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9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by Nobody: 7:24pm On May 22, 2015
Most people do somethings that will make them want to cheat on their partner without knowing it themselves. Those actions that leads to disloyalty are explained below.
1. REGULAR ONLINE PHONE COMMUNICATION WITH AN OPPOSITE SEX FRIEND - Regular texting, calls, e-mails or IM's conversation with a friend of opposite sex build strong emotion bond which can lead to emotional infidelity. This kind of emotion starts out innocently and increases over a period of time. The more you talk to someone, the more you get to like them.
2. FLIRTING- Casual flirting with someone of opposite sex may seems harmless but it's the kind of situation that could easily get out of hand. If the other person finds you attractive and vice versa. things can easily escalate to levels you didn't expect.
3. HANGING OUT WITH FRIENDS WHO ARE CHEATING ON THEIR PARTNER- Never underestimate the power of peer pressure. If your closest friend are cheating on their partners. you may start mirroring their bad attitude. Association leads to assimilation. If you are hanging around a cheating friend, it wont be long before you are cheating too.
4. TALKING ABOUT SEX- Sometimes engaging in an innocent conversation with someone of the opposite sex (even the same sex) about sexual topic can arouse the other person's sexual interest in you or makes them you have sexual interest in them as misinterpreted by the listener.
5. GETTING YOURSELF INTO COMPROMISING SITUATION- Things before you act. somethings can lay the groundwork for things that can get out of hand. Stopping by an opposite sex friend's apartment when you know the two of you will be there alone. Or inviting an opposite sex work-make or classmate to stop by your house. Your intention may be honourable but things can easily turn that you didnt anticipate. Dont put yourself in this kind of situation. Why tempt fate?
6. COMPLAINING ABOUT YOUR PARTNER TO AN OPPOSITE SEX- Sometimes if you are having a problem with your partner, you may seek out a shoulder to cry on or a listening ear. It's not a good idea to unload your burden to a friend of opposite sex. Your listener may interprete your complaint as hint that you are opening an affair with them. If you have a problem with your partner, discuss it with eachother or seek professional help.
7. ASKING TOO MANY FAVOUR FROM AN OPPOSITE SEX- God give us senses but there is a sense we ought to give ourself and that is Common Sense. The one our parents or teachers teaches us is manners but the ones we teach ourselves is common sense which is not really common. You can ask a favour from an opposite sex but asking it too much is improper. The opposite sex might think you are trying to get to them or your are in love with them. And if the opposite sex make any silly move toward you, you may find it difficult to stop him/her because you wont want to offend that person due to the favour they have do you.
8. SOCIALIZING WITH A PARTICULAR OPPOSITE SEX
9. SATISFYING YOUR ABOUT ONLINE DATING
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Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by Cutehector(m): 7:25pm On May 22, 2015
Land for sale
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by agarawu23(m): 7:25pm On May 22, 2015
nice one bro

No 6 on point.
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by Nobody: 7:28pm On May 22, 2015
undecided
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by Nobody: 7:28pm On May 22, 2015
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Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by BoiledCorn: 7:28pm On May 22, 2015
angry angry
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by Tallesty1(m): 7:29pm On May 22, 2015
Discussing sex is not innocent even if you are discussing it with your parish priest.
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by docmoses(m): 7:32pm On May 22, 2015
space booked
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by Nobody: 7:33pm On May 22, 2015
agarawu23:
Agarawu.. this fresh evening
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by Princecalm(m): 7:37pm On May 22, 2015
always going to pastor's house when he is not at home claiming to go for counselling.
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by agarawu23(m): 7:39pm On May 22, 2015
Thugnificient:
Agarawu.. this fresh evening
I have modified.

modify your write up by spacing your points.
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by Nobody: 8:17pm On May 22, 2015
agarawu23:
I have modified.
modify your write up by spacing your points.
oh thanks
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by ojaydedon(m): 8:58pm On May 22, 2015
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by akindelejames: 10:07pm On May 22, 2015
wahala dey oo
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by MsBliss(f): 10:35pm On May 22, 2015
A cheat will always remain a cheat











old habits die hard you know
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by Nobody: 11:11pm On May 22, 2015
akindelejames:
wahala dey oo
which kind wahala again?
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by amokeme(f): 11:17pm On May 22, 2015
Thugnificient:

3. HANGING OUT WITH FRIENDS WHO ARE CHEATING ON THEIR PARTNER- Never underestimate the power of peer pressure. If your closest friend are cheating on their partners. you may start mirroring their bad attitude. Association leads to assimilation. If you are hanging around a cheating friend, it wont be long before you are cheating too.
I don't agree with this one. I don't believe friends can influence me unto doing something that is not right... For me to give in, means I secretly like what they are doing, but just looking for someone to push/encourage me to do it so that, I'll have someone to blame when things go bad
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by Nobody: 11:25pm On May 22, 2015
amokeme:
I don't agree with this one. I don't believe friends can influence me unto doing something that is not right... For me to give in, means I secretly like what they are doing, but just looking for someone to push/encourage me to do it so that, I'll have someone to blame when things go bad
that's why i said innocent action.. you won't even believe it by the time it happens.. people who are in that situation used to say this too
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by versashee: 11:55pm On May 22, 2015
another List ... oh! holy cankerworms
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by KAPOVee: 12:46am On May 23, 2015
In case
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by Nobody: 12:55am On May 23, 2015
wow....never though thugnificent could write this. And i mean this guy below

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Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by kenedy175(m): 8:27am On May 23, 2015
Thank God I don't indulge in any of those practices grin
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by Nobody: 3:53pm On May 23, 2015
shockwave91:
wow....never though thugnificent could write this. And i mean this guy below
but sir.. i'm not a cartoon.
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by Nobody: 4:19pm On May 23, 2015
Thugnificient:
but sir.. i'm not a cartoon.
lolxxx. It's just dat i'm a huge fan of ur cartoon monicker. No vex grin
Re: 9 Innocent Actions That Can Lead To Infidelity by IamLEGEND1: 4:37pm On May 23, 2015

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