile!

People like you are the kind The Son of Mark is referring to.

searching4lovee:
[b]

When i keep preaching about abstainance from Nigerian girls and african girls in general, many woman wrappers and rude girls on this forum called for my head on a plate. Every trending event nowadays justifies my position on this issue and i will not budge. What on EARTH does LARA want from oshiomole if not money, power and fame Am sure many Nigerian girls are in their rooms biting their tongues wishing they were in Lara's shoes. Would Lara agree to marry Oshiomole if he was a secondary school principal recieving 180k monthly level 16 salary? can we say she was attracted by the handsomeness and 6 packs of oshiomole? Or is it his british accent? His senorous voice? His height? You bittches are all hungry gold diggers no matter your african nationality. SMH

No wonder the American were stunned about the shameful wedding and from sane peoples point of view she is nothing but a shameless gold digger. True love can only be found outside the shores of africa cos they appreciate love and know its true meaning. If you think you have a girl who loves you and is married to you, wait till the day you're down financially and see her show her true color.

NO TRUE LOVE IN AFRICA ESPECIALLY AMONG NIGERIAN WOMEN.

#team foreign girls [/b]

You couldn't have said it better bro. Your above post is the reason why am afraid to get married. I'd rather make enough money and f**k as many, since it is money most of them want. Now I understand when you say Team foreign girls.

Raalsalghul:
People like you are the kind The Son of Mark is referring to.

guy abeg wel. Am just saying d truth abeg.

sylaz:
The only thing I find disturbing is that not a single girl finds it disturbing compared to guys where some are for and others against.

I swear to you so far with the threads that is discussing about the oshoz marriage and I haven't seen just one girl to condemn it and call it as it is and it really left me in awe because that's shows the level of moral degradation that our society have gone especially the girls. rather they're supporting it with flimsy excuses and gradually this is how immorality starts its reigns, an e.g is the rate of homosexuals in the western world it started like this and after some supports and few years just look at how the have fked up the world including naija where a mad man now toasts a fellow man, ladies please try to find the little sense that the hair driers left for you guys now for futures sakes.

Would any of you give their daughter's hand in marriage to a man as old as osho? yeah they're adults but let's call a spade a spade without sentiments. From my assertions I think most of the nairaland girls are hookers and with then right price you will get them to do anything you want.

@sweetcocoa @pickabeau what do you think?

pinkiberry:
what if the woman rily loved him? is it cos she is white,pls lets not encourage racism

Did you just ask that in all honesty.
I think love is gradually having a new meaning.

Can you for once pretend not everyone in society is stupid?

To think oshomole further rub insult on our collective sensibility by calling her out as a virgin.

To me how do a principle lady like that save up her virginity for an old man like osho, lol it must be really love.

pinkiberry:
what if the woman rily loved him? is it cos she is white,pls lets not encourage racism

Their is no racism there. To me the main reason she was not tag the name a action truely deserve d was because of Cheer curtsey Of her foreign status.

Trust me if it was one of our own, it would have been worst

ekemini84:


Did you just ask that in all honesty.
I think love is gradually having a new meaning.

Can you for once pretend not everyone in society is stupid?

To think oshomole further rub insult on our collective sensibility by calling her out as a virgin.

To me how do a principle lady like that save up her virginity for an old man like osho, lol it must be really love.

i guess she married him for love n fame just like bianca ojukwu

ekemini84:


Their is no racism there. To me the main reason she was not tag the name a action truely deserve d was because of Cheer curtsey Of her foreign status.

Trust me if it was one of our own, it would have been worst

ok den

ekemini84:
I discussed this oshomole marriage thing with some female friends of mine and I was surprise the number of support I got in favour of this woman.

To me it reveals the predominant consciousness of many women in this day and age hence, the overwhelming support for her. The obssessesion for money by women for me is reaching near tipping point to say the least. I want someone to convince me that this marriage is about "love".

Many girls I spoke to seem not to see anything wrong with her actions- but when I asked them if they would marry the same man if he was broke?. ..well let's just say they laugh it off as joke!

I guess all is well that ends well.

wait so, these women are greedy because they are the ones who ask the men to marry them abi? Arent you the same people who always tell women not to dismiss their suitors anyhow? When they do you call them foolish! When they are over 30 and single you call them old cargo, but when they accept Oshiomhole's proposal you shout greedy!
Leave them alone and face your own life

Jollyjoy:
guy abeg wel. Am just saying d truth abeg.

You are not saying the truth. You are just saying what you think is the truth.

Have you ever been in pain for so long that it becomes a reference point when people are describing you? you should read this, comment and share
http://bolanlesnuptialtales..com/2015/05/wheres-my-pain.html?spref=tw

Moana:
wait so, these women are greedy because they are the ones who ask the men to marry them abi? Arent you the same people who always tell women not to dismiss their suitors anyhow? When they do you call them foolish! When they are over 30 and single you call them old cargo, but when they accept Oshiomhole's proposal you shout greedy!
Leave them alone and face your own life

I CNT argue with you, cus it will be sought of like parking in an handicap spot. Just wont feel right!

I guess all I can do right now is wish you all the best in this mental/ psychological challenge that has place such a huge demand on you.

ekemini84:


I CNT argue with you, cus it will be sought of like parking in an handicap spot. Just wont feel right!

I guess all I can do right now is wish you all the best in this mental/ psychological challenge that has place such a huge demand on you.

Make they keep rejecting you and keep marrying those your father and grandfather's age olodo!

pinkiberry:
what if the woman rily loved him? is it cos she is white,pls lets not encourage racism

they don't believe in love neither do they believe in marriage they believe anything bad about women getting married to anything good

baralatie:

they don't believe in love neither do they believe in marriage they believe anything bad about women getting married to anything good

lolz ok

Moana:

Make they keep rejecting you and keep marrying those your father and grandfather's age olodo!

Reject me..How?

ekemini84:


Reject me..How?

th same way they have been doing it since

Moana:
th same way they have been doing it since

Eya! Poor you!
Well I CNT say I have not been rejected..but then again I can't say I noticed!

ekemini84:


Eya! Poor you!
Well I CNT say I have not been rejected..but then again I can't say I noticed!

issokay shame will not let you admit it.

Moana:
issokay shame will not let you admit it.

You be very funny old mama!..lol

Y i go shame to admitted?
Even Chris brown was at one point rejected by what's DT craze girl name sef?...riri!

na come me_ ordinary mortal.
Abeg no let me laugh, I de turn soup.

ekemini84:


You be very funny old mama!..lol

Y i go shame to admitted?
Even Chris brown was at one point rejected by what's DT craze girl name sef?...riri!

na come me_ ordinary mortal.
Abeg no let me laugh, I de turn soup.

you look 35-38 and that would make me 11-14yrs younger than you Uncle Ekemini let girls marry whoever they want to marry. It is not your cross to carry. A poor man marrying a rich woman is not seen as greed, rather u will say that the woman knows the real meaning of love but if a poor woman marries a rich men you will bash her till kingdom come. Why cant you mind your own business? Or you want these women to marry you instead and leave all these ogas to sleep alone at night?

Moana:
you look 35-38 and that would make me 11-14yrs younger than you Uncle Ekemini let girls marry whoever they want to marry. It is not your cross to carry. A poor man marrying a rich woman is not seen as greed, rather u will say that the woman knows the real meaning of love but if a poor woman marries a rich men you will bash her till kingdom come. Why cant you mind your own business? Or you want these women to marry you instead and leave all these ogas to sleep alone at night?

I see now why am struggling to get my point across.
Thanks.

ekemini84:


I see now why am struggling to get my point across.
Thanks.

would you marry the most ugly girl (with a great personality) in your area just to prove that marriage is about love?

Moana:
would you marry the most ugly girl (with a great personality) in your area just to prove that marriage is about love?

Am glad you were the one that brought up the age thing. For making 35_38..what more can I say ..but amen.

I won't set outrightly to look for an ugly girl..no!
But

Moana:
would you marry the most ugly girl (with a great personality) in your area just to prove that marriage is about love?

Love is not one of the things a relationship needs, its the only thing a relationship needs..money becomes boring, looks fade..but love...

Now abide this is three things; faith, hope and love_but the greatest is love.

I won't marry an ugly girl, but I certainly won't set out looking for a pretty one either. I think am way pass looks for ssrz relationship.

ekemini84:


Love is not one of the things a relationship needs, its the only thing a relationship needs..money becomes boring, looks fade..but love...

Now abide this is three things; faith, hope and love_but the greatest is love.

l won't marry an ugly girl

don't looks fade also? Looks like u like preaching what you dont practice. BTW if good investments are made money never fades, you cannot say the same about beauty unless you can afford cosmetic and other plastic surgeries.

I certainly won't set out looking for a pretlty oe either. I think am way pass looks for ssrz relationship.

you are not willing to marry an ugly girl regardless of her personality and other women are willing to marry an ugly man so long he comes with financial stability. Lets leave it at choice and not call it greed

ekemini84:


Am glad you were the one that brought up the age thing. For making 35_38..what more can I say ..but amen.

you called me an old lady so i don't see why my comment become a problem again?

I won't set outrightly to look for an ugly girl..no!
But

and some women will not settle for porverty, they would rather be in love and still afford trips to Paris the same way you would rather be in love and still have someone flaunt by your side.

Moana:
you called me an old lady so i don't see why my comment become a problem again?

and some women will not settle for porverty, they would rather be in love and still afford trips to Paris the same way you would rather be in love and still have someone flaunt by your side.

A mature man is not always looking for a beautiful woman to flaunt. A real woman gains her beauty as time pass by. Once you understand what a woman is to you or has become to you, you would flaunt her anyway no matter weather she is ugly or not.

Permit me to add here that to me, Beauty is a much more abstract concept to relate to. It can be expanded or contracted depending on the context. Hence we say beauty is in the eyes of the boholder. If one is to relate to beauty, its advisable that one does not only do so from a physical perspective. It speak volume of one levels of reasoning/spirituality when they can only relate to the material(outside).

That's why we say most men/women are not mature (mentally/spiritual) for marriage because they tend to relate more with the outside.

This might surprise you, but marriage is a much more spiritual affair than it is a physical thing. That's why we say it a joining of souls. Again not everyone is ready for it.

ekemini84:


A mature man is not always looking for a beautiful woman to flaunt. A real woman gains her beauty as time pass by. Once you understand what a woman is to you or has become to you, you would flaunt her anyway no matter weather she is ugly or not.

Permit me to add here that to me, Beauty is a much more abstract concept to relate to. It can be expanded or contracted depending on the context. Hence we say beauty is in the eyes of the boholder. If one is to relate to beauty, its advisable that one does not only do so from a physical perspective. It speak volume of one levels of reasoning/spirituality when they can only relate to the material(outside).

That's why we say most men/women are not mature (mentally/spiritual) for marriage because they tend to relate more with the outside.

This might surprise you, but marriage is a much more spiritual affair than it is a physical thing. That's why we say it a joining of souls. Again not everyone is ready for it.

this guy is beefing a hot girl getting married!
this guy just blow lie about beauty!
wwwhhhaaaaaaattttt!

oooooohhhhhhhj!
you jealous dude!

seriously!!!

baralatie:

this guy is beefing a hot girl getting married!
this guy just blow lie about beauty!
wwwhhhaaaaaaattttt!

oooooohhhhhhhj!
you jealous dude!

seriously!!!

No broda not beefing or lieing.

I sit with my father every now so often. He tells me stuff, and whatever he tells me about life and women always seem different from what I hear whenever I sit with my age grade. Difficult to reconcile both.
Its difficult to criticise this day without coming off as an hater.

This are public figures now and whatever they do have social consequences. If you do not criticize it someone else will pick it up..and another... And so on...

Before you know everyone is doing it, and suddenly its OK!

Am critizing the act itself, not the persons involve please let's be clear.

I